I say bye than because I’m not getting rid of my pets for no one period… your definitely not overreacting. She the one wrong .
Shit don’t let the door hit you on your way out
That would be a bye then. My pets live here she doesn’t. Bye bye
Nope, pets are family and it isn’t like they live with you. Cutting you off is extreme…not going over often is understandable. She can also give her daughter a benedryl when they go over and you can keep the cat in another room when they are there.
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I’m allergic to cats. I break out in hives and my face swells up. Cat dander sticks to freaking everything so, every time my daughter comes home I have a reaction. Every time I got to my BILs house too. It sucks.
However, I have NEVER demanded they get rid of their cats because of it. I just take a benadryl, wash my hands, stay away from the cat, etc.
I do ask that my ex at least wraps her clothes in a bag so I can toss them in the washer without touching them. However, demanding you get rid of your cat is WAY out of line.
lol ah no that’s narcissistic behavior
No you are not in the wrong she is the one that is totally in the wrong. You should not have to give up YOUR pet to make her happy.
Keep the cat. SIL can kick rocks.
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My Dad, Grannie and sister and most of my friends all have cats and I’m allergic, I just take an antihistamine before I visit any of them and I’m fine. I would never ask them to get rid of their pets, let alone give them that kind of ultimatum.
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My son is allergic to cats. We have plenty of family members with them so we just meet in a public place or they come here. If she is truly allergic just getting rid of the cat won’t help. The cats dander will still be in the carpet, rugs or furniture. My son didn’t get better from being sick and having horrible rashes until we literally moved out of our house to a place that never had a cat in it.
I can understand if they don’t want to come over if it means your niece has an allergy outbreak, but cutting you off altogether? Seems extreme to me, I wouldn’t get rid of my pets, they’re family too 
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My home …pets are family to me
Bye! EFF that!!! She is 100% wrong! You’re 100000000% right!
Uhhh wow my son is severely allergic to cats, like asthma attack, Benadryl kind of allergic. I never ask any family to get rid of their pets 
we just don’t bring him if we visit a cat friendly house and if someone visits who owns a cat we ask them to lint roll themselves and wash their hands your sister in law needs to get over it. Eventually if not now that kid will attend school with cat friendly kids she can’t place them into a bubble or enact a world wide cat ban 
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to her then. That’s terrible. Benedryl before they visit.
Nope. That is stupid imo
Nah, tell her she can stay away.
To cut off completely without an allergy test or just not coming to the house is absolutely ridiculous and very selfish on her end.
Absolutely not, would I get rid of anything that my child/children adored to pacify someone who not only doesn’t come over often, but feels entitled to everyone doing as she asks. She is setting herself up for a very lonely life. Live yours with your family. If she chooses to let go, let her do it.
They’re 100% wrong . Keep your pet!!
Oh well… people are crazy… What makes her think you’re supposed to get rid of a family member just so she can come over?? Smh… good riddance
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Most definitely let your kids keep their pet!
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Her problem not yours! That’s just ridiculous!! I would just be saying oh well that’s sad I guess you won’t be coming over anymore then 
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Tell them to have their daughter take some allergy meds before the visit if they ever do!
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I would choose my pets!! 
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My son has pet allergies and we own a dog 
. Sometimes he’ll have a reaction and sometimes he’s good for months. I’d be telling your sil to piss off.
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Nah I ain’t getting rid of my animal
If I was in that situation, sorry, but no way would I ‘get rid’ of the pets - and it seems as though she expects everyone to do so. I understand there are genuine allergies, but surely there’s something on the market available to help.
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My son is allergic to dogs , his excema acts up and nose and cough. We still visit family
Bye bye sister-in-law
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Tell your sister in law to go fuck herself. Tell her unless she changes her attitude she is banned from coming over.
There’s no way this is real.
Keep the cat. Shes over reacting. I have nieces and nephew allergic to cats and if and when they visit I put them in a room for a few hours. Then their mom (my sil) will give them some benadryl. If they can’t pinpoint the allergic reaction then it may not be that bad of an allergy.
Seriously haha tell her to give to fuck
Keep your pets. They are 100% wrong. I wish people would never come to my house.
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Ok then. Bye to my sil.
Kept the pets dump the sil
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Keep your pet! Just get rid of the sister in law
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- How bad was your niece’s allergic reaction?
- What is your relationship with your brother and his family as a whole? Have you talked with him about it?
Keep the cat… if she only visited 2x in 2 years… don’t let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya… bye bye Karen…
Your house, your bills. If you get rid of the cats,what’s next?
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They don’t live with you so keep your pets. But, the sister in law needs to have her child tested to make sure that’s what it actually is.
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Um…your house…your pets?
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I think it’s selfish for her to expect everyone to do that. Pets are family too…
Then don’t come ovef
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I’d tell sister in law to kick rocks. I love my pets so much more then my in laws. I’m not even sorry.
Let the SIL stay in a hotel at next visit and visit her there at poolside so the cousin’s can play together 
She is in the wrong and is super selfish.
That is YOUR house and YOUR family - YOU make the rules of YOUR family and YOUR home, SHE does NOT! You get rid of your furbaby, you are bowing down to her… DO. NOT. DO. IT!
