People constantly call my 8-month-old chubby: Advice?

Callie I would bet Lopey has this baby beat. :joy::joy::joy:

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Someone said my girl would have to be put on a diet… at 8 months old :upside_down_face::upside_down_face: I went off :woman_shrugging:t2: don’t start that type of shit with her so young. Her pediatrician says they love chunky babes, and they thin out a bit when they start being mobile with crawling and walking.

Oh my baby was rolley polley, when people made comments I would just say “I know!! I love all her little rolls! Fat babies are my favourite!”

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My baby is 4 months old and 15.7 bls but she’s also 2ft 1in tall

Think of it this way, you KNOW your child isn’t obese or overweight. You know that they mean no harm. ENJOY the cute chubby baby comments. Some momma’s are DESPERATE to see a baby fat roll on their babies. Lots of mommas get sick of hearing “He/She is so little! They’re so tiny!” Etc. I say the same to them, just let it go. It’s not anything to get worked up about. If your baby is chunky, chubby, tiny, or thin they just are. It’s ok!

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They literally melt the weight off when they start crawling and walking. My baby is now an almost 15 month old and she was a bit chubby at 6 months. Now she is a lean little trex. They go through so many fluctuations. Let it roll off your back and just enjoy the ride.

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Serious question!!!
Why do parents get offended if people call their baby chubby? I get it if the kid is like 10yrs, 11yrs but baby are meant to be chubby that’s when their the cutest

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Who the heck cares? Kids develop like balloons. Tall short wide thin. Let it go and enjoy your baby girl.

Chubby babies are healthy! Never mind what they say

My son born @35 weeks weighing 5lbs 7oz 19 inches long

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All 5 of my kids when they were babies had rolls. And puggie cheeks… i say a chunkers is a healthy happy baby all positive… :heart::heart:

She will lose it as she gets older dont worry about this.

First world problems!!

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I always say it as a compliment! Everyone loves a chubby baby!!

Get her a onsie that says "I’m chubby & I know it! Or one that says “I brought the rolls” and have her wear it to a family gathering. Chubby babies are the cutest! Sure it might be annoying but just learn to make light of it!

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My response would be “so are you Karen but we don’t say it to your face like that do we now?”

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Chubby babies are the cutest. I wouldn’t get offended.

Aww, I know exactly what you’re saying. It gets a little annoying to hear: “Oh my he’s big” or “Oh he’s only 2 months!?” But you’re correct they mean no harm, just enjoy your beautiful baby.

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My oldest son on the left he was 8 months

Chubby is beautiful in babies. They are healthy. Their brains need fat to develop. Just tell them to fuck off.

Say “she’s supposed to be, she’s a baby… what’s your excuse”… they won’t say it again! Hahahaha

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People are always going to comment on the size of your child.
My son was 28lb since he was about 9mo. 90% breastfed and didnt really get into table foods until he was about 1.5 maybe the later side of being closer to 2. He didnt drink milk either.
I would get the “what are you feeding him”
And someone actually told me he was getting “breastmilk on steroids”
My best advice to give you is: ignore them.

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I call my 7 month old my wittle fat boy :hugs::hugs:

Everyone Calls Him Chunky Or Always Is Like Look At Those Thunder Thighs Honestly At First Being A Momma It Use To Get Under My Skin But Now I tell Well Atleast You Know Hes Fed And Healthy So Yes call Him Chunky Or Thunder Thighs All You Want

Fat babies are the cutest. 11 months old.
:peach::peach::peach:

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I swear, some moms just enjoy being pissed off at anything! Getting mad over this is ridiculous. People aren’t insulting your baby. Everyone loves a chubby baby.

