I would tell him to get lost honestly. That’s crazy you worked so hard for so long & did so well for all for it to be completely gone now. Tell him to go sell himself since he wants to spend all your money you’ve worked for. That’s crazy
I think the answer to this is obvious.
Read this as if someone else posted it. What would you tell them?
Omg you sell yourself! You are pregnant for 1 and Cleary the option is he has to go!!!
Girlllllll time to let him gooooo.
F that
Leave in never look back … sell urself omg let him go back to prison wher he belongs .
Sell his a**… then boot him to the curve… girl you got this you DONT NEED HIM
Seriously? If you stay with him it’s just as much your fault at this point. Stop ignoring the obvious. Call it what it is.
Why are you with him?
If that’s something that YOU want to do, then by all means. But I wouldn’t do it simply bc he suggested it. I also would be concerned that my life would continue to be like that. Maybe some reflection is in order. If he could do that in two months what’s the rest of your life going to look like? Especially if he’s suggesting you sell your body which is a very personal decision.
Lol kick that man to the curb!!! Not even worth the aggravation. Sell yourself? Good lord
I don’t even understand why you are still asking what to do…I’m sorry i don’t understand what’s confusing you here
Sounds like he needs to be selling himself to the streets instead
That man is sucking you dry of literally everything you have and are.
Thinking of only himself. Loser. Gees. Mama, you already KNOW you can do better without him. Tell him to SHAPE UP or GET OUT! No IFS or BUTS about it. YOU are a heck of a STRONG WOMAN!!!
I wish this was a troll post but I’m thinking it’s not. How dare he even suggest that? Please please please leave him…he’s no good for you or your kids
Call his probation officer and tell then they can have him back.
Sell his asshole first and see what he says I’m so sorry but maybe a woman’s transition house to help you get on your feet.
- Get rid of this man.
- Stop having children until you’re more settled, and definitely stop reproducing with him.
Girl. Come on, now.
Sell him. Take the nickel you got for him and hope he stays gone. Do better. You have kids and clearly do fine by yourself so this doesn’t seem like a hard decision.
You and your children need to get away from him.
Ummm that’s a no.
He could just as easily sell his dumb ass right? But he Won’t cuz he’s a baby back bitch who likes to talk shit
- Get rid of this man.
- Stop having children until you’re more settled, and definitely stop reproducing with him.
Girl. Come on, now.
Well he obviously didn’t learn anything in prison about how to treat people.
Tell him to sell himself for money and then leave and give yourself and children the life you deserve
Get rid of him and start all over again it will be hard but you can do it!
God loves you and the last thing he would ever want is for you to place your body which he gave you to someone who doesn’t appreciate you. My honest suggestion? Try to distance yourself and really pray about what to do. But I do believe for the sake of your children and yourself to take some space would be best to protect you both. Your worth so much more to him than this and I truly believe this is not the end of your story but the beginning. Praying for for strength and wisdom for you sister.
Sail on down the river…away from this gangster…
You did well without him before so do it again
U already know the answer…Why ask
Oh. Ok. So who’s raising the kids when he ends up back in prison and you go to jail for prostitution?
Seriously sell yourself not only does that sound absolutely absurd it sounds even worse you being pregnant like as if I’m floored !! You survived without him you can do it you deserve to be happy life’s to short to be anything but !! And not a very good role model for your children either
Why complain if you knowingly let him take all the money? It’s your money. YOURE in control of it. He don’t care about you. Sell yourself and your pregnant with his kid? Why allow yourself to get pregnant AGAIN by a bum. Time to make wiser decisions.
Sorry why let him back after jail? Get a family lawyer for you an kids. Also see if any way to get him made to pay all your money back go police or something.
Call his probation officer and tell them that hes trying to pimp you out. Last I checked it’s against the law.
Umm I’d most def get rid of your partner sounds like you’re better off without him
Seriously your pregnant and he suggested you sell yourself?.. get rid of that man. He clearly hasn’t learnt how to deal with people while in prisons especially his partner. You worked hard while he was In prisons to be comfortable and get a nice little savings or some money saved and after he’s come out it’s gone surly that’s your answer you managed on your own while he’s in prisons you can manage on your own again, you’ve got this…
Bc prostitution isn’t going to get you arrested, beaten or killed, kids taken away and your relationship being an even bigger shitshow. He can get a job… and do not let him have access to your money.
Tell him to kick rocks you did better without him
That’s ludicrous. You worked so hard and saved for your babies for him to blow all of that in two months and YOU have to sell yourself?! Girl, no fucking way! Tell him he needs to get a job and boot his ass to the curb! You may have kids with him, but he IS NOT a father. A father would provide for his kids and his woman. This guy is a straight up dick who does not seem to appreciate what he had. Leave his ass! He doesn’t deserve you!
Leave him. Why do you think you need his useless as*?
Tell him to sell himself!!!
He is holding you back, let it go n start afresh, it’s never too late to reclaim your happiness,peace of mind n financial stability
Kick his ass out. That’s so beyond disrespectful. AND when he goes back to prison and asks you to hit his books you better tell him that ass is a gold mine and go get that
Jeezus. What are you doing letting him back into your life??? Do better. It’s up to you to raise those kids so they don’t end up like their dad.
Tf … if you don’t get rid of him!!! Before he makes you his hoe!!
This is crazy. It’s clear what to do.
Start walking in the opposite direction.
Is this even real?? U sound like a lifetime movie… I think u know what u gotta do…
Okay so first thing, get rid of that trash. Done. Then everything will get better.
