My period started while I was being intimate with my boyfriend and now he is ignoring me: Advice?

wow he’s immature as hell! forget about that fuckin loser

Either he’s not man enough to deal with a period(like, what?), or he’s no longer interested. Either way, sounds like a good person to get rid of.

please just let him go. that is the most ridiculous thing i have ever heard. Did this man not have health class?

He’s way to immature to be in a relationship. Periods happen, whenever they want to come.

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It sounds like he doesn’t want a serious relationship as he was saying. And it sounds like you should just ignore him because you dodged a bullet. If that’s how a 35 year old man is going to act over a period, he might as well just go look for a man then…

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Ok so, my husband…started out as a friend with benefits, right? We had known each other for 10 years prior but, no strings attached from the get go. The VERY FIRST TIME we had sex, I started…and early at that! He noticed, and never said a word til I apologized bc well, I didn’t know but still, whoopsies. His response sealed the deal on him for me…“shit happens”. Find you a man who isn’t grossed out by a little period blood, is willing and will happily go grab your tampons, pads, cups, etc and not treat you like a leper bc this happens to you monthly!

Not ever!!! Find someone else…he’s an udiot

If he ignored you over that. That is a red flag. He’s not ready for a family of his own. You shouldn’t feel guilty of being a woman. That’s not good, he’s 35 yrs old. He should know better. That is not a good reason to ignore someone for 2 weeks. He’s immature, you better run

Period sex should not be an issue for a grown ass man.

It’s a natural thing and he should be okay with it. Sounds like he needs to grow up. If he wanted something long term, even marriage, how is going to deal with your period every month when you all live together?

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He did you a favor. Forget about him.

He needs to grow up and maybe read a book on the human anatomy! Will I get sick, really! Lady if you never see him again you probably will be better off! Hes not ready for a real woman.

He sounds toxic. He is about “family” but doesn’t understand flow? I’m jumping on the assumption that things would have taken a big turn in a couple of months and not for the best. Delete his info and move on.

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You’re dealing with a child, let this one go he’s definitely not worth your time!!

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Run girl, DO NOT HAVE A KID WITH HIM, what if it’s a girl and she starts HER period and has blood on her pants or something and he says ewwww gross, doesn’t even sound like he would be the type to go help her buy pads or anything, That’d be HORRIBLE and apparently he’s not a “man” in that respect🤷‍♀️

handsome is only skin deep ! Run !

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he thinks he will get sick from it?? has he been sheltered all his life??? he is definitely very immature and you definitely don’t need that in your life.

Ran and got him a towel because he was feeling icky girl you should have shoved it in his face. :joy: that’s no man that’s a boy. 35 and asks of he’s going to get sick from it… does he even know how babies are made?

I think he needed an excuse to leave your place. He had sex. He got what he wanted and now he’s not interested anymore. That phone call was more likely from a woman. The guy probably played you. No man that’s interested in you stayed away for two weeks and didn’t answer your calls. There is alot more to this story from his side. Huge red flags. Do yourself a favor and call it quits before you get your heart broken and splattered in different directions. Find a real man that only wants to be with you.

Good riddance he’s an immature idiot. U need a real man. He did u a favor. U may not see it now because u r hurt but u r better off without that immature excuse for a man.

Leave leave leave! Don’t walk, run! He is a 35 year old and is acting like a 5 year old who got cooties wiped on him… he wants a serious relationship but can’t handle natural adult sh!t and runs away like a child… If it came early due to stress, I wonder if it’s actually him causing you the stress…
Realistically though it’s hormonal and women’s hormones change often for many different reasons.

Bottom line is if he’s making you feel shame for a 1000% completely normal bodily function do you really see a feature with him and would you really want your daughter to grow up being shamed for being a woman? Next thing you know, you’re not allowed to take a sh!t or fart.

If a bit of blood scares him off , let him stay scared off. He does realise that if he wants a family of his own, his partner has to give birth yeah??? He does realise that giving birth is messy , does he not?

Ew, he’s fucking weird for being grossed out by it, and also a tool for but knowing Anything about women’s bodies or biology - the “am I going to get sick from it?” Fucking sent me, because how would that even be something that went through his mind :joy: like, what?
Girl, you dodged a bullet, leave that little boy alone, he’s got a lot of growing up to do and you already have a kid.

It was meant to happen. You just had enough time to get to know him. Lol stop chasing after a man that doesn’t even love you. Stay single. There’s weirdos out there. Keep men away from your daughter. Children that is.

First off, you’re 32 and you’ve had a regular clockwork period since it started!? Either, lucky you or that’s bs but none the less it’s normal to have surprise flow.

