Let them know they have 2 grandkids, it’s not fair one something & the other one no or neither one gets a gift
I’d tell everyone that they either need to treat your kids the same, or stay away from both of them.
Make your man stand up to them and say something.
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Refuse the gifts. Tell them it’s not fair and if they are going to buy for one child, they have to buy for the other or none at all! Adults are so childish sometimes.
Personally, I would sit down with your husband and clearly explain how you feel about it and that if he doesn’t say something, you will. This gives him the option to do it himself.
If he chooses not to, then you sit down with the family and explain it to them yourself. If they continue to try to buy items for your older child, excluding the younger child. Then decline the gift, “I’m sorry we cannot accept this, I want both of my children to feel loved and included”
As for yelling at your child in your home. Yes, toddlers are harder as their reasoning skills have not developed yet… but it could be a simple "I understand you live here but you do not have permission to yell at my son. If there is a problem I will handle it.
You are not coming across as rude but standing up for you child… who is your main concern.
People seem to think it’s others responsibility to treat our children equally. It’s not. For whatever reason, & I can think of many, they choose to buy for the older child. It’s then your responsibility to teach your child to deal with that. Maybe have a closet of items you can grab for the 2yo or explain as he’s older that he gets everything given to brother anyway.
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You need to keep putting your foot down and your husband needs to grow a pair. It’s despicable that he doesn’t want to put an end to that shit. Shame on him.
Age has nothing to do with it. They are showing favoritism & it is cruel. It’s one thing if the older one spent time with them & got something while the younger one wasn’t around. But trampolines, dune buggies, etc??? I would let them know in no uncertain terms that is to stop immediately. Your husband also needs to man up & she how lucky he & his firstborn are to have you & the little one.
If it’s gifts and presents what anyone buys for the 5 year old you buy something for the 2 year old as well or no one gets anything. Clothes toys anything. I’d put my foot down cuz kids see and understand more then we realize
Just put a stop to it
Tell them if they can’t include BOTH your kids, then don’t do anything at all. And if they try, take away whatever it is before they show or give it to him.
Shame on them. Cut ties if they won’t love the KIDS
Stand up ti her and ur husband that’s so wrong…