Should I report my nieces car seats?

Really? Wow! Just Buy Them New Car seats. If you cant afford them look into your local community some hospitals give out free car seats. Just look into it. Dont report them.

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Why would you report your own nieces?If they were getting abused…that’s one thing…but why not chip in with your Dad to buy new car seats?..or even used for god sakes.

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If you’re so concerned, talk you the parents or even gift them new ones.

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Ummmm, these are you neices… meaning your siblings children. Show a little compassion, and maybe help them out, if you are concerned. Instead of asking whether you should report it, be a compassionate human being and do something nice for someone else. WTF? Doesn’t helping family exist anymore?

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Wow ! Who needs family like you ? Instead of turning them in buy the dang car seats. They are expensive. That’s your family. You never turn family in unless there is child abuse. Put yourself in their shoes. How would you feel if your family turned you in ?

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Why get police involved and report your own family?
What happened to old fashioned communication… Calling the parents out on this BS and reminding them that should they get into an accident the kids would die?

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Ask her how you can help her or buy her new ones. It’s definitely not safe but having a simple conversation could make it better.

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You must have a grudge against your sibling because why would you report something that can be fixed with a phone call to see where you can find a free one

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I would go buy them new car seats :pray:

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OP u are a c u next Thursday
Pure evil…I hope they are about to report you for something…but then theres karma…

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Better yet help out and get them ones wow

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Have you thought about asking if they needed any help buying one before you jump to what you needed to do. Have you ever thought for one moment these are normal people who need a little help. People like you need to stay out of other people lives.

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How about broach the topic with your sibling and if they can’t afford to replace them offer to help purchase new ones or help find free ones? To simply report them shows you don’t really care and are looking for trouble smh I hope you find it if that’s the case

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Damn already wanting ur nieces in foster care when they beat and rape our children please buy them new ones not call cps over stupid carseats I would hate to have a sister like you I would disown you in a heartbeat when she finds out you called on her

Buy them new seats you A-hole! Jezz what a good family member you are.

Wow, can you even read these comments way up there on that pedestal? Seriously, if you are that concerned go buy 2 new ones and give them to your parents to replace theirs with. Also, I’m reporting you to the police because your fb post offended me. Not really, but that’s how ridiculous you sound. Atleast they have carseats. They don’t have to be perfect to suit their purpose.

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I would buy my sister new car seats without hesitation

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I hope you’re a perfect parent based off how quickly you like to judge/threaten action :roll_eyes:

Spoken like someone with no children, who thinks they could do it better. I feel bad for you that your first reaction is to “report” them. Cause helping them wasn’t an option?

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Don’t be a rat try to get them new car seats how about that

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Why not help them out and buy them new or new to them carseats instead of shaming them?

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Or you could just talk to them… see if they have another, if they can afford another, chip in to buy another, just buy them car seats or check locally to see if someone can sell two for cheap or donate. People get to “report” happy these days. Geezuz!

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WOW Instead of publicly shaming family members do them a favour help them out by getting new seats how would you like it if they splashed your problem on social media

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Why would you want to report your niece??? A good aunt would talk to her niece, see if it’s a financial situation and HELP her. If you reported her to the police you will alienate your family. Be compassionate, not vindictive. Now, more than ever, we need peace in our families, workplace, communities and the world!!!

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Its more the damage you will create reporting this to the police or whoever. Have you stopped and think if your sister is good? Maybe not enough to buy a carseat right ? What about if those babies are taken away from theirs parents? Will you be happy then? Why instead of asking here dont u go and offer help to get them for the babies? Sometimes parents have to stretch money, maybe a roof and food is more important now than 2 new carseats and thats fine but not you.

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You could talk to her or buy her an new one. If your family helps each other pit like that. This doesn’t need reported.

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Wow!!! Really?? Maybe the carseat covers are being washed, you know, since the kids are 1 and 2 years old…I’m sure they need washing! And if that’s not the case, maybe just maybe they can’t afford new carseats. If that’s the case, and you’re so concerned that there’s no cover, then go buy some, they actually make them! Or go buy new ones! I can’t believe your first thought is to turn them in. Shame on you!

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Or help them get new ones. You’re the family member I would never want in my family

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I know two sisters like this and it isn’t pretty.

