Ok … WOW … talk about crossed boundaries! There has to be a whole lot of things left unsaid in your post for your bio mother to cross such a line with her child! It truly seems to me that she IS NOT right in the head and needs help. But, she ISN’T your problem to deal with … your ONLY focus needs to be on your babies and yourself!
First off … you need to go somewhere safe with your children (OUT of that toxic environment). Reach out to the community (try a battered female organization) to assist you in finding shelter separate from your ex and bio mother!
Second, and equally important, is you MUST file with the family court for custody/child support in order to be become financially stable while raising your babies!
Basically, you should NEVER trust either one ever again. I hope you find the peace and security you’re reaching out for; however, unless you actively do something about it … nothing will change.
Best of luck!
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Move as soon as you can and drop them both out of your life
I would try to get out. I understand you are high risk and cant work. Try your best because living under the same roof with that will only make things worse for you. Mentally and all! If doctors didnt say you couldnt work then try to find something. I had a high risk pregnancy before and I indeed could work but I do know every situation is different! Prayers for you that you find a way out that mess
Go seek some government financial help. See if they can help you with daycare and start working. In order to move out
Work from Home but you certainly need to move somewhere else ASAP
Your mother is the lowest of low … wipe them both and do you and your babies
This breaks my heart…sadly damage done and you need to forge forward…
This betrayal is not something that can be worked through and everyone leads a happy life again…
My honest opinion…they both dicks and please please please remove yourself from their evil claws…
Worse than flippen Satan if I was religious!
Move out and cut ties, that’s utterly heartbreaking, if you need to live in a shelter until they find you housing do it! You will be pushed to the top because of your situation
I am so sorry 4 what you are going thro prayers 
for you & your kids. I have no advice 2 give. Just praying 4 u.
Do they have a YWCA where you are? They will probably be the best place for you and your child. There are also government agencies to that will send you to college sho you will be able to find a good job after the baby comes. I was a displaced homemaker and went to our local Y. It’s not so bad. Good luck to you.
Mothers and daughters damn sure don’t do this stuff to each other. And what your mother and ex are doing is abuse. You need to get to the nearest domestic abuse and violence organization and they can help get you out of that insane place…and NEVER speak to your mother again… if she will do this…she will do anything.
Oh hell no, it doesn’t get more grimy than that, I hope you can find a way out and away from these people. You should definitely look up any services in your area that can help you get situated and good luck no one deserves that
Wow both nasty piece of work
Seek out all the government aid allowed, including low cost housing.
Love yourself and move out of that Hell House and cut all ties with this toxic “family.”
Call around find housing resources they have income based housing for situations like this I was high risk and absolutely couldn’t work but sweetie this is only going to make your pregnancy even more high risk due to the emotional mess you are in I would cut ties completely with them both and I sure wouldn’t expose my kuds to either one of them how is their grandma going to be their step mom absolutely not my kids I would walk away NO SCRATCH THAT I WOULD RUN RUN RUNAWAY FAR AWAY AND WOULD HAVE ZERO CONTACT WITH THEM PERIOD I WOULDN’T EVEN TELL EITHER WHERE I WAS LIVING IF YOU FILE FOR EMERGENCY HOUSING YOU SHOULD GET IN WITHIN A WEEK OR 2 I HAVE SEEN THEM GET PLACED WITHIN 24 HOURS
Wow im sorry but your mother is a pos she knows better honestly cut them both out immediately
Shame shame shame on your momma… I am so very sorry for you…let them have each other…neither deserve you or your kids…file for help with food stamps…housing…etc… find help wherever you can but get far away from these two losers…
Mother or not, it’s time to rid yourself of the toxic environment your kiddo and you are in. You’re already high risk and the stress from this situation isn’t helping. Your mother KNOWS better than this. It’s time to move on mama.
That’s all sorts of wrong right there. If there is anyway you and your children can get out of that house then try your best to do so. I’m not sure who I would be more mad at you mum or the ex. Well your mum for telling him everything and even having feelings for him. Then him for going near your mum. If you guys just broke up how are they in love already? They have been clearly seeing each other behind your back and her ex. Please try and get you for your kids and your health with your unborn child. Sending you hugs and will keep you in my thoughts 
Shame on them both but ESPECIALLY your mother 
How heartbreaking
Honestly get a room with you and the kids just to get away from the negativity then work on a stay at home job and find something suitable for you and kids!!!
Omg. No advice, just prayers 
Your mother is the worst human I’ve ever heard of second to your ex
Your mom Is nasty asf. Get out find any assistance you can hunny oh and do not let them kids around that period
Make sure you file for child support.