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Honey you should have seen my little girl. She was beyond chubby. She was a butterball.lol Everyone would say the same stuff to me. I let it go because I knew they weren’t being mean and she really was. Lol. Now she is a beautiful 14 year old. Oh and either the chunky babies be sure to check them creases. My sister was holding Skylar after a bath one day and she had a piece of hair hanging off her foot so I went to pull it and looked up and it was actually wrapped around her her toe so tight that when we got to ER they were talking about cutting off her toe if we couldn’t get circulation back to toe. Thank god after a good little while and trying to hold her foot in ice water the color came back. So please everyone be sure to check all those creases. I know ai completely got off track with my response but thinking about her chunky butt made me remember and I would hate for someone else to have to go through that.

My chunka bug when she was born😍 I wanted a chubby baby and couldn’t get over her little rolls and her sweet smoosh face! She’s 4 now and still a bit of a chunk and still has the same smoosh face when she sleeps that I’m guilty of stealing kisses from❤

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I love chunky Monkies. ( as I call them) My 1st had really thick thighs. They were so stinking cute. My second was a twig. :rofl: We called her our skinny mini. Lol.
Both my kids are now twigs :rofl:
They are just genetically thin. ( like i USED to be :wink:)
Dont take it to offence hun.

I think it’s strange that you’re getting defensive over it?

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Fat baby is a good thing. A fat baby is a healthy baby and means you are taking good care of the baby. You getting defensive is more concerning.

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Dont let it get to you. My lil one is chunky as well in all honesty I take it as a great compliment considering she was breastfed exclusively. (My first I had to supplement) my girls are 18 months apart and my youngest who is 6 months is half of not a little over half of what her older sister weighs. But shes healthy and happy. If these people continue to make these comments as your little one gets older def say something to them tho. Along with my lil one I call her my lil chunk but that will stop as well very soon since she is getting older. I want both my daughters to grow up having great self esteem and knowing they are always beautiful

I call him my little Michelin man

My lil Chunker he weighs 20lbs at 4 months old.

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I highly doubt anyone means it in a mean or degrading manor considering chubby/fat babies are literally the CUTEST of them all, you just need to relax and consider it more of a compliment

Who cares.
Most babies are chubby :joy:
Its cute! Baby will slow down soon

Just came here for the adorable chunk babies! :rofl::heart: I finally got my chunk baby, my first was tiny, skinny (healthy) but she didn’t have them rolls for days, my son is 5 months and I just eat them rolls up! So stinking cute!!

My son had some lil titties :joy: I loved when people would call him chubby.

This is my 6 months old daughter. Everyone calls her a chunky girl. I love it though because she really is my chunkster​:heart::heart::heart:

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Let it go, they are supposed to be chubby at this age and it is cute so yes people are going to notice and yes they are going to say she is chubby but you shouldn’t get all upset just because people are stating a fact. Enjoy and stop being butt hurt over something this small. If this upsets you then you’re not going to be able to handle the real problems when they come up.

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I call my baby chubby and I have called her a fat baby

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Lol my son Was a dumplin ! I loved it !!

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All babies have a little chub. The more rolls the better :grinning:I love squishy babies

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I literally call my baby chunker so I’m no help here. :woman_shrugging:

I dont think anyone love means to offend .us mummies all love our chunky babies .all we see is beautiful babies whether there chunky or slim xx

Chubby babies with the thigh fat rolls are the best. Calm down its not a bad thing. Be happy the baby is healthy and well fed.

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I’d be looking at all their fat and shit and being like oh look. Magine shaming a babies bodiy

I get it’s hard my son has his hand missing to amniotic band syndrome. I every now and then get defensive when people ask what’s wrong with him because absolutely nothing is wrong. I am sure your baby will grow out of the baby wrinkles and be perfectly healthy.

Chubby babies are a good thing. As they grow they’ll stretch out. I think the problem here is that you think “chubby” is an insult, which is something you’ll have to evaluate in yourself.

It’s generally a complement in babies. I had two chunkers and they both leaned out. I used to call my son things like Mr. Chunkers and Sir Chubby Cheeks and always called my daughter my little hippo.

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Respond with “she’s healthy” that’s your only concern.

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Chubby is a good trait in a baby. Don’t be defensive about it.