I’m going to be blunt - if she were my SIL, I’d tell her to get rid of her kid because she has “cat allergies” and see how she likes that. 
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Keep the cat. Get more.
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Keep the cat forget about them.
One less worrie 
stay away on the holidays too
Keep the pet .they need allergy pills.
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Your house your rules. Why would you even let someone else take control?
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Give that baby a benadryl and call it a day. Cat allergy where?
So they won’t come to your house. Go to theirs. No one should get rid of a pet because one kid has an allergy. Would all of you stop eating a food if one couldn’t have it?
Can you get a new SIL instead lol
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For a possible once a year visit? NO WAY! Keep your cat. Meet up for dinner at restaurant or park
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Im so grateful sister in law isn’t crazy. No way would I hurt my kids over relatives that barely even come around
1 less family member to deal with i would never get rid of my pet for someone else thats like asking her to get rid of her daughter 
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Let your kids keep your pet! Especially since they don’t come over much. Do things outside or meet them somewhere if they want to get together.
My husband and daughter are highly allergic to the point they can’t breathe. We have to go to the hospital so it’s our job to stay away and people get mad at us for it too. My family had to make a choice if they wanted the pet or them. But we don’t ask them to get rid of their pets.
And fyi she not allergic to the damn cat she is allergic to pet dander or the fur smh tell her to educate herself before coming to u with that nonsense bullshit
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Seriously. You cant ask people to get rid of their animals. Their family too. So let them cut you out cuz their in the wrong.
Keep your pets and don’t invite her to your house. Go and visit her.
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Tell her don’t let the door hit her on the way out!
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Keep your pet tell her to put her on meds or stay away
I’d tell her I’ll see ya somewhere else then.
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See I would be petty and get another cat . My husband has an allergy to dog and cat dander. I had my dog before we started dating. My dog has stayed with us the whole time and he takes Zyrtec and we keep our dog clean and groomed. My dog is going to be 11 in October. Our time is limited. I may have another 4-5 years left or 10. Who knows. Animals only live a short time. No way would I get rid of them.
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Pets are apart of your family. Anyone not living in your house expecting you to get rid of them is way off base.
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Tell her to fuck off its your home, if she doesn’t like it, its her problem, not yours, period…
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Sounds like she is going to be very lonely… effff that
That’s jus childish I can’t stand people who demand others of what to do with their lives because of their selfishness. You shouldn’t even consider getting rid of your pets!! Your sil is being super selfish and ignorant.
Keep the cat it isnt her house dont let an outside family member control what pet u can have in ur home
Our pets are our family. They even go on trips with us and we stay in a pet friendly hotel. Not getting rid of mine for anyone
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Do not get rid of your pets. That’s ridiculous.
Small price to pay to keep your peace and your kids and pet happy. sis, it’s been real.
I would say so long! Its your life
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If you can’t get rid of the relatives
Don’t get rid of your pet. They’re family. But you can’t expect them to come over if they have a severe allergy. Just have to go to their place to visit.
I would be saying bye cause I refuse to give up my cats. It’s stupid for them to think you should give up your pets just to please them
You know they aren’t able to come to your place. Meet then some place other then your home. And keep your pet.
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Maybe she should take her kid to the doctor first to see if she is allergic to animals and put the kid on allergy meds. She is highly overreacting. You should not have to give up your pets. They are family.
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Tell her it was nice to know u lol
You can visit there home, I would not get rid of on pet to make another family member happy. Maybe I’m selfish
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I’d rather keep my fur child
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Keep your cat, get rid of the SIL…
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To bad for her I WOULD never get rid of my pets for anyone or anything!!!
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Good doesn’t sound like she needs to be over your house anyway matter of fact Merry Christmas holiday anything else send her a car with your pets pictures on it Jimbo
Please do not get rid of your cat. Does she have proof that’s her child is allergic to cats? She sounds very controlling to me. Hopefully no one else is the family chooses to just dump their animal family off somewhere . Find a meeting place like a park or ice cream shop. If you go to her house, you will have pet dander on you, what then? Is she going to tell you to go somewhere and shower and but new clothes!
It’s their problem, not yours. Your cat is family and should not be tossed out because someone who isn’t in your household is allergic. If they want to cut you off then so be it.
Lol I wouldn’t get rid of my pet for anybody
Tell her you will met her at park or any where to her liking but you will not be getting rid of your FAMILY FUR BABY
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Good riddanceeeeeeee 
Tell them to take allergy medicine before they come over.
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My niece is allergic to animals and stays with me often. I have dogs. We have random stray cats in the neighborhood, one used to stay on my porch. But my sister never complained about my animals. EVER. Also she could give her child allergy medicine to help prevent the rashes. I wouldn’t make my kids get rid of their animal because of someone who doesn’t even live in my home.
It doesn’t sound like they come over anyhow, only twice in two years. Don’t upset your kids, keep the cat!!!
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Bye! Who cares what she thinks!
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They are wrong! NEVER get rid of your pet for someone else! They don’t even live with you!
To your SIL lol. I cant understand how someone could have the AUDACITY lol.
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