Leave the freaking douchetard he is obviously seeking out the attention of other woman and would probably cheat if given the opportunity or probably already has…
He’s clearly a cheater just leave before you get hurt for real that man doesn’t respect you clearly. Faithful good men don’t do that!
He has no respect for you. That’s the beginning and end of the story. Your thoughts , feelings and words mean nothing to him.
Get rid of that disrespectful slob. Do not tolerate that level of disrespect!! Know your worth.
Do the same but stare at the mens crutch and smile
Not only disrespectful to you, but disrespectful and weird for other women as well.
Walk up to the hottest guy u see and ask for his number.
Completely disrespectful. I am the kind of person who will point out a girls amazing butt to my husband and it’s taken him years to even participate in this with me. He didn’t want to be checking out other women out of respect for me. Now we do it together and giggle.
I really hope in your situation you know you worth and get out of this marriage. Telling him it bothers you and him literally being a jerk is absolutely wrong.
If his doing this hes probably cheating sorry he hads no respect for u at all seem like he doesn’t care about yer Relationship leave him a Relationship is about respect and trust x Trust your gut x
Trying smacking his sleazy face…
Everyone is entitled to admire beauty but when u stare and try to make eye contact that is completely disrespectful…
The man is a pig…
Simple…
You aren’t overreacting. Everyone notices other people but he needs to learn self control that’s just gross and disrespectful
Grow up he isn’t dead or blind and can look he is with you every night
Do not give in and DO NOT do the same thing he does because that will just make the situation worse not unless you don’t care about your relationship?? I’m sure you dono otherwise u wouldn’t be asking this question… because if u do the same thing it will just lead to arguments and him loosing trust in you and either he will think u are cheating or u might want someone else therefor he will hurt his pride/ego and every man on earth needs his ego/pride… what I say you can do is pray to God and ask him to guid u through this hardship and he reveal to you what is the best option or maybe talk to a marriage counselor… I think that if u see him do it again bring it to his attention with no attitude and be careful with the way u word it because he will then think you’re insecure which is a huge turn off for men!!! I would say babe I saw u looking at the girl here at Wal mart and I found it disrespectful but clarify and say you are not mad you just want to express your feelings to him because it is healthy for a healthy relationship to do so… or you can easily keep a cute shirt that u found in Walmart and redirect his attention when u see him looking at another girl u can say " hey babe look at this shirt don’t you think I look amazing in it and ask if u should buy it… showing him how confident you are and possibly showing him and reminding him why he fell in love with u to begin with and helping him fall inlove with you all over again! I wi keep u in prayers I hope this helped!!!
no respect there sounds like a soon to be or already a cheater
My ex used to do that shit. Notice I said my EX. Screw him!!! You’re worth more!!!
So all men look but it is totally disrespectful to do so with you next to him. He doesn’t care that he is disrespecting you. Not sure you can fix it. So decide if you can live that way, if not leave.
Been there did that… they usually end up being sneaky cheating spouses they lack respect and self control & demeanor… I hope it’s different for you though & he changes…. Horrible feeling & it’s actually disgusting because yes they have eyes but living a lustful sloppy way ain’t it…
He obviously has no respect for you or your feelings. If he so blatantly disrespects you right to your face, what does he do when you’re not there? Don’t waste one more minute of your life on him. Find someone that will treat you the way you should be treated. Someone so selfish should be alone, with the one person they care about.
I point out beautiful women to my husband, but he knows only to glance. Mannnnnn, if he ever tried to make eye contact
Throw the whole man away.
Stop looking at other men when you walk.
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Embarrass him in public, shout WHY DONT YOU TAKE HER PICTURE IT WILL LAST LONGER see if that gets his attention on how much it bothers you and is disrespectful.
Eww. Thats disgusting. You are not over reacting at all, and the women he is staring at are probably creeper out.
Tell him he’s a creep and to cut it out.
That really is disrespectful. I’m sorry he’s doing that to you.
Get out sis. It’ll never stop. Just like porn. Some men are absolute trash honestly
You deserve better
Full on stare is just so creepy and so disrespectful to you. I get taking a look here and there but you do a 2 second look. This sounds like he wants others of he is trying to get them to look back at him to make a connection. I would find another that respects you.
