Buy your self some think you be what to buy all go on night get way with close friends. Do what best for u .
unfortunately this is just the way he is. stop expecting it and you will no longer be disappointed by it.
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Everyone deserves to be celebrated
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Chris David Kershaw did I write this
Is he autistic? Look it up? My SO is high functioning ASD n is like you describe
If you accepted him like that when you met which you say you did why should it matter now or are you looking for a reason to fight/leave
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We decided early on not to do any of that or expect it. We make sure we go out and do things through the year, have time together, have fun weekends, have time to relax and if there is something we want, we get it ourselves. Less stress, less expectation. We get the happy birthdays, the extra kisses, the bday sex lol.
So then just buy or plan yourself something. I can’t even tell you the last time I’ve even gotten a birthday gift and I’ll be 36 
to me my birthday isn’t a big deal unlike my kids, but that’s just me
Honestly if you have communicated that you’d like something special for your birthday and he still doesn’t do it even though you make his day special then I would think about how he really feels about you. I’m big on birthdays and my husband knows this but still won’t do anything for me. It’s a sign of respect in my opinion. But also have realized my marriage is over so I don’t push it anymore. I have amazing friends and my birthday with a spa day and something fun with my kids.
Don’t go all out for his bday and when he asks why explain you would like the same treatment not to just do for everyone else.
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Same, I just plan my own shit
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Talk to him and tell him.
Have u talked to him about it? I feel like that’d be ur best option. If that doesn’t work, then don’t do anything for his birthday and let him feel how you’ve felt
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The energy you spend on his birthday, use it on yourself! Spoil yourself with goodies and a cake and even wrap yourself some really awesome gifts and invite him so he can see what makes you happy! Hopefully he will take some notes! And honestly it couldn’t hurt to be just be straight up, ask him where he’s taking you to celebrate your birthday! If he disregards you it might be a good idea to scale back and just spoil yourself on your birthday and skip his birthday
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Does he know you really want the attention ?
Make plans for yourself and tell him you are going out with a friend or whatever it is you want to do to enjoy your day and let him know it’s your birthday and you want to celebrate so you’ll be enjoying the day. I’m future maybe let him know in advance you’d like to do something together on your birthday so he’s aware of it well before the date.
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We celebrate our birthdays together only three days apart
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Some people are just like that! My partner is big on birthdays and I’m not, like at all. She understands this and she will give me a list of things she wants to make it easier! I do tend to get her entire list if I can find everything and when I can’t find I have her get with my card. I do believe a person should always have a cake so I make sure to get a cake!!
Umm you need to tell him what you want.
For us the most we do for each other right now is get each other a card if lucky. Lately we haven’t ate out which would usually do or try to get a cake we are like a month apart.
He won’t know unless you tell him. He can’t read your mind
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If he doesn’t do anything for your birthday why should you for his?
If he hasn’t by now he never will UNLESS you tell him what you want. You want it special, tell the man. He obviously doesn’t get it. Do you do for him because you expect him to reciprocate? Or because you enjoy doing so? He apparently doesn’t enjoy or thinks you won’t like it. So tell him what you want.
If you need him to celebrate you on your birthday the way he does you, you should tell him.
Leave him. You’re convenient for him. That’s all.
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This sounds like you have two different love languages. My boyfriend is terrible at holidays and gifts. But he calls to see if I need anything before he comes home from work. He makes sure things get done around the house that I didn’t get to. I get breakfast in bed on weekends. He randomly texts or calls eject he thinks about me at work. If I was expecting gifts and a big deal made out of birthday, I’d be disappointed. If you have expectations that he’s not meeting, you need to tell him about it.
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Communication really is key. If youre wanting or needing something from your man that youre not getting, you need to tell him. Your happiness matters. If you tell him you want him to plan something for you to do on your birthday and give him a hint or something at what you would like to do, then he may do it. Men can be simple sometimes and need telling what and when to do certain things. Dont make it a tit-for-tat when you bring it up, just tell him what you want and what it would mean to you.
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I 100% have gone through this. And he knows how I feel. I only got a card this year. I also had big plans for valentines day and he ruined those by arguing with me and refusing to take me out. 
we on the verge of divorce now cause i don’t feel loved. I wish you the best
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I haven’t gotten a Xmas gift, Bday gift, anniversary dinner etc etc… since my kids were born so 6 years… hell I can’t even sleep in on Mother’s Day… one day outta the year… can’t even get my “husband”, my kids “father” to take both his children for even a few hours ever not ever, Choosing your spouse is a huge thing, please please if I have any advice it’s if u see red flags don’t ignore them, I sure wish I hadn’t. I live a miserable existence being a SAHM and that’s really all I am, I can’t even get somebody to watch the kids long enough for me to do things that need to be done let alone to have a break, it’s really just horrible horrible existence. But hey he makes the money right 
crock of shit, soley taking care of 2 young children is a 24 hour around the clock job and it ain’t easy. The least we could get is some appreciation and a damn candle once a fukin year like cmon!
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This was me and my husband. I told him that the one day I want a nice gift or for him to plan something is my birthday. I don’t care about getting anything for Christmas cuz that’s about our kids, a card on our anniversary and flowers on Mother’s Day is what I get. I finally told him a couple years ago that it hurts a lot that he doesn’t seem to care or take the extra time when I do for his. The last 3 years he has made me something and I’m so appreciative.
