Lol tell them to pay you cause you didnt ask to be born lmaooooo
Please tell me that you are kidding. No , No , No. I refuse to believe such a cruelty.Are they sick? I don’t even know what to tell you. I just pray for you. I have two sons and I give my life for them . God please forgive them.
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This is so messed up I’m not even sure I believe the story. If it’s true then I’m sorry, I know you have a lot of hurt over this. I know if my parents did this I would be feeling physically ill as well. As far as the money they say you owe… there is no way this would hold up in court. I’m sure if it ever got that far the judge would toss it out. A minor, who is not emancipated, cannot legally enter into a contract, even after you turned 18 their was no contract, verbal or written. I mean, unless they are wealthy themselves, one day you will probably have to help out in one way or another—- like choosing their nursing home. So what goes around comes around.
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You were their responsibility till you were 18 .
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6+ years of tax deductions for claiming you as a dependent should more than cover it…
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Wow, that must have been so hurtful. I am so sorry that this is happening. You have tons of feedback here, but I wanted to see a virtual hug. Xoxo
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Tell them that hundreds of people think they are ridiculous and should be ashamed of themselves.
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Go to court they cant do this they are your parents
She ever took u to court with that “ledger” , the judge would probably shame her as a parent and throw her ass out. I’d literally laugh in my mom’s face, as her if shes getting laid, and to hit me up when shes over her fucking tantrum. No contact.
Is this some kind of joke?
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LEGALLY THEY HOLD NO GROUND WHATSOEVER.
They are insane and any judge they brought this to would laugh them out of the room and probably fine them for wasting the courts time.
That is not how you treat your child. I would seriously cut them out of my life for being so petty, selfish, greedy and cruel. Fuck that and fuck them.
Um. Tell them 12-18 is their job. It’s a parents job to raise a child.
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Well. They’re responsible for you till you’re over 18, and if you’re over 18 and going to school they’re still responsible for you. This parents now a days 
Best advice … Tell them to go to hell or grow the fuck up.
I wouldn’t give them anything. It’s one thing to expect you to pay back AGREED upon debts but that’s just utterly ridiculous.
First you can’t sign a legally binding contract for payment when under 18( unless emancipated). Secondly they’re your parents…wtf… Third unless by chance you did sign something after your 18th birthday there wouldn’t be any actual ligal obligation.
End of day bullshit. Say Bye. And if you feel bad because your kids, just think what they might pull with them later?
Weird…I never received pocket money, I never had to be asked to do chores…my dad was a farmer…we were never rich money wise. Our dairy cows gave us cream and milk, we grew our fruit and vegetables. He’s gone now and I’m caring for my 99 year young, feisty mum…that’s payback.
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Question by some chance were you adopted ?
This can’t be for real?
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I don’t understand why they do that, I would get advice for one thing then I would sue them for the drama they are causing you, and you need to move away from this negativity… are u adopted
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Tell them they owe you the taxes they got for you every year since you were born. And that you never signed anything saying you would pay them back and even if you did you were under age so it didnt count. Tell them bye bye bi*** change you number and leave that.
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Unreal .whats wrong with these eople
Ask to see their taxes and see how much they got back every year for you and see if it all equals out !!!
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Wow thats messed up, you dont owe them shit
This is some bullshit, this cannot be real
Nope. Don’t pay back anything. That’s just insane. Are you sure your parents cognitive health is still intact because they sound crazy.
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First of all, no. Lol. While you were a minor, they were to provide you with proper clothing and such. Plus they got taxes for you being their dependent.
And while you were an adult? Unless they specifically said they wanted you to pay them back, I’d tell them to shove it. That’s just awful
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Id say screw yall, change my number and rid myself of them.
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Tell them you didn’t ask them to be born and sue them 
you can only fight nonsense with nonsense
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#1 do not under any circumstances give them money now! Or sign ANYTHING they give you. Period.