This is heartbreaking,there aren’t words enough to console you
Please stay strong
Get out of that house. I’m sure you can do it, just set your mind to it and get it done now. Best of luck
I never normally comment on these posts, but how heartbreaking for you 
please, if there’s any way you and your children can get away from them both, run! Run and never look back, you and your children deserve so much better 
and your ‘mom’, WOW!!
Wow I am so sorry 
please know you did nothing to deserve this. Please do breathing exercises, yoga, get close to the lord whatever you need to be at peace for your baby. Don’t let them have that power over you
Look into applying for section 8 and look for based on income housing. Get you and your kids out of there and cut all contact.
Ugh this made my stomach turn
Geeez. Sounds like a
Jerry Springer episode.
Get out and don’t look back!
I pray that GOD Blesses you and family and drives the devil away.
Your mom is a garbage human
Get out u can make it on a single disability check praying for u
Omg. So sorry hun. Look into local resources that can help you and your kids get into a place on your own. Hugs.
Oh that’s just vile.
I’m so sorry you have to go through that. keep your head straight and try to keep away from them two as much as possible.
Maybe get on a waiting list for a low-income apartment? not the best solution but it would get you out of there. I would hate to be surrounded by such toxic people. I wish you all the luck possible. I am praying for you.
Wow your mom and ex are the worst… leave quickly
You have options to leave, it won’t be easy but you need to get far away from the both of them. There are women shelters that will take you in and help you.
I can’t even imagine what kind of mother could do this to her daughter. It’s clear that they’ve were cheating together before you broke up. I am
So sorry mama I can’t even begin to imagine how you must be feeling.
Kinda similar but no kids involved and the guy didn’t live with us but I found out the dude I was shagging shagged my mom earlier in the week when he told me. I poured a whole bag of Epsom salt in a bathtub and scrubbed the shit outta my body because we had sex that previous night and i felt so gross. Just try to get out of there when you can. Find a good person or womens shelter and get a job to hold your position until you get ahead. As far as your ex and your mom…let them have each other since there is no such thing as dignity or principle. I hope they get lice and crabs.
Get into housing… you can do it with one income. Then file for child support and you’ll have 2 incomes!! You deserve better than what that house has to offer! Find a new mom while you’re at it.
Try and get Section 8 housing or try church or non profit organizations. They sometimes help people with low income… good luck hun!
Definitely apply for housing.
I’m a sorry mama. 
You have to leave and never look back may they rot
Their both sick individuals…praying for u n ur kids
Get rid of your toxic mother and ex.
Omg so sorry girl. You were betrayed by your own mother. What a toxic situation they put you in. Take your kid & run run run. Definitely apply to income based housing, maybe find a friend or family member to help take you and your kid in until you’re excepted in your own space. My hearts breaking from you. Your kid dont deserve to see grandma kissing up on dad. That just isnt right. Feel for you girl.
They aren’t in love they are rebounding. Sign up for HUD and section 8 housing so you can be self sufficient. Let their relationship crash and burn like all rebound relationships do.
tell her to back off in no uncertain terms
This is horrible. You gotta find a way out of there. Go and get advice from a local representative. There will be someone who can help you so ask around make phonecalls set up meetings with people. They will help you get any benefits you may be entitled to as well as housing.
Wow, your mom sucks. I am so sorry 
Jeez shame on the both of them.
That’s absolutely disgusting. Try applying for housing and move away from them and never speak to them again. I’m sorry they did this to you.
That’s gross, I’m sorry
shame on your mother. I’m so sorry that is happening to you
Look into womens and Childrens shelters near you. We have a couple in my small town that are shockingly nice. Section 8/hud take years to get approved for (my cousin took 5 years before she got a call back) go to DSS and apply for any and all assistance you can and ask them if they can find work for you with your pregnancy conditions, they will also provide daycare for your other child while you work.
Find local food pantries near you to get food until you are able to either get ebt or get on your feet financially.
This is so disgusting. Kick the pair of them out.
Laxatives in all types of things
Get away from both of them ASAP and never look back
Save your money and move the hell out of that toxic place! All that bullshit will just get worse the longer you stay! Good luck…and don’t forget, you are stronger than you think you are! 
Wow. That’s harsh. Sorrry to hear that let. Let them go ahead but block all contact from them they are horrible.
Go to social services and ask for housing assistance
Shame on your mom for doing that to you that’s disgusting. I would check in with your local guns resources see what help they can provide or send you to the right places!