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It’s definitely not illegal to have them in seat without covers…because the cover have zero effect for safety. Why in the world would you want your own sister to possibly loose her children. Maybe you should just help her if you’re really that concerned :woman_shrugging:

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Umm if this was my sister, I would definitely help her instead of hurting her by reporting it… do better please shit

It’s illegal and why don’t you help her out and get better ones

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MIND YOUR OWN DAMN BUSINESS OR GO BUY SOME AND GIFT THEM TO HER. SMH. This is what’s wrong with the family unit today. So quick to find fault and don’t want to be the solution.

sometimes the fire depts will replace damaged seats thru donations they receive.

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How about if your concerned help purchase new ones instead of reporting it

If it’s your niece why are you not helping? “Report” sheesh

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If it were me, I’d buy them new car seats and help out. Perhaps there’s more to the story as to why the current car seats are in that condition.

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If you can’t help due to financial reasons, there are problems & some churches that will help.

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Go buy your niece and nephew some seats. Damn.

They definitely need new seats. Talk to their parents. Inform them of safety risks. Everyone talking badly about this aunt being concerned, really? These kids could be dead tomorrow if she keeps it to herself. I’d rather be alienated for saying something than them dying because I kept my mouth shut. Smh

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Buy them new ones instead of creating an issue.

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If you have love for your family than help… What’s this business about going to report it…

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Well the dates are typically stamped on the seat somewhere as well and the seats are good for 8-10 years after manufacturing date and those dates are typically at least 1 yr prior to purchasing… So with that being said and them being 1 and 2 the seats probably are only 3-4 yrs old…

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Why don’t you just ask them instead of just reporting them? And if so, maybe help them buy new car seats instead of just going behind their backs. Maybe this is all they can afford right now. Use communication!

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I’d try to see if I could help her get new ones. I would never turn my sis in

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I would that is very unsafe for the children. God protect them and keep them safe.

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Buy 2 new ones for them.

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Why don’t you buy them new ones. Smh. Why wouldnt you help them and show them kindness. Smh

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Instead of reporting them why not ask their parents why the kids car seats are like that? Seeing as you are their aunt it’s your job too to look out for them so since it’s a concern why not buy them new ones? That way you know they have safe and comfortable car seats to use. I don’t know why people have to jump to reporting something that can be so easily fixed.

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I’d suggest you purchase new car seats instead of creating drama.

Be the solution.

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Talk to them first. See if they need help. See if the Cushion was in the wash. See if they need new ones. Dont accuse. Dont jump the gun and dont assume. Ask. Have an adult conversation with them.

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Mind your business and if you cared you would buy them some

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For all those out there telling the Aunt to buy them new ones, maybe she can’t afford to spend $400 plus for 2 car seats. Maybe instead of criticizing her for wanting to report the parents, why don’t you ask if there is somewhere you can donate to help Auntie purchase 2 new car seats. As you told her, be a better person.

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Buy new ones. Your parents or the kids parents probably can’t afford car seats.

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Can’t you find a way to get them safe carseats???

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Why don’t you buy them some new ones instead of trying to get them in trouble if it doesn’t appear that the kids are in harm or being neglected then buy them a freaking another one🙄

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If you’re that worried for their safety, buy them new ones.

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I would offer to help buy new car seats, or shut the hell up.

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The state police in Massachusetts gives people free car seats

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I’m team “instead of trying to figure out where you report them, how about you ask if they need help finding resources for a good car seat.” If you can’t afford to help them and have them delivered anonymously, at least spend the same amount of time you spent looking up where to report them, on finding resources for them

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Wow!!! You are one bitter sister / daughter. Find out why they are using “unsafe” car seats and help out instead.

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Instead of making a post asking if you should report them, maybe you could make a post asking if anyone has a couple of (newer) carseats they no longer need or would get rid of for a decent price.

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Wow someone is jealous

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Instead of reporting them, try helping. Fire depts can help get new ones, or know of resources

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If you’re not willing to help them out by getting new car seats then butt out.

Don’t turn them in, maybe try to help instead. It’s easy to buy used ones if new ones are too pricey.