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Unless your mother is from a country outside of America and they keep track like that…she needs to be reminded what country she is in…and here…you are responsible for your child till they are 18 ! Food…clothing…shelter…and see that they get to at least a public school. Anything…over and beyond is gifted or earned through …as you said…allowance. And not supposed to be paid back. You earned it. No judge would back her up IF she should DARE to take the issue to court. I mean…what is her claim? If i were you…just cut ties. Verbally…no visits either way…and no phone calls. Includes your children. When she gets her thinking she can send you a letter of apology and a Paid in Full receipt. Oh…one more thing. I hope to high heaven you don’t have siblings!!
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Narcissism and gaslighting. Fuck that.
First of all do they need money?Can they pay all of thier bills and buy thier food do they have money for thier medicines. Can they afford new coats and clothes? Are you in a finacial position that you coild give them$100 a month and not make your familey suffer or could you give it to them each month as a payment towards what you owe them.
Refuse to eccept anything else from them.tBuy a journal and make up your bil for them. Charge them for doing your chores on a weekly or monthly bases, charge them for going to school for them by the year, charg them for good grades that you made fir them, charge then for thier birthday ,christmas,Mothers day, Fathers Day gifs, for any gifts you have purchased for them. Charge them for getting married so they could stop supporying you. Vharge them for each grandchild that you had for them and anything that you can think of.Charg them for wearing the coat thst they bought you when you were 12 do that people vould see that they wete taking care of you
If you stsyed out of any behaivior that would of cost them lawyer fees charge them for each good year. Hon life is a 2 way street.I know you will have to put a lot of thought into this journal and alot of work. You will want to buy several notebooks to do this.like one for every year of your life but do it right. Charg them for learning to walk so they didnt have to carry you all of the time, for learning to feed yourselg so tjey didnt have to feed you. For learning how to go potty,how to dress. How to brush your teeth. for growing up, for respecting them and for loving them tell them that it was your pleasure and they were no fees involved or make a jounal year by year and write NO CHARGES FOR ANYTHING OUT OF LOVE AND PLEADURE AND WANTING TO.Then if you can afford it give them $50 or $100 cadh every month as payments and do it out of love and with pleasure to help them . Maybe they need the help and want adk for it or maybe they did it so that you cojld or would pay them back but they are your parents and you do love them and you are grateful and thankful for them gor having and raising you. I wish I still had my parents sp I could sacrificeand give them some money back each month to pay them back to make tnier life easyer . l would just love to have my familey back. They are long gone.Dont get mad get happy that you still have your parents. Remember that tomarrow is not promised and you never know when thier ladt days will be. Its only money.They are your parents.
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My kids would owe me millions!
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Okay you’re lucky mine started writing it down when I started in school I quit talking to her and she’s dead now and I never paid her a damn penny
Tell them that you’d rather owe them than screw them out of it. You were THEIR responsibility till the age of 18 and anything given as a gift, at any time, they can not ask you to pay for… so the car or any clothes bought for your children.
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Oh fuck no. She’s crazy. Don’t let it bother you.
Tell them you will pay the nursing home you are going to put them in
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Into the nursing they go… 
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Tell your parents they’re fucking crazy and move on. I’d seriously never speak to mine again after that fuckery 
Girl tell your momma to suck a phat dick !!! How the hell are you gonna pay her back from the age 12 they decided to have you !
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Contact a lawyer . See what they say .
Just smile and say the check is in the mail. You were a child and taking care of you was their responsibility. As for everything since, for your children etc? Same thing smile and say I’m sure they’ll send you a check in the mail one day. Dont stress…
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Ummmm I WOULD NEVER TALK TO MY PARENTS AGAIN! THAT IS Psychotic behavior!! You’re parents are responsible for you until you’re 18!!! 
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Is that real? Surely not…
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Like i have to comment again i can’t believe a parent would be so cruel. To think youre a loved kid your whole life whose parents do things for them unconditionally, only to ne hit with this hearbreaking, selfish shit.
