Get it for your kids…
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It absolutely should go to the children. Maybe the grandmother is trying to get it for the children. Who knows?
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His kids should get everything
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Who cares about family conflict. Your kids best interest come first. Period.
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Put your kids and your kids future first above all else and contest it.
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Absolutely contest that’s your children not grandmas not your inheritance and it’s all they have left of their dad absolutely right for your kids
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You need to contest Monday Morning you have absolutely no time and a very short window to do this and grandma doing this is absolute wrong this money should absolutely go to your children and no one else 
you should fight and give no pee or Q to grandmas thoughts on this she obviously has no respect or love for your children or her grandchildren 
fight like your life depends on it and save every penny for your children do not tell them they have the money make them think they need to earn for college car ect and they will be much for carful when the day comes best of luck all pray it all works out for the best
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So you really need to ask??
Fight for yours and his kids who should rightly get his estate not his mother
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Contest it for your children…grandma has no right taking it from them
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It should go to the kids.
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Check your state laws, the children, not grandma, should get it. Also call social security if you have not already. They are minors and will be entitled to social security survivors benefits.
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Fight for your kid’s rights - I bet she doesn’t want you to contest it - she should be happy for it to go to her g’kids - greedy madam!
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She sounds greedy. That stuff belongs to his children!
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It should go to the kids.
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Legally your kids will get it, unless he had a Will. You might have to get conservatorship since they are minors
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Unfortunately conflict is not something you can control. You do have to fight for their inheritance though. It is their right. They are entitled to it. It needs to be put aside for their future.
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Get an Attorney. Your children have the rights to his estate, not his mother.
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If that was I contest it as it for my kids as the way I see it it should be there’s
It belongs to his kids end of story contest
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his kids stuff protect it lady 
put it into a trust
Get an attorney for your children tomorrow. Generally spouses and children are Class 1 Beneficiaries. In some states parents are not. Although she’s the mother she needs to realize he left minor children behind and they need to be taken care of still.
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Someone once told me “anytime you do anything ask yourself. Is this in the best interest of my children? If the answer is no, don’t do it” hasn’t failed me yet
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If you were bought out and decided that way then no matter what it is for the kids. If my separated husband of 9 years were to pass away I am still legally married to him and it would go to me the house anyhow not his personal money or could be if I contested as he would if I passed away if I had money which I have none…
the property goes to his children unless otherwise stated in a will… it is not his mother’s
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His kids should benefit from his estate period. Not his mama. Contest it !
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They are his blood and if dad didn’t state otherwise, have more of a right to his estate than she does. Get a lawyer and get it contested and do it now
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Contest it and get it put into trusts for the kids when they are older. They also will/can get his social security as minors
Lawyer. CONTEST IT.
Contest it x its strange she telling u not to
I’m sorry but his mother is a Witch for trying to take what is legally not hers. Sounds like a gold digging granny. I would fight. She doesn’t seem like a woman I would want my kids to have a relationship with anyway. She should beourning the loss of her son. Not trying to get his estate. 
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They are his kids they should get his money not his mother did he not make a will . Surely his kids are next of kin
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I don’t know about US law but here in the UK, if there is no will the estate will go into administration. Lawyers will appoint administrators so be careful that his mother doesn’t get appointed. The first consideration should be his dependents who are your children, after that any other person who he supported.
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It’s a red flag for me that she’s even filing for it when you’re raising y’all’s children/dependents, much less asking you not to contest it.
That tells me where she puts her son’s children, her own grandkids, on her list of priorities; behind herself. YOU don’t have to (and shouldn’t), though. They’re his children, not her. Best wishes 
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Time to get an estate attorney. What more problems—the grandmother’s already made her intentions! What conflicts do you have to worry about? Take care of your child(ren) future.
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Contest it, it belongs to your children!
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Contest it! All his bills he owes will be paid from it first. But the reminder is rightfully his children’s they are his next of kin, not his mother/father or siblings. He made the choice years ago to marry and have children that by law removed all others as next of kin. 
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Contest it. It’s his childrens money.
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Take care of your kids.
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Contest it your chidren comes first why are you bothered about the family.They wont bother about you.Stop been nice show them all your kids have the right to it,Sign it.
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Talk to a lawyer because I really don’t think she is entitled to it because he has kids , I think it will be put in a trust for them , I’m not a lawyer so get legal advice 
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Get a good solicitor and he will deal with it from there Facebook.is not the answer to your problems Hope it all works out for you and your children …
Your children have a legal right to at least one third of his assets. Hire a good lawyer.
It belongs to your children 
Contact a lawyer and get your kids what they deserve
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Contest it; the kids have a right to his estate. Forget being worried about causing issues in the family, secure your kids a start in their adult lives.
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Contest it, it belongs to your children, I’m sure it’s what their father would have wanted
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You really have to ask? Treasure care of your kids and keep that thing out of their lives
I agree with everyone here. Get a lawyer and contest it. It belongs to the kids
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Contest it. Your kids Dad would want you to fight for the kids rights!!! Grandma has issues. She should think about the kids and what her son would want. Good Luck!!!
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Contest it and prepare your children for how their dad’s side of the family may act.
Get a lawyer can’t afford to stuff it up
His minor children are entitled to anything he has at the time of his death. Get a lawyer though. If you’re made executor by a judge you are also responsible for debt he may have.