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If you are that worried go and buy them two car seat and quit causing trouble or steering the pot people like you is why families can’t get alone period

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Buy them some new ones :kissing_heart:

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You can get free car seats there are so many resources. I believe if you take a car seat safety class you can get a free one. There are options that don’t cost a thing but time and research.

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Why wouldn’t you HELP them instead of reporting them/trying to get them in trouble!? :woman_shrugging:t3::thinking: Wow :astonished::woman_facepalming:t3:

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Why don’t u buy them new ones rather than complaining abt the conditions of the present ones
Seems u are better than the parents, u don’t know what hardship the parents are going through but just sit n judge
Yes it may not be safe or is uncomfortable
Rather than bringing it to social media just buy the kids new one

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Why dont you talk to fire department educate yourself a d them and try and help out, stop being so judgy maybe they dont KNOW HELP THEM OUT FOR A CHANGE

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Call the local health Dept… they can get you new ones … there are millions of programs For free car seats no use In reporting them instead of being the problem be the solution

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First, can they afford new ones? Secondly, why not help them first? :blush: Family first.

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So quick to report… everyone.
I’m glad my circle is only me.
Maybe they are struggling And can’t afford them?
I understand being concerned but talk to them don’t ask strangers advice bc you know what everyone is going to say

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Buy them some new car seats on the low key…. Love your family and have a good day

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Go buy them some new ones !!! Why try to get someone in trouble ???

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Call local the health department to see what programs are available to get new car seats for them. If you can afford it, then buy them a couple

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There are places that give car seats away…I would just go get them and throw the unsafe ones away!!!

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Maybe she had to take the cloth and pads off to wash them??? I’ve had to do that and my son rode on the plastic while the padding was hanging out to dry🤷‍♀️

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Instead of trying to call Social Services why don’t you just ask why the car seats are the way they are, instead of assuming or better yet why don’t you just buy the car seats? They are your Nieces & Nephews right? Since your so worried about their safety smh People always wanna call Social Services over the most pettiest shit

If you have to rush to Fb to ask what to do, what does that say about YOU? You have been given way more free advise on this then you need. This is family! Help them not exploit them! Reread out loud if needed all the comments and you’ll hear what to do since your heart can’t feel what to do.:woman_facepalming:t2:

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If your that worried about somebody else … Go buy 2 car seats. If they cant afford one the meets YOUR standards

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It’s a ton of free car seats in the world because kids outgrow them quickly

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Seriously :unamused:!!!
Why not try to help your family!!

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I’d buy them new ones.

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Auntie? Buy your nieces new car seats and tell mum and dad it’s not safe for them to be travelling in the old ones.

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Wow instead of reporting them. Help them get better one’s…

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No, you should help buy new ones.

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:woman_facepalming:t2::woman_facepalming:t2: really???

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Oh fuk off your so worried go buy two :seat: otherwise don’t act like you care the caring person comes up with a positive caring solution not opinions. Bs go buy them be best money you’ve ever spent but you won’t do that will you arsehole bizzy body

Am I the only one that says report her after you get more info?

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Why don’t you help out and get them new ones instead of causing more problems. I’m sure there are plenty out there that are not expensive or someone who would donate one. Why cause so many problems instead of offering help?

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I think its absolutely ridiculous how no one is taking this seriously. Do you guys not understand a carseat and the condition of it can make the difference between life or death? I mean I wouldn’t go as far as reporting them UNLESS you have addressed it with them and they still do nothing to change it.
I get she is auntie but it’s not her responsibility to buy them stuff, however it is her responsibility to help make sure they are safe.
Talk to them, see what the situation is, if they can’t afford it then there are MANY programs that’s give away free carseats. You just have to look and maybe help them with that but it’s not your responsibility to buy anything.

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Call around to see if there are any free car seat available in your area and try and get one or help the parents out if you can.

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They may have been washing them. I have torn one trying to wash it before. You could offer to buy them 2. They probably cant afford to buy new ones by the sound of it. But also that’s thier job is to provide for thier kids. Maybe they just didnt know or cant afford it. Rather not care

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Or maybe you could help them get new ones? Reporting them is insane if they’re not being abused.

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It’s a big deal but not enough to be reported… maybe ask the parents if they need help or if there’s a reason why.

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Buy new ones as a gift

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