Keep him away from dad. Make him file a show cause then expose him in court. Print off and keep photos and records of everything. Keep filing shit against him with cps, too
Do not let him go back. Our child was molested by ear aunt and she hasnāt seen him since even tho she did had visitation. Prove you stopped visits for a just cause and ur fine. U have to protect ur child. Do not send him back!! If u do and he gets hurt itās ur fault.
Take it to the police! And tell the new gf. Her daughterās arenāt safe either!
Report, if u can change ur number change ur address and keep that sicko away from your baby and try and prevent anything happening to those other little girlsā¦ i would have taken the ipad straight to the police
To the police now! Give it to the police and tell him that is what you had to do. Then have no contact with him! New evidence for no more unsupervised visitation!
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Go to legal aid and protect your son at whatever it costs you a cut on his private area is cause for concern if you can take pictures of this so you have proof of this and your intuition seems to be on track God bless you and your struggles
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What even are u doing why didnt u take that shit straight to the police
Turn it into the authorities asap. Dear god protect those little girls and protect your baby boy. God help them. Iād snap and beat him but you have your son to take care of so thatās not a option. Get the visits revoked ASAP. Fuck it leave state and take his gf and those kids with you. RUN WITH YOUR BABIES AND DONT LOOK BACK
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He has to report to an official on a regular basis if he is registered offender. Contact this person too!
Write an anonymous letter to his new gf with print out of his paperwork about being an offender.
Send it to those girlsā grandparents, teachers, father. Save those little girls too!
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I fell like you have had alot of advice so Iām just going to wish you well and I am routing for you! I have had issues with my ex husband and drugs and social services and rcmp. Court dates and the whole ninw yards. It is not easy but keep your head high and keep that baby boy safe. So much love and prayers sent to you and your family 
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Did you give the iPad back? If not, give it to the police immediately! If you have, still call the police immediately anyway. File with them as well as DHS, they may take it more seriously. If all else fails, have a back up plan to do whatever it takes to keep your son safe, up to and including a safe house excape type plan. I realize that sounds drastic but better to have a plan and not need to use it than to not have one at all. Be safe.
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You should take the iPad to the police so they can open their own investigation. If not take it to DHS. It may be a new case concerning the two young girls in his household. I agree with not sending your son to unsupervised visits.
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Keep calling DHS, ask to speak to your caseworkerās boss. Hand carry the photos in. Bring them the iPad.
GOD gave us ( motherās intuition) Our GUT specially when it comes to our children - No matter what type of Women Anyone is ā God designed all OF us To Protect OUR children ā Use ThAT instinct, I am unsure of How Much money your ex might have ( if he can afford a HUGE custody Battle) - BUT, if it were Me ā I would Do whatever I could TO Protect those babies ā¦ Even if it meant Just packing up and Leaving ā¦ I know itās Unlawful to NOT obey the laws ā BUT, looks like The system set up to protect YOU and your children Isnāt working and they are NOT on your side ā¦ Iām so Sorry that You are in this awful Position - Maybe reach out to your church family and pastoral team for some Godly wisdom ā¦ I will he adding you to my prayer list ā¦
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Take the ipad directly to a police station and let them review it. They may find more in the drive thatās been deleted since it was going to be in your possession for your son to use out of his sight. If you have the money get an attorney to fight the court order.
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If there is a court order for visitation and you do not send your child the only recourse is family court. It is civil and not criminal. At least in my state.
Get a lawyer! Back up everything you saw electronically. Report to all local authorities. But you need legal representation to get you through the bullshit they put non- represented clients through.
Agree with everyone above call police now. Give them them the I pad. Just becareful and make sure this was truly him. Im.not accusing you but this could backfire if your trying to get him trouble
Im.not saying you are but just warning the police have special detectives that look into this stuff the can find out exactly where these things were access itās like GPS for any search history no matter the app.
Call the police Now.
Turn the IPad over to the authorities. Get your lawyer on board. Protect your son and save the stepdaughters in the process.
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what kind of backwards state do you live in that allows unsupervised visits with a sex offender!!! Thatās outrageous!!! Also ask to speak to higher management at DHS, make sure you have pictures of your exās searches. Prove that you are not over reacting, the more proof you have the more likely you are to get what you need, full custody or at least supervised visits. Also try to get a relative to take care of your son if DHS does take action against you.
RUN. After going to the Police. Those Babies have to be protected.
Take it to the police. And go ABOVE the DHS workers head. If you had video of what was popping up, that would greatly help. Tell the other mother. She needs to know. ANY CHILDS safety is above their having a relationship with someone like that.
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Tell ex"s probation officer. Report to 911
He"s very sick!
Grab your child and run!!! (if thereās a way to show the iPad to the police before you go, please do! How could they NOT take you seriously after seeing THAT?!)
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If there is a court order for visits and u dont allow, when they take you to jail where do you think your child will go. Yup thats right, straight to his dad. Stop with dhs stuff and dile a protective order showing all the stuff u found and it wont put u in danger of going to jail. I know its hard but go about it the legal way
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Take the evidence you have to the police and raise a little hell until they listen!
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Turn it in ASAPā¦ itās not just your sons life, you could be saving his gf two daughters who may be afraid to speak up if heās harming them .