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She is a crappy grandmother for not wanting his kids to have it. Yes contest it
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Contest contest and contest even more that stuff belongs to his children …
It should go to his children 100%
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I wouldnt do it, it will cause a lot of problems which could effect the kids. It isn’t worth it.
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Contest it, his estate belongs to his kids
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Umm contest it! That’s your children’s not his mothers
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Fight it that belongs to your kids
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Absolutely… Those are your children and now you have to protect them… You need to confess that well and do the right thing for your children
Contest it on the children’s behalf!
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It belongs to his children!
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Maybe you should talk to the Grandma of your children and ask her what her intentions are. Maybe you and she could share in the expenses of managing this estate; it’s quite expensive. She may not be able to afford to pay for this if a lengthy probate occurs Technically she’s obligated to step in as he is divorced with minor children. Someone has to manage his affairs and she’s his next of kin. She may have asked you not to contest it because if you do, it will get tied up in probate for years.
I would talk to her and offer to share expenses given your concern is for your children.
get a lawyer, Those are his kids, they deserve it more than the mother, Unless he had a will & left it all to her, which I doubt, Also if you live in the USA, you can apply for his SS benefits. I believe they each will get it until they finish high School. Also I believe if you were married to him for more than 10 yrs, you also can get some
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Get lawyer. Those kids are is next of kin, not his mother
His estate goes to the children, end of story. Do whatever you can to make sure that happens. Good luck
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Fight it. Money should go to his children
I have been through this myself. Contest and get everything cause I did for my 3.
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Contest it n get a good attorney
First I’d like to express my sympathy to your children, and you as well. Definitely contest, it’s sad that you even have to and if it causes problems with his family, his kids having what is rightfully theirs is not the problem. I personally would put it in a trust that they couldn’t have access to until they were atleast 25 if not 30, that kind of money could turn a good kid bad (seen it happen) also they should be eligible to draw a monthly check on behalf of his death as long as they are attending school till they graduate high school, I’m not sure if it continues if they go to college or not. Definitely something to check into if you haven’t already.
Contest it!! Your kids deserve it!!!
contest! Call a lawyer asap
You should contest it
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Get a lawyer, the estate should go into intestate ( that is what it is called with no will)-- his estate should go to next of kin which is his children not the grandmother. But his mother may get a portion of the estate due to no will. It is up to the attorney to defend his children in probate. The grandmother is trying to get you to not contest so she can LEGALLY take the entire estate, which would suggest no heirs. The estate can be set up in trust for the children when they reach a certain age.
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It belongs to his children you should definitely contest it for their sake if there was a will it will be harder to contest but with no will his estate belongs to his children
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Granny sounds like a real winner.
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I’d like to believe he’d want his children to have it, not his mom. Contest it. I find it wild that his mom even thinks it should go to her and not his kids.
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Kids get it… fight for it…plus they should qualify for social security benefits from him. Good luck
Did the father have a will and say who he wanted to have the estate?That should be what is done.
Contest it without a doubt his kids are more entitled than she is. His mother is a nasty piece of work to even think about it
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I would not worry at all about causing conflict or drama. This grandmother should be putting her grandkids first but it sounds like she just wants to profit off of her son’s death and take every single thing he had. If conflict arises, she can just be cut off from their lives and your life. She doesn’t sound so great anyways.
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Contest it on behalf of his kids.
And make sure the court knows in going into bank accounts for his kids.
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You’re not causing conflict, she is. Talk to a lawyer asap and contest for your kids. They come first, not his side of the family.
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I would contest it those are his children God rest his soul sorry you and your children are going through this but they are his kids and I would seek a lawyer Apparently the grandmother is just bitter and definitely sad on her part as those are her grandchildren and she should only want what’s best for the kids and it just shows she is only out for what she can get and doesn’t care of anything else Stand up for you and your family…AS YOUR CHILDREN DESERVE THIS
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Why would you even sell it I would think that the kids would want to have a house that’s paid off to live it at 18 and in college instead of living with mommy or paying high rentals
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That belongs to kids. Grandmother is acting that way because he’s not alive to contest her messed up ways. She always secretly felt a certain way about you. Timeout for all that,this belongs to the children. Go get what’s theirs.
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Get legal representation asap . The children should get most of it but maybe give her a very small amount - she was his mother .
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What a awlful woman! Trying to take what rightfully should go to the children. Definitely contest it for your children’s sake. She shouldn’t even be thinking about doing this.
Attorney. It should go to kids.
Depends on what state you’re in everything rightfully goes to his kids. If that be the case you’ll have to fill out conservatorship paperwork and when they turn 18 it’ll go directly to your kids
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Fight! I didn’t contest when my dad passed and someone we didn’t even know got our family farm
Your children are 100% next of kin and that estate belongs to them. Get a lawyer and make sure that the right thing for his children is followed thru. And tell grandma that she is a terrible person and your children can decide at 18 if they want any sort of relationship with her. Until then, keep those kids away from her…she’s not a real grandma anyway or she wouldn’t even be interfering with their inheritance.
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Get a lawyer NOW! Fight for what is rightfully your kids. Do it for your children! Later you can sue the ex mother in law for court cost and lawyer fees!!! Because F her! Your their mom it is your responsibility to fight for them. Do it!
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Fight for it, its for your kids
Contest it. His kids would get it before his mama.
Contest it on behalf of the kids. I’m sure that’s what he would want.
This is your children’s rightful inheritance. Fight for them!!
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Your kids are next of kin not his mother. She shouldn’t have anything to do with it. You should get a lawyer ans make sure your kids are taken care of
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