WTF HE MEAN “Is he going to get sick”!? How is he 35 and never ran into a woman’s period before!?! He seems stupid and lame and you are better off without him.

The only mistake you made was having sex with such an idiot before you knew he was SUCH an idiot. You’re better off.

What a dick, honestly he did you a favor and block him right away. He should be understanding instead of being immature, i expect that from 20 something year old males more than a 35 year old boy. Don’t bother with him anymore. My baby dad cleaned up my puke on our 1st time hanging out and I accidentally started my period during sex and even though we aren’t together he was more mature about it.

He’s lame, be done while you can, before you end up getting pregnant by this infant of a “man.” He seems to move a little fast also. That’s a red flag :triangular_flag_on_post: and your period was trying to tell you something….

Sounds like a good reason for you to completely ignore him. I mean, he grossed out because of your period? What an immature idiot.

He is a prude and ignorant; if a period is going to scare him off that bad, move on because he has. Things will only get worse. Hold your head high.

It’s a period relax but seems to me he just wanted sex if that the only time you done it.

He is too much of a man child to deal with a natural body occurrence then just leave him be. What is he? 12?

Nope, but is a good enough reason to kick him to the curb!!

No he is not worth it he is an asshole

Girl good riddance! What a child he is.

At his age, he should know. Lol. I dont have advice but hes a rookie…

Phuck him!!! He’s a ridiculous kid too immature for a woman and a family.

Wow!!! Definitely drop him.

What A P***y!! Dump Him…!

Sounds very bizarre how he wanted to get to know your 8 year old daughter, that would have really put me off honestly. The period thing is childish AF.

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Leave him alone.
Don’t contact him at all.
Once he grows up or realizes that he’s being an moron, he’ll contact you.

What a weirdo. Dump him. You need a man, not a boy.

If he’s that immature move on!!!

Omg, run away from this guy :running_woman:

Tell the man child to take a hike

Let him be. He’s an idiot.

Gosh man-children annoy me. 35 and can’t handle a natural thing

Hes a child. Cut your losses and move on.

And these are the type of men voting to make decisions on our bodies​:woman_facepalming:t4::yawning_face::roll_eyes:

Ok it’s a natural thing…he sounds like a big baby it’s not like you did it on purpose lose the man child and wait for a real man who doesn’t cry over dumb crap if he can’t handle a little blood he cannot br ready for children.

Omg tell him bye bye… What a strange dude. Where the hell has he been living, In a cave on Mars. He really odd, your better off with out him. Move on and find a man who’s not werid!

If he gets grossed out by a period how will he deal with child birth or a dirty diaper? Ditch that dude lol :laughing:

You spelled EX boyfriend wrong…

“Am I getting sick because of it?” Duh!! Maybe he missed Health in 6th grade!

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That is not a man. That is a boy! Boys act like that! Run girl, for another guy!

Uhh ya no. That’s ridiculous and immature of him.

:triangular_flag_on_post: :triangular_flag_on_post: Focus on your daughter. She is 8. She needs you. Not some random man sleeping in your bed and playing daddy after a few weeks. That’s a huge hell no
Yeah the period thing is ridiculous. He’s ridiculous. But honestly I’m a lot more concerned about your little girl

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He seems like a douche, shit happens and it’s not something we as women can control… any mature man knows this and wouldn’t act that way, seems to me like he’s doing you a favor honestly.

I ain’t scared of a bit of blood, he needs to man the fuck up.

He is not educated first of all at 35 years old asking a question as dumb as “am I going to get sick” the fuck haha second of all that’s very immature of a 35 year old man to react…cut your losses and RUN

RUN if he doesn’t understand a woman’s anatomy by 35 then he’s too immature for a relationship.

Zero maturity. Move along swiftly. :-1::walking_woman:

That’s a immature thing for a man to do.

I mean if he was a man at all he would make sure you’re alright since it happened during intimacy. Some guys find it gross and some aren’t bothered by it. If he’s grossed out by a woman’s cycle then he shouldn’t be with a natural born woman. Plain and simple. They aren’t always gonna fall on the exact same date every month. I mean…everybody farts. Is he gonna run the second you let one rip around him and it smells bad?? Oh…maybe inform him of the natural juices that increase during intimacy…sometimes a woman can squirt…it contains pee. Yeah he ain’t a man I’m just smh lol he is definitely not worth the stress.

Let him go. Why would a grown ass man think it would make him sick? Or say “ew”? Or not speak to you because of it. Tell him to grow up and move along to someone who acts their age.