My sweetheart isn’t big into giving gifts so I let him slide on that. I do insist on a card. Maybe something to consider?
This is the first year in like 8 years that mine took me out for my birthday. But he also knows I don’t really care. Just another day and another year older. We don’t usually do anything for his birthday either 
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If it bothers you, tell him you’d like to e pampered on yours as well. If you have never said anything he might be under the impression that it’s not a big deal for you.
Communication is key in every aspect of a relationship.
My partner is like that too. It sucks tbh, but it is what it is. He shows tons of other ways daily that he loves me. If I want cake on my birthday, I’ll get my own damn cake lol.
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He won’t know it’s what you want if you never tell him
Well the only Birthday gift I remember was new kitchen sink, he treats you Very well.
Stop doing it for him then. Give what he gives. Nothing wrong about that. The effort he gives is the effort he gets if the lack of effort makes u unhappy and unfulfilled then end the relationship and find someone who reciprocates the effort u bring to the table.
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Men don’t catch on to subtle hints. If there is a problem you’ll have to tell him. If you sit there & think “He should already know!” It isn’t going to get you anywhere, you need to communicate. If he continues to make you feel worthless after that, move on.
Make plans with friends on your Birthday without him. At least you’ll have fun on your day and it will distract you from feeling that he’s a POS
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I believe that when you care about someone you should acknowledge their birthday. I couldn’t be with someone who didn’t acknowledge my birthday. My ex-husband was a big baby and got jealous when my family took me out to eat for my birthday one year, so he slept on the couch and said that I had gotten enough attention from everyone else and wouldn’t get any more from him that night. That was his last mistake, and he didn’t get to celebrate another birthday with me.
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I know the feeling I always do something special every year for my husband Birthday he seems to enjoy his day but when it comes to mine he could care less same with other Holidays his saying is Holidays is something women made up just to get gifts
Plan yourself a little trip for yourself and leave him behind 
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Stop getting him birthday gifts!
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I handle everyone’s birthdays. His parents my parents his our kids mine… last year he took us skydiving for my birthday… he’s afraid of heights… I planned it… just plan something yourself!
Was he always like this from day one or has he never been into birthdays etc? If he went all out for your birthday when you first started together then I would say it’s an issue. Otherwise maybe it’s just how he is. Having said that, it is nice to feel acknowledged on your birthday and I would be disappointed as well.
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Yup. I stopped going out of my way for his after years of putting tons of time and thought into detailed and special gifts and plans
My husband is the only one who made my birthday special 
I wish the rest of my family would have cared
I always had it in my mind someone would throw me a huge 30th birthday party I was wrong lol
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I did it for years. I don’t anymore.
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Just because you do something for someone else to show love doesn’t mean that everyone else shows love in the same way…maybe you guys have different love languages
yup every year I went out for him, hotel nice dinner extra sexy time and then on my birthday it was nothing unless I planned it. If I allowed him to it was always planned around football and something he enjoyed. I left him after 8 years… between being forgotten on my birthday than on Christmas enough was enough I shouldn’t have to beg to be seen or loved by the one I poor myself into.
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Go out of your way for you and give his no more thought.
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Sweetie plan your own birthday- and enjoy (yes with him) - when ya get old and if you can’t reach your shoe laces to tie them - get Velcro and move on:wink:
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My hubby does that too and he pitches a fit if I don’t put the right amount of candles on his cake. The kicker is he is 5 years and 4 days older than me so it’s not like he can just forget my birthday cause it’s only 4 days after his
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Clue him in let him know men don’t think of those things
Id stop doing what you do for his birthday if it was me
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If you haven’t yet, communicate how you feel to him. If he still doesn’t care to make your birthday special, stop making his birthdays special. It could be time to move on sadly if he doesn’t care to make that effort. My ex husband was this way along with picking arguments on holidays, especially on mother’s day.
I remarried and my current husband plans things for my birthday. He doesn’t pick fights at all and we make each other feel appreciated.
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Sounds like you need to communicate your feelings to him.
You need to decide what is important to you. We don’t do big things for holidays birthdays or anything. My birthday was Monday. I bought my own ice cream cake and my husband made steak and surprised me with homemade biscuits. Stop going overboard for his. Start planning your own birthday instead.
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Go buy yourself lots of presents and show him what “he” got you for your birthday. Don’t forget to get a cake too.
My ex of 8 years didn’t do shit for anything. It was the worst, my boyfriend of almost 1 year now, goes out of his way to surprise me and make EVERY day special. Don’t settle for these half assed men ladies!
Yes. If you’re not doing the birthday stuff for them without expecting something in return you’re setting yourself up to be hurt because of the expectations you have to get something in return. If you’re going to go out of your way for them do it without expecting anything in return. Or don’t do it if you just expect them to do it in return. Have you ever tried telling them you’d like your day made special? Expressed you’d like some flowers and gifts or dinner?
I would tell him how this makes you feel. Birthdays, holidays, and anniversaries only come once a year
Read the 5 love languages. Then you will understand
Um, yes, you DO have to ask. Be VERY specific what you want. Guys are not socialized to celebrate stuff & are socialized to leave all the social planning & execution to women. Don’t be resentful, just be blunt and TELL him what you want him to do. Men don’t get hints.
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You should communicate with him because he may not know how you feel. Also if you do it for him knowing he doesn’t do it for you then that’s sweet of
You but not his fault. I think it’s just missed communication and unidentified expectation.