Oh as a mother this breaks my heart I’m sorry this is happening Once you can get out of there cut them off they’re toxic
Wow this is disgusting! Im sorry but your mum is a wh@re! 
Cant imagine how you are feeling
Leave, they deserve each other
I’m so sorry you are going through this. I really am. I would look into getting housing assistance or something of that sort. This is a very toxic environment for you and your children. Next week you should be able to look into assistance. Then once things are settled, I’d look into counseling, so you can heal from all of the betrayal you’ve had to deal with.
No one will blame you if you end up on an episode of Snapped.
WTF both mom and the ex are toxic, run as far away and fast as you can, ghost them both, real mothers would never do that
See me and my mama just gone have to fight that one out
Please immediately make an appointment with your local department of children and family services. Be completely open and honest about your situation and get whatever type of help you can
Of course you are angry. You need to move as far away from The 2 of them as you can. Your mom is a very selfish person…I hope she wakes up and realizes how disgusting she is being. I wish you all luck starting your life over.
That is horrible, so sorry you’re going through this!
Wowwww. Your mom is disgusting🤢
& your ex is too🤡
Disgusting your mom is nasty. Getting smashed by her daughter’s ex dick .
Somehow you need to get out of there
Man, I’d go to a shelter with my children before I’d deal with that Jerry Springer shit!!!
So foul… seriously the audacity of your mother and ex.
Apply for all the assistance you can get so you’re able to get the hell out of there and leave all its disgusting dysfunction behind. Unforgivable. 
Karma is a b****. Bigger better things are going to come your way. I know it’s hard not to be in your feelings, but try to keep a positive perspective. I would save up and then leave and never look back.
Get child support from him asap! Get out. This Insanity isn’t healthy for you.
Honey my sister in law did the very same thing to her daughter,careful they will try to get you out of the picture, straighten your crown fix your self up and let them babysit and play house,start using your phone and smile,go in the other room and pretend to be talking to another man they will get the picture,fuck them
Mate laxatives in everything
I have empathy for you. My mom was the opposite her boyfriends chose to molest me, my daughter and my niece. All different men. Unfortunately I have no contact with her unless someone in the family dies. I would check with your local woman’s shelter. They can put you and your son up for a while and can get you in touch with other resources to get housing. You got this momma. Do what you gotta do for you and the kiddos.
Girl get housing fast!! Try a women’s shelter and go from there! File for custody and stay away from them!!! That’s so wrong I’m so so sorry you’re dealing with this
I’ve sat here looking at this post for 5+ mins and can’t process what i just read or dont want to idk, but that’s disgusting. That’s all i have for this.
Were you married?
I would take the kids and run. Sign up for any kind of assistance you can get. Apply for emergency housing and say you are homeless with children and pregnant. I personally would not put his name on the new babies birth certificate, as things will be much harder if he is. As with your mother, well, she’s clearly a narcissist and you deserve better.
Can you reach out to your ex’s parents or family? Will they help?
You have to get out if there. As a single mother you should qualify for several programs to help you. Food stamps, rental assistance, child care and I don’t know what else. I pray that you cut ties with your ex and your mother. To me what they have done is the lowest of low. Get out if there as quickly as you can.
That is awful of your mother to do that to you.
Check and see what assistance you can get and find your own place.
Your mom is a pos sorry
This is Jerry springer stuff you need to remove yourself from this hell hole before it gets worse. Your mums a c u next Tuesday! Your ex is a low life. Escape with them kids!
Go to your local jobs and family service, they can help you get on foodstamps and possibly help you find an apartment where they base your rent on your income. I’m so sorry you are going through this.
Call a local victims center and your local department of children and family services. They should be able to help you find a home, get financial assistance and child support (I usually don’t agree with child support unless in certain circumstances but this is definitely one)
No one should be left in that situation. Your children definitely should not be around them until they come to their senses (if they have any tbh) that relationship is completely inappropriate. I’m so sorry you’re going through this.
Yuck! This is against the universe 
so sorry to hear that 
Get out . I don’t think I would ever speak to my mom again if she did that
Run ASAP, that is some toxic shit
She does not deserve to be called a mother, how are they even planning to explain that to the kids if they want visitation rights? That is so inappropriate and disgusting nontheless, get out of there and if possible never contact then again
Contact a family member or friend you can truly depend on for support and get out of there mamas. Head up, this too shall pass.
Walk out the door and take your babies with. Contact your local agencies about assistance for your situation (United way, YWCA, etc)