Talk to him about it…
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If you’re only making him sandwiches, He most likely misses his mamas cooking 
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Don’t waste your time making his lunch. He’s a grown man and can feed himself. He doesn’t appreciate it so don’t bother 
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Stop making him lunches and let him eat what he wants you’re not his mother he’s a grown man and will eat what he wants either in front of u or behind your back.
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Really your making him his lunch,he’s a grown man for gods sake,let him make,or buy it himself!!
LOL and he sucks at hiding the evidence too lol he needs to throw the sandwich completely away along with fast food wrappers and you barely wouldn’t of noticed tbh lol
If your husband is anything like mine, unless you’re making a foot long sub stacked to the brim, the sandwich lunch you’re making isn’t enough to put a dent in his hunger. I’d try meal prepping bigger lunches, they make lunch boxes he can plug into his truck and reheat them if he doesn’t have access to a microwave
Honestly, don’t make them then. I mean he’s a grown man. If he don’t eat them what’s the point.
Sounds like me ex lol
Pretty disrespectful of him to do that without saying why 
I’d be pretty miffed. He’s an adult and can do that if he chooses but if i am taking time out of my busy day to make him something for lunch I expect him to eat it. Especially when he asks me to.
In your situation the best thing to do would be stop making his lunches. That way there’s not waste on both ends.
You have a control issue. I’d never tell my husband he can’t eat what he wants. Especially when he’s making his own money. My husband chooses to eat on the go and on occasion will have me pack a lunch if he’s tired of fast food. I’m more than okay with that! Maybe your husband doesn’t want a sandwich everyday. Focus on your own lunch
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Stop doing it ! Simple 
I mean yes stop making him lunches but she said that he’s wasting money and fast food I can understand that there are plenty of times where you can get an entire week’s worth of meals with just what you would spend on fast food in a day so I can understand that I make my husband lunch but at the same time he’s so active nine times out of 10 he eats the lunch and gets something to eat he only does it if we have the money to spare but sometimes even I think $8 is too much to spend on a sandwich. but if he is dead set on getting fast food then you’re going to just have to try and work that into your budget and save the food for you there’s no reason on wasting more food
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My ex was a logging truck driver.
I used to get up at 2 am to make his lunches “fresh” instead of the night before.
Until I learned he was trading out my lunches to his brother for crap food. (My husband had diabetes and high blood pressure, so I was making “healthy” lunches, and he was eating hostess pies and buying king sized Butterfinger candy bars).
I never made him another lunch after I found that out.
If he can’t appreciate the effort, I can’t be bothered to get up at 2 am to make his lunches. I still got up to see him off, but I wasn’t going to waste our food to feed his Brother, who made the same money as my husband and was single… while we were feeding a family of 4, and his brother hated me.
Screw that lol.
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If this is a true question then an easy answer wld be keep the lunch for yourself. 2 issues solved at once.
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Don’t bother making his lunch…you could collect sooner on his life insurance. Men are so thoughtless.
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Really people, the man has health issues and doesn’t appreciate that his wife is trying to help him. He will be expecting her to help him when he has to deal with serious problems as he gets older though…
Stop making him lunches he doesn’t want to eat maybe?
My question would be is it the amount of money he is spending eating out or the fact that he doesn’t eat what you made? If it’s the money, discuss that with him and agree upon a weekly budget. If it’s what you made…well, he might just not like your lunches. Talk to him.
First, stop making his lunch. Second, make him bring his own dishes in. You can’t tell him what he can and can’t eat.
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It sounds like your issue is that he’s spending a bunch of money (the amount of money it takes to get fast food every day is definitely negligible to some people but NOT ALL PEOPLE, trust me, nobody should be making assumptions or judgments about someone else’s financial situation) and his behavior is really ungrateful and that bothers you (again, it wouldn’t faze some people who happen not to have an emotional sore spot there, but it is a rather thoughtless gesture and it doesn’t seem unreasonable to be put out by it, mothers work so hard and often a little appreciation is key, seems like the exact opposite of that is happening here). If you were hell-bent on controlling your husband’s diet that would be kind of over-stepping, but there’s not even a mention here of that. Your frustration seems very valid. If he’s a mature adult (you married him so at the very least you probably know whether he is or he isn’t…) you should be able to have a conversation with him about this. In a rather relentless world full of scary, often unmovable problems, this one seems solvable. To be honest he probably hasn’t even thought of the fact that it bothers you, yes that’s a little oblivious, guys are like that sometimes. Do yourself a favor and just talk to him openly so you can have a little peace of mind.