Then you started looking at other men and see how he react
Not me being the one that would definitely introduce him
You aint nothing but a. DOG!! Player, I get it…
If he can’t be respectful then maybe it’s time to leave. That’s flat out disrespectful and I don’t tolerate anybody doing that nonsense
Tell him he is gaslighting you by completing disregarding your feelings. Whether he felt it was okay or not, you have expressed how it makes you feel, how you feel disrespected, that it hurts you, and you want him to stop. If he continues to do so, he is not only disrespecting you completely, he is completely disregarding your feelings. That’s toxic and a huge . Instead of gaslighting you, he should be saying “I’m sorry babe. I realize how it makes you feel and i won’t do that again, because I don’t want to hurt you etc” instead he gaslights and blames you “you’re overreacting. You’re insecure. Etc”. Also very toxic
My husband wouldn’t do this, at least in front of me. Completely disrespectful and disgusting behavior. I’m sorry
My advice, if he can’t respect you on this, how far will he eventually push the issue. Flirting? Eventually cheating. Or maybe other things he’ll disregard your feelings for his wants and desires.
Tell him you won’t be gaslighted and if he continues to disrespect you, yalls relationship, and disregard your feelings, you will just leave him single as a Pringle. Good luck girl.
Imagine what he is doing when your not around ugh
Soooo disrespectful!!
He cares less what you think and say but he’s terrible to treat you that way
His eyes, his choice.
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You married an inconsiderate pig. That is who he is and it won’t change.
Ewww. He’s gaslighting you to avoid responsibility for being an utter creep. Make him knock that shit off. -sincerely, all women
Also, divorce him.
Sounds like you married a guy who will peep into women’s windows…Don’t women know this kind of stuff before they marry a weirdo? Geez.
I wouldn’t put up with it
Soooo disrespectful… time for a new husband
For sure over reacting looking is looking not acting
Look at men in the same manner he looks at other women 2 can play games right!
Very disrespectful, he looking now, but when he finally catches another woman attention we all know what comes next🤔
Start staring at guys see how he likes it
Looks at guys next to him see how he likes that
Its just window shopping ! Hes married to you
Different ball game if hes chatting online to them
Do it yourself and guage his reaction
There’s a few options you could chose, leave him, teach him, or hate him. Leaving is always an option, teach him a lesson about it and do exactly as he does but when he tries talking to you pretended you didn’t noticed because you were “too caught up looking”, or you can stay how things are and just slowly grow to resent him till one day you can’t take it anymore and end up finally at option 1.
What’s good for him is good for you. Do it a few times and see how it makes him feel, bet he won’t like it.
It’s very disrespectful bc you told him how you feel and he still continues and telling you that you are overreacting is a sign of gaslighting
I mean you can look at men or women all you want to. It’s just looking lol. You can look at the menu still, at least he isn’t ordering anything
Imagine how the other women feel getting eyed down by a creep.
He wont change let him be a creep-o single.
He should RESPECT your feelings and NOT say you’re overreacting… my gosh, we’re taught to communicate our feelings, yet when we do, this is often the reply. Terrible cycle of shutting down & opening up again, cuz of stuff like this.
I’m sorry, and I understand completely.
Shit woman I have slapped a few men rigjt then and there on the cheek for turning their whole damn head to look at another hot woman. Didn’t stay with those losers. All men and all women can see beauty in others. It should not however be obvious that either stole a quick glance. Shouldn’t be staring or head turning. The right man will still notice other beautiful women cuz hell he is a man, but he won’t do it in ways that hurt you. Surely you have seen some fine ass men and glanced too, but see you glanced not stared. All this said girl replace this one. You will know the right man when you find him. He will only be looking at you in a room full of other women. Look for that guy. He is who you should be with. The right man makes you feel like no other women exist.
100% disrespectful!!! Legit staring is never okay either…married or not… imo. Marriage Counseling ASAP!
Do you look at other men. Do you admire the mountains and flowers.
Theres nothing wrong with admiring beauty as long as he aint “plucking” the flowers hes looking at.
My ex did that he would literally just stare like some stalker and watch them till he couldn’t see them anymore…we had moved in a apt… and it was upstairs and there was a restaurant behind us and the parking lot was down below us…he could tell you want female drove which car… and when he comes to my place to pick up our son he’s staring in my neighbor door standing there and he is always talking to Lil girls the little girl was uncomfortable she wouldn’t speak to him and when I saw him say something to her…I said leave her the f alone… seriously take it as a sign.