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I had a chubby baby, now I have a tall thin 6 year old :woman_shrugging:
Chubby babies are great, you’re looking at it through adult eyes.

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Enjoy goes fast now she 3 n half all slimed down

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It’s like all the other advice take what you can use and let the rest go.

Embrace the chunk!!! Baby chunk is sooo cute!!! Take it as a compliment!!!

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They dont mean any harm. Everyone LOVES babies. Some of them are super annoying at “teeny” babies just like with chunky babies. My girl is 26 pounds at a year and a half but is really tall. Everyone was always aww shes so tiny and then they found out she was in 3-6 month clothes at a month and a half. Even now you can’t see her rolls unless she’s in just a diaper or at least shorts.

My daughter looked like the Michelin tire man till about a year old, so ignore your family. If your pediatrician isn’t concerned then neither should you be, babies are supposed to fat

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At eight mo she will out grow it most babies are at that age

I love chunky babies nothing better than a chubby cheeks healthy baby!

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My little girl was chubby! I called her chubby cheeks or chunky monkey. I loved her little rolls. Now she’s three and thinned out. I wouldn’t really take offense to it because people usually love big babies. :heart:

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My son was chubby when he was a baby and then as he started walking, he got rid of some of the baby fat and was a normal sized toddler.

Most babies are chubby, don’t take offence its normal x

Dina Gabriel lol post Nallys picture. Chubby babies are cutest, I always have little skinny bird babies :joy:

My son had so many rolls when he was a baby we called him the Michelin Man from the tire commercials. :joy:

Don’t take it personal. Chubby babies are the absolute cutest. It’s just something about those rolls. You want to hug them, kiss them, squeeze them, etc. I mean if she was a skinny baby, no one would even look her way :laughing:

Just try and ignore it. I know it’s hard. My daughter was the same. My little chunk. Shes now a toddler and like a beanpole. :joy:

For babies, being fat and chunby is a compliment… not an insult.

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We embraced it and now her nickname is chubbs even though she’s lost it all :joy:

Oh my, i thought my baby girl was beautiful and showed her off to everyone.looking back on her pictures, 51 years later i know everyone just smiled to be polite. She was not so much. She was not ugly, well maybe a little. I called her my chunky monkey. Just tell people "yeah, she starts Weight Watchers next week. Lol

Two of my babies were chunkers. Loved their chunky legs. Never took offense when people called them chunky.

I love chunky babies

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I had a chungy daughter when she was a baby, breastfed, and its normal for some to be a bit on the bigger side. don’t worry about it much. Now my chunky little baby is a 5yr old stick. she eats like a horse, and that’s ok. she can be like her father with a high metabolism. tho idk yet.

My 4 month old chunkerbutt :hugs::heart_eyes: fuck the haters, looove me a chunky baby!!! :heart_eyes::heart:

My daughter was pretty chubby she just turned 3 months in this pic she weighed 7lbs at birth

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I’d come back at them like “You’re a piece of shit for fat shaming a BABY” and never talk to them again.

Under a year old I wouldn’t worry about it. When they get old enough to understand, 2 or more, I’d address it with empathy. Hey we don’t want to give her body image issues when she’s older, can we pick a different nickname? I understand now if you’ve struggled with that it can be harder for you to hear and other people don’t understand why it upsets you. So go easy on them, but you don’t have to allow that if you feel it’s not ok later.

My son was 10lbs 3oz when he was born, he was chunky. He was 20lbs by the time he was 5 months. He thinned out A LOT after he started moving around, but there is nothing wrong with it. I understand you dont like when other people call your baby chunky, but it’s honestly not a bad thing. Maybe just take a few seconds to remind yourself their comments don’t matter then ask them nicely to not use those words. But I still call my son my little chunky butt. Chunky babies are happy babies!!

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I love seeing all the chubby cuties!!!