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Maybe he doesn’t like what you’re making him and doesn’t have the heart to tell you🤷
It’s pretty simple save money by stop making him lunches
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Stop making his lunch…
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Stop making him lunch
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Then why the hell are continuing to make him lunches. He’s a grown ass man who can take care of himself. Make your own lunch and move along.
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Stop making his lunch🤷♀️
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Simply dont waste anymore money and dont make a lunch 
hes a grown man if he wants hot food he should be entitled to that instead of you moaning after all hes working for the money your the one wasting the money not him
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In the end he is a grown adult and can eat what he wants and spend what he wants.
But i would find out how many days he’s eating and show him how much he is spending. If it was making us or our kids go Without I’d tell him to Choose. Take care of your family or I’ll take care of them alone. I’m all freedom of choice but I’ll never be with anyone who puts their own wants above the basic needs of my children.
Ask do u want lunch today if not go back to bed more sleep for you
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Girl hell nah stop making his lunches**** he wants to go broke eating out let him but make sure you save your coins for you & the kids, he sounds very unappreciative & ungrateful.
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Just don’t make his lunch then
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Stop making him food period
Don’t make his lunch! Save ur own money let him waste his
Maybe this seems too simple but can’t the two of you talk and see why he does not want you packing his lunch. Maybe as a kid he was made to take a packed lunch when he actually wanted to eat the school lunch with friends. Maybe as a kid they didn’t have money for fast food. If he would rather eat fast food then put it in the budget. So many times as a wife we need to sacrifice; it is evident he works and brings home a paycheck. Does he spend a lot of money on himself? Do I spend a lot of money on myself? I worked with a lady that said she paid herself and her husband paid himself. They had money to spend like an allowance and when it was gone it was gone until their next pay day. Fussing over a little thing like a McDonald’s lunch is not worth the strain on a marriage.
I would just stop making the lunches and cut back on the ingredients you buy to make said lunches.
I’d stop making him lunch.
Than don’t make him lunches anymore 
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Just stop making him lunches. Let the man eat fast food if he wants. Why fight over something so little?
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If you’re not getting lunch “half the time”, and he’s not eating the lunch you’re making him, stop making his lunches and make them for yourself instead.
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Don’t make him lunches
Dont make him lunch anymore and see if he asks u why. Plenty of Hungary people out there
Make him fast food then 
Quit making it, simple
I’ve never made my adult husband’s lunch. He can do it himself.
He could have told you he didn’t want it. If I was you I wouldnt say anything and just don’t take it to him next time, then he will be wondering why and if he asks you say oh sorry I forgot lol seriously though just make it for your self and let him sort he’s own out.
Yup, I started sending him with drinks and some snacks. He can figure out food to actually be full on his own
If you can’t afford him to eat fast food and he doesn’t care, then set up a bank account and put in a reasonable amount of money. Give him the debit card and tell him it’s his lunch account.
Stop making him lunches.
Stop making him lunches you are contributing to wasting money if hes not eating the lunches it’s just wasted food meaning money going right out the window
Personally I would ask my husband if he would prefer take out and only make your own lunch
I make my husband a lunch each day and sometimes he doesn’t eat it so I save it and give it to him again the next day…but he doesn’t do this every day so I would just tell him I am not making him a lunch anymore or just put water in his lunchbox
Stop doing it.
And I wouldn’t be making him breakfast lunch or dinner.
Need your laundry done? Sorry. Throw them away go buy new ones.
And he needs to be bringing the dishes in from his truck… why should you be having to get them back into the house?
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Instead of buying stuff to make his lunch just don’t buy the food and give him the money to eat out for lunch
Stop making him his lunch. That just says he doesn’t appreciate what you did for him.
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Stop making him lunches.
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Then stop making them.
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Stop doing it for him.
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Don’t give him any more lunches
You take the home made lunch for yourself. I’ve seen what fast food eating habits have done for some of my family. Let me tell you , fast food is a killer. It’s full of fat and grease and you get no nutritional benefits from it. His body will decline when he hits that’s 50 to 60 year old mark if he doesn’t die of a heart attack first. Hey but that’s his choice.
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Just stop making his lunch…
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Dont make him lunches, let him eat crap. My husband does the same thing. It’s not worth the fight. He helps me plan meals for the week though. Pick and choose your battles.
Pls dnt make him lunch…let him eat wat he likes howver just remind him u wnt be his nurse if nd wen he gets sick…
Is saving money the reason you make his lunch?
Does he go to lunch with others and they go out, to eat?
I understand that finances might be an issue, maybe talk to him about it, like the others say stop making lunch for him or ask him to make it himself so it’s something he may want to eat x
Make him a lunch, then grab it for yourself on your way out.
Ask him what he would like in his lunch start there if he still does it quit making them
Tell him keep eating shit he’s gonna weigh 600lbs
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