Partner gets very angry when I'm not in the mood. Help save my relationship!

My husband gets really mad when he wants to have sex and I’m not in the mood. For example this week. We had sex three days in a row and when I said I couldn’t right now the third day because I was WORKiNG (I’m working from home rn ) he got mad and gave me a silent treatment that’s going on 2 days and going. Told me a bunch of aweful things and name calling all because of this.He won’t talk to me and says he hates me and I’m ruining the relationship. Help. He has a much higher sex drive since we had kids and seems like nothing es enough or won’t even care how I feel. I can’t take feeling like this anymore. How would you react/what would you do? Thx