Like i cant. Id rather be dead than break my daughters heart like that.
Never talk to your parents again, theyre trash all around.
You don’t owe them anything. Just forgive them and pray for them. If you want to, just give them some money as a gift but don’t say you’re paying them back. And tell them it’s a gift, which means it’s free. That’s what it’s supposed to be.
This sounds exactly like my parents so toxic I keep them at arms length.
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Your Parents are Retarted and Unreal. You Were Their Responsibility as Parents Until You are 18. You Don’t Owe Them for Anything You Needed From 12 to 18, And You Also Don’t Owe them for Abything They Bought That You Never Asked For!!
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Check them into the nearest mental health hospital 
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Oh wow! Your parents are nuts 
I would write them off and block their numbers
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Girl, go no contact and never look back at that toxic family.
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Moira that’s what I asked . That’s really bad if you were adopted because nobody forced them to do it. Gifts are gifts. No payback. What the hell is wrong with them ? Also do you have siblings ? If so did they have a ledger fot them also ?
Yeeeeeah, not happening.
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Unbelievable they would keep track, much less expect to be paid back🤯. Hard as it may be, I think I would cut ties or at least put some distance between you and them.
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I would say, “bring me to court”
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Unless this is some foreign customary stuff … Its ridiculous.
I would cut them off fuck that you didn’t choose to be born you didn’t ask for anything for them to do that and even ask I would have them out of my life in a flick of a finger
Let them take you to court.
Bring them to Court and let’s the Judge make them feel small. Only the Court would work in this case. No worth spending time talking or feeling upset.
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Yo… cut that tie wtf. Let them take you to court 
counter sue for mental health and get money from them
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F.U.C.K them they should of NEVER had kids if they weer gonna do that petty shit, cut them the f out of your life adn tell them to take you to court, so they an get laughed at
what kind of shit is this lmao Kaitlin Valentine Rachel Kellison
Have them take you to court over it… A judge will put them in their place, and make them pay your legal fees, and possibly your therapy as well. You poor dear.
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You can’t be serious?
Well tell them you need a break from their foshishness…cut ties from them…you are now an adult ask them to either burn the ledger or you will remove yourself…and your Kidd’s…your bill was paid in full when they had you…oh my …can only hope seperation takes their control over you…
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Block them completely!!!
This is probably the stupidest thing I’ve seen on Facebook all day! Cut them out and move on. A judge would laugh if it ever even made it to a court room.
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On social media and real life! They sound insane.
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They’re mental they gotta be… some way to keep you around maybe ?? Cuz they have zero useful communication skills??
You don’t owe the for anything they paid for before 19 Or graduating high school
As adults they made the choice to be parents & as such THEY have the financial responsibilities of raising you, until you are 18 yo. Only after that is it on you, however if they take the initiative to purchase things for you or grandkids that is on them.You DON’T owe them anything, but love n prayers to realize they are in the wrong
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Tell them to fuck off lol theyre require to provide your care until you turn 18. After that if they paid for something for you and wanted paid back they should have told you then. Not now.
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Cut ties with them, then return everything they bought your kids.
This can’t be real??? that’s just plain crazy
Omg take them to judge Judy please.
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That is called parenting. They HAD to make sure you had a warm coat, they HAD to make sure you had clothes. Honestly, check out the book ‘Boundaries’ by Henry Cloud. This is a completely unrealistic expectation. Especially if you’re just now finding out about it.
That’s pretty messed up. I mean none of us were asked to be born and you were legally their responsibility until you turned 18 so idk why they’ve been keeping a tally on everything that was their responsibility as a parent 
Kids are expensive, but I don’t expect my child to ever pay me back for things that were my job to supply him with in the first place. I’m sorry they’re doing this to you
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I’m just dumbfounded here. Like. What the fuck?
ouch, you were a child, and gifts are gifts, you owe them nothing, if you didnt ask as an adult
Tell them to kiss your ass and take u to court
time to thank the universe for the lesson of who your parents are and were; move across country and lose names and phone numbers. That’s sick - plain and simple. That’s not a formal debt you have to consider paying back for even one second - move on…
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Oh my !!! I thought my family was toxic … I don’t even know what to say , except , I would detach myself from them , that is not love . 