Second, get a stay at home job on the computer. It’s perfect for a stay at home mom, you can make at least $15 an hour. YOU DO NOT NEED TO SELL YOURSELF TO MAKE MONEY.
Leave him, start over. With your three kids… He has no respect for you, is no example to your kids… And he serves you no benefit in any way
Put that man out your house, pull yourself up by your bootstraps, put one foot in front of the other and work to get yourself back where you were while he was in prison. It will seem overwhelming but you did it once you can do it again. I am speaking from experience. Dont go down the wrong path stay on the high road and place a higher value on yourself and your character. See a lawyer and get a divorce free yourself from this ball and chain.
You know the answer. You have to know the answer please don’t be crazy and kick that pos to the curb!
sounds like you need to figure out a way to just get away for good. Change your number and disappear! Sending prayers
I’d kick his ass out
Don’t continue to be a fool. Get rid of that dead weight
Time to get rid of him. You were doing better before he came back into your life.
Get Rid Of him
And Get ur Life back
No respect for you or the kids saying some bull💩 like that… sell his ass and start rebuilding your life again WITHOUT him… you already know that you are capable of doing great by yourself
Move on he definitely doesn’t know your worth or respect you.
Leave him you did better without him.
he’s trying to pimp you that’s not love and you are better off without him. Sending you love
If that’s not something you’re okay with then you need to put your foot down and tell him. It’s not okay for him to pull what he did
Send him a bill. For your time. Then leave and don’t look back.
Get rid of him and move on…you can do better
Oh helllll nawwwwww. Sell his ass!!! Right back to the dept of corrections.
P.O. And I would be having a real nice phone call Monday morning
Well just when I thought I heard everything, this takes the cake. I definitely would kick him to the curve. Your better off without him. You’ve did better without him for 3 years, might as well continue raising your babies alone. Omg I honestly think if an man truly loves you, he would NEVER ask his girlfriend/wife/fiancé to sell herself.
Girl leave, you were doing good without him, you can do it again. So sorry you’re going thru this
Tell him to get out there and make money suggesting what you should do with your body, when he can put his own on the market.
Gosh there is a lot of victim blaming going on, you know mental and emotional abuse is a heavy thing to deal with and I imagine this person would have been still under a decent amount of power by this person even in jail. I think it’s important to be kind and supportive. Rolling eyes and telling her she has “let” him back isn’t that helpful to the situation and potentially will make her feel more helpless.
To the person who wrote this, you know what you need too do, I hope you have some gorgeous support and family who you can lean on, you need to get some professional help. I’m so, so sorry you are living this nightmare, do not sell yourself, look at your children for strength and think what you would want for them and realise they are watching. Launch pad with the love you have for them. You need some proper, professional advice x
Grab what you can sell and leave immediately. Contact the law for child support and any protection available.
Sounds like you need to get rid of him all together. Your better off
Read what you just typed and tell us what you think…
Sounds like he needs to support his kids , not just you doing it .
I’d kick him to the kerb .
He sounds toxic. All your achievements all your hard work just vanished when he came into the picture.
Recognize that as your first inclination to leave him be. The suggestion he made sounds out of ignorant desperation. Does he not know all that worked for before you didn’t have to be a prostitute? Does he not remember? No, bc the boy wasn’t there to see your hardwork and dedication, and probably doesn’t understand what that entails. Leave that man be to get you better for you and your kids. I understand the kids in mix, that’s why you need to. Hopefully, he’ll get straight for those kids too, but I doubt it. Maybe though. I think in order for his mindset to change he needs to believe your not going to be available for his convenience and his use. You got this, you did it before, you can do this.
Hes a dirt bag…get rid of him. Its going to be tough but its better than being with him…good luck
Dump his ass & build yourself up for you & your children. For any man to go and suggest that is awful. Hoping for the best for you & your children
Om goodness, honey, you are worth so much more then that! Please don’t do it, I’m a mother and have 10 grandchildren, please know that I’m always here for you if you need help or just want to talk, you are worthy, you are important, you are strong, please reach out for help, my heart breaks for you, hugs
Oh hell no!!! Kick him out!!!
Get rid of him and you shouldn’t have got pregnant
Kick him to the curb ur too good
Make him get a job and support use
He sounds like a sick, pathetic excuse of a man, LEAVE.
Sounds like you need to get away from him and put him out you would be better off
Fuck them. Leave and you can find something.
I suggest you sell your low life partner to the chinese market! And make you and your kids a life that everyone can grow up knowing that life is better with out arrhmm daddy o!
Run as fast as you can from this devil!!!
That man is garbage, throw him out.
Leave him and don’t ever take him back. If he suggested something like that then he ain’t worth shit.
See about selling him and gtfo. You don’t need him
Wow sounds like you were way better off without him…sorry that you are going through this🥰
Dump him n stay away from him n pray but away from him.
Giiiirl, I suggest you up and leave his sorry ass. You are worth so much more than that. Maybe HE should support his family like a man is supposed to.
He sounds like a disgusting POS kick his lazy ass out
You clearly GOT THIS on your own so if he cant be good/better for you or with you then its time to let him go ! I know its hard and sucks when you love so hard and give it your all but sometimes its lessons learned and you gotta pack up and leave ! You got this
I have news for you, dear, this man is sickening. Please get rid of him. You did well without him, please do not let him degrade you. He has a bad problem. Make him leave!
He would be gone it’s hard being on own but then have all that hard work being taken from u and ur children noo way
He has no respect for u waht so ever. Even thouf Jesus forgave the person that sold him for some money, he took away taht persons position as his disciple. So forgive him but take away his position as your husband.
Bloody hell leave him u can do better