.I didn’t mind if he had just looked at her and went back to talking to me …
Looking isn’t a big deal, we are human. However, if you’ve voiced how much it bothers you and he continues to do it that is the problem. He has no respect for you. Unacceptable
He sounds like a disrespectful creep show. Sorry but it does. Men who do this make social and public setting really uneasy for women.
This is mad disrespectful. It’s one thing to look, humans are beautiful, but to stare and make eye contact like a fucking creep? Yeah, that’s a hell no.
I find it creepy as hell if he does this the way you described. Also, I used to feel the same way, I got married when I was 17 and I was always convinced that he was looking at someone or whatever, but as I grew older and matured some, I realized that people look around, sometimes they get in their thoughts and appear to be staring but aren’t really looking at anything but through it. I’ll never understand why so many of yall wanna jump to the absolute worst advice and possibly cause someone to ruin their marriage over something so simple and silly as this. Is he sleeping with these women? Is he pursuing them in any way or is he just looking in their direction longer than you’d like?
That’s disgusting behavior! I would leave!
Umm yea if he is blatantly doing that in front of you that is disrespectful
If you don’t leave him:joy:
My husband used to honk the horn at girls walking down the street. I asked him to stop but he didn’t until I started helping him. I would reach over and honk for him even when he didn’t want to . Sometimes you have to give them a taste of their own medicine.
Buds cr33py id leave lol
Do men that way and see how he likes it
Disrespectful! Maybe you should try staring at men.
He’s married to you. He isn’t dead. We don’t own the people we love. I look at attractive people. It’s not wrong to look and think “wow” then we move on with life. He’s not trying to get with someone else.
I get that some people have different boundaries. It just doesn’t seem like leaving a marriage worthy to me
A look is one thing but to downright stare until eye contact is made is too much
Very disrespectful to you and y’all’s relationship
My fiancé and I both look at women together. I have no problem with it due to EVERYONE looks it’s normal. He use to like womens photos but I told him I didn’t respect that because it shows they are available that’s where I cross the line. Maybe start looking at the women as well and say “hey look at that girls ass it’s nice”
Might as well do it together.
Tell me you’re insecure, without telling me you’re insecure.
We as a couple both stare at beautiful women and men. We are with each other not them.
When you date or marry someone, they’re giving you their heart, not their eyes.
There’s nothing wrong with looking.
I look at men and woman all the time.
It sounds like you’ve got some trust issues.
Start eyeballing guys while hes next to you. He won’t be so cute or flippant when you turn tables on him.
You start doing and see how it makes him feel. If he don’t like it then he can eat his own words.
Do the same thing. Stare at men the way he does. I know when you’re in a relationship you do see people who are very pleasing to the eye, and you glance at them , but to have him stare that long and try to make eye contact is creepy and disrespectful
My x used to do this…he used to push.me in public too real hard after separation I asked him why he said because someone he’d be seeing would be comming in his direction and you wouldn’t push ur mate but u would ur friend lol.
Nope. Super disrespectful… I’d call him out in front of everyone.
do it to men when ur out to gether
If he’s doing that while he’s with you, imagine what he does when you’re not around.
Not all women want men to stare at them. So he’s being disrespectful all around.
Why would you entertain this man. I bet he does way more.
Hell yeah that disrespectful. Dump his ass
It’s disrespectful and creepy
Glancing and staring totally different. It’s completely disrespectful what hes doing.
Very disrespectful maybe try giving him a dose of his own disrespect by doing it to him? Tell him again its rude and wont be tolerated.
would you prefer him to try to sneak looks? you should give him props for being honest. to pretend that people aren’t attracted to others even though they’re in a relationship is ridiculous. i bet you peep out other people too. it’s not a biggie as long as he isn’t doing anything beyond looking.
Me and my spouse say “its ok to window shop just no trying on the merchandise.”
Run now won’t change won’t stop get worse cheating if he not already
A glance is ok. A full stare trying to make eye contact with them is disrespectful. How would he feel if you were doing it to men?
Move out of his way next time. Say, get a good look… And then leave
He’s a pig who doesn’t have any respect for you. Start staring at other men and see if he likes it.
If he’s not already cheating, he will. Just get a new guy
If he think that it’s a game then do the same thing. It is time to move on if he can’t respect your presence.
If it’s hurting you and making you feel insecure or sick then you shouldn’t stay. Your peace and love for yourself is so important. No one should steal that from you.
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Eww! Disturbing an disrespectful af to ALL women involved.