Chubby babies are the best. Leave it be. They probably mean it in a cute way, not a stop feeding her so much way.
My 6m old is 22 pounds :sweat_smile:

My 3 babies were all huge and chubby and had rolls everywhere… It also bothered me how rude people can be calling them fat or even telling me don’t over feed her! (I was not overfeeding them) but once they started crawling and walking and eating other foods besides breast milk they all lost the extra weight.
My advice is. Don’t worry… Ignore them… As long as Doctor says he is healthy what other people think is not important

Just come back with “I know, right! Isn’t she adorable!” And laugh at it. I’m the same way, with lil babes and animals! Lol i love the cute chubbiness!

I know someone who had a premature baby & the child was extremely thin until he was 12 years old. He looked so sick. She was so upset all the time about it. Knowing her, and how she wished for those exact words, and knowing how “chunky” my kids were, I think it’s meant to be cute. Like “wow, look at how perfect and healthy your chunky cherub of cuteness is!!” In my family we literally say “I want to eat you up!” And it’s meant with 100% love.

My nephew is the chubbiest baby I’ve ever seen and so darn cute! I mean so freaking cute. Maybe even more cute than my other not-so-chubby nephews. But his father (my brother) was also super chubby and he turned out to be the tallest member of the family. So, when people say your baby is chubby just say thank you, my baby is gonna be so tall!

I had 3 babies and all were breastfed… Lucky all the family adored fat babies… And they were quite chubby… Don’t feel offended mamma. They are ur beautiful creation and THE ONE ABOVES… Take it as a compliment and say thank you. My Littles are now 10, 6 and 4 and they are slender. Breast milk just ‘evaporates’ and they are perfect. Don’t stress the small things. It’s just gorgeous to have this small thing to hug tightly and adore.

Believe me most babies lose the chunky when they get mobile.

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My youngest was always called chubby, fat, chunky, etc. He was chunky, but oh so cute :heart_eyes:… he is two now and out weighs his 5 year old sister. She is tall and "scrawny " like her dad. I also get comments on that "she’s too skinny ", “feed that kid”. 1. Her dr is perfectly okay with her. 2 she eats 3 full meals a day and gets snacks between meals. She just doesn’t gain :woman_shrugging:t3:

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Girl, the chubby babies are the cutest babies. I wouldn’t be offended. My 13 month old weighs 28 pounds but she’s also taller. She looks just like a two year old. She’s thinned out some since she’s been walking but she hasn’t actually gained or lost any weight … As long as your baby is healthy that is all that matters

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She’s adorable!! Embrace her chubb it won’t last long!

Every baby is different my youngest is a chunky girl as well she will be 1 next week and about 25lbs she wears size 18-24 months but she was a tiny girl at birth only 4lb 13oz she had iugr (intrauterine growth retardation) I feel like the smaller my babies were at birth the chunkier they were as toddlers

Chonky baby is a good baby

Chunky is one thing. Calling a baby fat is another. I would say something about calling her fat. Chunky babies are cute! It will come off once she starts moving. If it was at an unhealthy point your doctor would talk to you about it. My son is 10 months & is 22-23lbs while his 3 year old sister is 28lbs. Neither one are unhealthy. My girl has always been on the smaller side though.

My son was a chubby baby and thank goodness he was, he got pnumonia at 4 months and was in the hospital, very sick, the Dr said it was a good thing he was chubby, we may have lost him if he wasn’t.

I think the people who are calling her that Know that it is harmful.

Oh I’m sorry my earlier comment about them knowing that it’s mean was wrong because I thought You said an eight year old, totally different

People said the same about two of mine at that sort of age. They were breast fed- soon slimmed down when they were moving more.

Chubby babies are adorable! You cannot pass one by without fondly commenting. Don’t worry, they will outgrow the chubbiness!

She will slim down once she starts walking. Dont worry about it now

My daughter was 7lbs at birth and put of nowhere she just blew up! Everyone calls her chubby baby :joy: I mean, who doesnt like chubby, squishy, fat babies :sob:

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Oh momma ur baby is perfect say “fuck off” with a smile of course and move on from that person :heart: