You are spot on!!! As a mom it is your responsibility to protect her!!!
You are not wrong, this is your child and you make the decisions regarding itâs well being
You are not wrong who is she to say who can see YOUR baby
You are the parent. Do what you feel is right. She walked away from you, she walked away from your child.
She sounds like a real âfruitcakeâ! This is your daughter and you come as a family package. Mom needs to accept that or step away.
Sure, she can have a relationship with your infant. She can hold her while she is in YOUR house having a nice cup of coffee with you and your husband. If she behaves herself you choose the next step. Sounds like you have 2 infants to manage.
She should mend fences with you and your husband before she asks for the privilege
Looks like your Mom loses out on both her daughter and granddaughter. Shame on her.
If she cant be with the whole family she gets nothing. She sounds like the type to try and kidnap your daughter.
Your mother is acting like a child. She canât have it both ways.
All comes down to , itâs your child, you gave birth to that child. Your mother will have to grow up and except the facts
If she wants nothing to do with you then I wouldnât let her be around your child⌠you both are a package deal !
I wouldnât trust her to do anything with my child if she was acting this way. Stick with your gut.
You are NOT wrong!!! Sad your mother is taking such an unpleasant position but itâs her loss.
Do what your 6th sense tellsâŚthis is your child
Sounds like your mother is a snowflake and needs to grow up.
No wait till your mom âgrows up â!!
Stand your ground if not mom will run your life forever
Nope your child you dictate what happens around your child.
You are the childâs mother . Stand your ground
My thought is did the girlfriend break up her marriage? That would be a deal breaker.
I would tell my mom, that I loved her and she was welcome to visit my daughter in my home with me present-never change thatâyou are not keeping them apart but you are the parent and it needs to be your way
Stand your ground. You are right to feel that way. Its all or nothing!
You are a package deal. Your mom needs to grow up!
No way she would ever see the baby without me
Never let anyone take your child if you are uneasy with them, protect your child at all costs
Youâre right, its your child and your mother needs to respect your wishes
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You are exactly right! Ainât nobody taking my baby nowhere and dropping her off! NOPE NOT GONNA HAPPEN!! Especially with someone youâre estranged fromâŚnope!! You wanna see my baby call me!!
tell her go for counseling, she is filled with poison.
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Donât do it wait until bĂ by can talk then she can tell you everything happening to her good luckâŚ
Your mother is immature. To immature to have a relationship with your daughter.
Noooooooooooooo. She cannot do that!!! You are the parents and you have all right to say no absolutely not!!!
Nope if she cant be mom she does not deserve title of grandma
U R not I would never let her have my child and u shouldnâ either
Your mother sounds like a SELFISH ASS. Your baby goes NO where without your approval if they canât respect your wishes add them to the list of people you CUT OFF.
She will just miss her grandaughters life.not just her granddaughters but you her daughter.all or none.
This whole thing is sad and unloving and judgemental
You are right! Someday your mom will realize that!
No daughter, son in law, no grand daughter! 
Nope, she needs to grow up I wouldnât trust her
No keep your baby around loving people.
NopeâThat is YOUR child not hers. She needs to get over herself.
No follow your maternal instincts if you donât feel comfortable, donât.
I think you need to have a sit down with your mother. You need to tell her how you feel. Tell her you respect how hard it is for her to be around her ex and his new girlfriend, but heâs still your dad and she needs to understand that. You donât expect her to socialize with them, but you do expect her to respect your relationship with him as he respects the relationship you have with her. Tell her that you want her in both your lives, that you want your baby to have as much love in her life as she can, but only if itâs done with respect for others.
Life happens, people change and so do relationships. Sometimes we have to put our feelings aside for our kids and grandkids. It doesnât mean our feelings are valid, it just means we are adults and are acting as such.
I struggle with seeing my ex and his wife, we had a very unpleasant breakup. I put my feelings aside for my daughter and her kids every time we have a family function. I even have them over for holidays, it isnât easy, but my babies are worth it. It does get easier with each get together, but I can assure you, we will never be best friendsâŚlol!
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She needs to grow up and start acting like a adult
She needs to grow up.
No she is your daughter you have say period.
Your child, your rules. If your mom canât accept this, oh well, her loss.
There is no right or wrong â the choice is simple â how important is your family to you, and how important is it that your daughter have a relationship with your family? If your mother died tomorrow, how would you feel? If your daughter grows up without knowing her grandmother, how will you feel? People often regret the choices they made when they do not consder the future effects that their decisions will have on people who love them and the people they love â CHOOSE WISELY !
She should reach out to you as her child
I would not feel comfortable giving my child to my sister to take her or him to see thier Grandmother. There is something fishy there. If she wants to see her Granchild, she needs to see her at you home.
No I had a Mother in law that didnt like me. She had 4 Sons. Mine was first Grandson. When visit at hospital to see him she said WELL WHAT AM I GOING TO DO WITH ALL THE GIRLS CLOTHS I BOUGHT! Back in 1973 we knew not the gender. How the hell was I suppose to answer to answer her. She really never wanted much to do with him. Grandfather wad happy. Only time she had anything to do with him was when others were around and called HIM HER ANGLE BABY ! No way and do not feel guilty. Your Moms a grown Women acting like a child. Why the baby and not you or Husband. Just to brag. Baby is no bargaining object! Either comes to your house or not at all her choice. Tell her you want and need her in your lifes and the baby. But your Family your terms. HER CHOICE.
Nope,she isnât showing you respect
stand your ground . You are not wrong. Your mother would poison your daughters mind in such away it could permanently
scar her mentally and you have no idea if she wouldnât hurt her bodily because she cannot control you so she takes it out on your child.
Your child your rules!
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Hell no. If you wonât talk with the parents you donât get access to the child. Plain & simple.
Your child your rules. Your Mom sounds like a real dream.
That is rewarding bad behavior.
You are so right stick with what you want not your mother
No, she is too manipulative
You are not wrongâŚShe is acting like an assâŚ
Tell your mother to be an adult.
Tell grandma grow up
No question, the answer is no way, it is your child your say
Your baby-your rules! Itâs that simple.
No you keep your child safe with you and your husband or you can move to a different state if you can keep your child with you
Your mother needs to grow up.
Your mother is WRONG!!!
Dont use your child for battles.
Nope,not going to happen
Tell her to get bent⌠
your child your rules!
Where my child goes I go. Period
Nope, youâre not wrong.
Umm youâre wrong. Toxic mother cannot be around grand babies period.
Itâs a no for me. Especially not this young. She refuses to deal with me over something so ridiculous, then nope 
she would have also excluded herself from my child.
Your mother is wrong.
Your mother needs to grow up
No itâs the Family or none.
You are 100% correct. She called the ball now it is up to her to take the first step in fixing the situation
I wouldnât. Itâs your child. Your rules. Donât be sucked into the drama.
Your Mother is being very childish. Tell her no!!!
i agree wirh you AND your husband
When hell freese over.
Hell no thatâs just manipulation on her part
No maâam! It hurts like heck some days but just say No!
No way ⌠your mother sounds like a child
No you are not , you are right
No way. Protect your child
I would not be ok with that !
No, you are not wrong.
Your child your rules
You are on the right for sure
Your baby, your rules!
No, your child your rules
Hell no, you selfish and controlling mother will come around
Nope. This would not happen.
Your daughter is not a pawn
No I would not let this happen!
You are totally in right
Its a package deal all or none
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