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Idk but anytime they try to help from here on out decline it. If they try to give gifts dont accept them. Did you all get into a fight? Maybe they are just mad over something not disclosed and being petty. Either way caution for the future for sure.
They would be upset because I wouldn’t pay a dime ! From the age you’re born til 18 they have to feed you , clothed you and put a roof over your head! You didn’t ask to be here so you really don’t owe them anything. Bill was paid when they had you ! Cut all ties and get away that’s so toxic smh
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They’re acting in a disgusting way and you owe them NOTHING.
Hell no dont pay them.that is crazy wth is wrong with them.you remember it is there responsibility to take care of you as a CHILD…as far as gifts thats just what that is a gift,no dont pay for it.Tell them you dont want any so called "gifts"from them anymore.im so sorry I cant believe I’m even reading something like this
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As a mother I can’t imagine keeping tabs on the things I provide for my CHILD! Honestly I have started making the 18 year pay money back when she needs it but only because she has decided she is an adult and doesn’t live at home even though she is still in school…(moved in with the bf) but I’m trying to teach her adult responsibility… I also have an 11 year old… I don’t have a ledger as that’s ridiculous! I get trying to teach kids about money but I am sorry to say you’re parent’s are crazy and if I did not tell my 18 year old that it was a loan at the time I can’t expect to be reimbursed… Distance yourself from toxic family members
If they didn’t want to spend their money on their kid, they should have both kept their legs closed. Don’t pay them anything
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- Who is your source of information? A relative trying to stir up mess, maybe? 2. Assuming it’s true as passed to you, which I doubt, why would your parents be that angry with you? Are you doing drugs? Depending on them for support when there’s an ex paying no child support, or a trashy bf living off you? Offhand, those are things that will get the old folks hot in a heartbeat. Sit down with the parent you are most able to talk to, and ask them.Then make adjustments accordingly. Please try to understand if there’s a deadbeat man of some kind involved. Getting old is scary enough without wondering if we will outlive our resources and sho will support the grandkids …
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Tell them to take your to court so the judge can have a good laugh! What in the world??? This is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever hear. I’d seriosuly tell them to take you to court and seriosuly distance myself. They have lost their damn minds
Advice. Tell them to go F themselves.
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Legally that is what they are responsible for 12-18. I wouldn’t worry with payin it back bc they never made an agreement with you as this is a loan. I wouldn’t go around the or allow my kids to be goin around them either they sound crazy
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You must not have been born from love, but as an investment. No one should ever put a price tag on their child.
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Tell them that’s the cost of being a parent, you appreciate everything they did and bid them farewell
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Tell them to take it to judge Judy. Oh lord I’ll pray for your parents because something isnt right
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Wow, are they nuts or what? That’s totally insane, you don’t have children and keep track of how much $ you spent on them growing up. This has to be one of craziest things I’ve ever heard of!
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Do you live with them? Are you able to distance yourself from them?? Like I would not be letting them see my kids any longer or speaking to them until they come to their senses and apologize and realize that this is bat shit fucking crazy and how wrong and hurtful it is.
I pay my mom back only for money I borrow when I’m in a bind. Never for things I didnt ask for. And my mom only asks I pay back what I borrow, she has never asked me for money back from her duty to me as a mother or tor anything she has bought her grandchildren. If I was you I’d tell my mom shes out of ger mind and she should see a psychologist or something and get her brain checked cuz shes nutz.
Why did they wait so long?
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Wow…I’m speechless on this one. I would cut ties and run.
Tell them it was there job as a parent if they don’t like it tell em to pack sand