Drop him like a bad habit. Now.

I could say so much more, but why? If a man can’t handle that happening, no way he can handle having children or anything else life may throw at him. You don’t need that. Walk away. Don’t be embarrassed. He should be ashamed for acting that way.

Find a new man he clearly is immature :joy: wants to start a family but can’t handle a period lmfao. That’s funny. He’ll never handle a birth room. He’s type who will leave after seeing a woman give birth to HIS child bc he thinks she’s all messed up down there now.

Throw him away like the immature trash he is. 35 is too old for that nonsense.

Sorry but STOP INTRODUCING YOUR DAUGHTER TO MEN YOU BARLEY KNOW !!! These men have bad intentions 2 months shouldn’t be enough time introduce eachother. Also he ain’t the one. Periods are normal he needs to grow up.

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What a ridiculous, immature child. You can do 100x better than that nonsense - this is his loss not yours. Move on and find somebody who can not just gracefully handle a uterus and it’s functions, but how it works.

Move on. This guy is a moron.

It’s a reason for YOU to stop seeing him. :scissors::scissors::scissors: him off. He hasn’t matured yet

This is plenty of reason to drop this weird mf

Look at that the trash just yeeted itself from your life! How thoughtful!

And he wants kids? :joy::joy::joy: he’s still a kid if he doesn’t even know what a period is or what it does to a woman’s body. Move on girl that’s childish.

Consider it a blessing. If this dude is 35 and ignorant enough to ask u if he was gonna get sick from period blood he’s a fcking idiot (and if he’s still immature enough to get “grossed out” by a period… :roll_eyes:). Throw the whole ass “man” away.

Dump that giant baby…get you a real man

Sorry but what an arse he is!

He’s obviously not a man and you dogged a bullet with the boy child

Immature man! Move on! Find a mature guy please :pray:

He sounds like a prepubescent little boy acting that way about a period wowowowww :roll_eyes: Girl… take the L on the 2 months wasted with that guy and move on. He shouldn’t have you feeling like this because of a natural, womanly function. Way better men out there than that.

Fuck him. When we were around 20, my boyfriend and I would have sex when I was on my period, and he would help me clean up. Your boyfriend is obviously immature and not ready to be a father.

That’s a boy not a man, obviously women have periods, If a man is grossed out by that then obviously he is childish!

What a pathetic little boy :joy::joy: he sounds like the same type of immature male that giggles at the word ‘vagina’. Definitely not the type of role model I’d want around my daughter, that’s for sure. You both deserve better :smiling_face:

Very immature. That would be like you ignoring him because he passed gas while having sex. It’s a normal body function and he needs to deal with it and get over it.

He is a weak dude , he did you a favor.

Fuck him bro, he’s a man child if he’s upset over your period starting while y’all had sex… that is also the stupidest question I’ve ever heard “will I get sick”
Don’t waste your time on this one love

I’m trying to figure out how you didn’t know you had your period . Don’t you pee first

1st mistake was letting him near your 8yr old daughter 2 months in. Who does that…also what man wants a family, but can’t handle a bloody vagina? This is where/how the family is made,literally. This was a blessing that he moved on!

Uh, no it’s not a good reason to be ghosted for 2 weeks. Seems like he doesn’t like what adult women bodies can do. Kind of explains why he wanted to meet your daughter so badly. He sounds like a pedophile that’s using you to get close to your child. I’m not even joking.

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He’s not worth your time, that is such a bullshit reason to stop talking to someone. My period is so irregular so most times I really can’t track it and I’m not the only woman that happens to. He needs to man up, it’s just a little bit of blood ffs.

What a b word. Find a real man.

Nah, go get you a real man. Get sick because of it? Wtf. If he was going to catch anything from you he’d catch it from sex itself not the period. I don’t like sex on my period and damn is my gosh and ain’t still following me around talking about “my penis doesn’t care if there’s blood” :rofl:

Your bloke is a pansy if a bit of blood really bothers him that much. It also shows how he’d be as a father if something so natural freaks them out

Too old to be acting like such a bitch boy lol leave his ass alone.

He sounds like a child. Be happy yu dodged a bullet

He wants kids but can’t handle a period :joy: yeah let him go

That’s prob why he’s 35 & single. How does he expect to “start a family” without your period LOL? Also, him spending so much time w your daughter & being grossed out by periods gives me pedo vibes.

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These stories make me think that pos was after your daughter.

Stop introducing your children to men you have only known for a few months😒

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Seriously? That’s not a man, that’s a boy. I wonder if anyone ever told him how periods work?

Walk away he needs to grow up