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DCFS is a joke. They need to seriously do their job. Go to police and show them everything. Donāt stop at all KP trying to protect your son.
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File a police report. If he has material about stepdad and stepdaughters engaging, they can arrest him for child porn.
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Take the ipad to the police.
Why would you get pregnant by a sex offender in the first place?
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Keep calling the Police. Take this evidence to them.
Yes get your son and leave town
Follow Nickiās advice then get an attorney who handles cases like yours.
Walk into the police station and make a report.
Take the iPad to the police
Take it to the police now.
Keep fightingā¦ NEVER STOPā¦ PRAYINGā¦
If he is a convicted sex offender I donāt see how heād be allowed unsupervised visits. That should be illegal for the system to do that. Iād take the iPad to the police. I would then get an attorney and sue the child services for endangerment of your child. Giving a sex offender visits that are not supervised is endangerment. They are failing and if he is convicted I donāt think thatās legal.
You need to show DHS or the police that tablet. Those girls and your son are in danger and if something didnāt happen yet, it will!
Is he registered sex offender if he they have very strict guidelines And why on Earth would a woman with girls allow him into their home. But I would take that straight to the police.
I heard some social workers and DSHS are part of a growing number of children sex trafficking rings. Be careful who you trust.
So you waited til he knocked you up to leave? N you somehow think they makes you better than his current girlfriend?
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Take it to ur worker contact cops dhs is a joke when comes to kids they never in investigate thats y so many abused kids good luck mom keep protecting ur son from this monster he sounds sick n is sick or he wouldnt have tbis shit on i pod your doing right thing but take it to cop lawyer anyone dhs wont do shot to help you
Run away and never look back, donāt let anyone know where you are, go out of state to avoid police then as soon as you can
Take screenshots of everything!!
Make a POLICE report. Turn over the iPad and let them handle it
Report it. Heās around those little girls. Better to be safe than sorry later
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Turn that sicko inā¦ and grab your boy and run like hell!!!
You need to get a lawyer asap. Go get a free consultation with an attorney and they will tell you what to do. DHS isnt going to do shit. Only you can protect your child. Fuck a court order. He canāt do anything about the court order unless he gets an attorney as well and they file a violation of court order. Then you go in front of a judge and you tell that judge that he is a fucking psycho perv.
Take it to the policeā¦: stat
Go directly to the police & file a report- show them what youāve found. Then go see about an emergency protection order directly from the courts if possible. Make a detailed list of incidences & talk to the court facilitator about where to go from there. My heart hurts for your son & I hope to God nothing has happened to him or those girls.
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Nauseating. Hoping the best for you mamaā¦ protect your children and trust your instinct
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You need to go to your magistrate get a EPO and then with that shit on the ipad go and file a TDO (temporary detaining order) with all that he is searching and looking up, thats a 72 hour hold for a mental evaluation. If he is an offender, DSS should be on his GFās ass about her having kidās and being with him!!! You also need to file with the courts to amend your orders, and if you can afford get a lawyer! Idk what state youre in but Im in VA and my town wouldve done jumped all over this!
Please do not let your son be with his dad anymore, the fact that he is searching āpeople killing peopleā or āpeople killing autistic kidsā and accidental deaths is sooo alarming 
maybe God allowed you to see what heās searching for a reason so you can keep your baby safeā:pray:t2: definitely get a lawyer and show the police your finding CPS will get involved if you call on behalf of the stepdaughters basically just say what you found and that he is currently living with stepdaughter and I bet you with his past they will haunt him down and investigate
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Get a lawyer and go to the police, stop messing with DHS. The police will get the ball rolling and the lawyer will help you navigate because if you go to jail, your son goes straight to his dad, unsupervised.
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Screenshot the evidence and send it to yourself. No way he can get away with it , or take the iPad, go on YouTube, and take a photo of the search history on the iPad for proof it is his
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Turn the iPad in make a statement to cops n get ahold if your exs gf n inform her of what you found so she can ensure nothing is happening with those girls
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Protect youāre child at all cost. Break the law and do not allow him to visit. Trust your motherly instinct. It is screaming at you to keep him away, and you must! Tell him you know what was on his iPad, report it immediatelt. Without hesitation. and by all means do what is necessary for you and your child.
Easier said than done. My god Iām so sorry for what you guys are having to tolerate. I cant even imagine.
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Bring the iPad to the police and file for an emergency protective order first thing tomorrow morning. Next stop should be to an attorney, so that youāre protected while going through this process. The last thing you want is for your son to be given to his dad if you are held in contempt for denying visitation.
I am so sorry, I canāt imagine how sickened and heartbroken you must be feeling. For now, busy yourself taking action. Once your son is safely out of your exes care for good, allow yourself to feel ALL of this. Cry, scream, break shit. Whatever you have to do and whatever is therapeutic. I really do hope the best for you and your sweet boy, also for those girls that heās been around. 
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Report to authorities asap. Police are going to be your best bet.
If you go to jail then he will be at daddyās for a while go to the cops hun protect you child and the 2 girls
First of all who is DHS does that stand for Dept of Health Services? The people you want to contact is DCS, Dept. Of Child Safety formerly CPS. My first instinct is to call the police. That ex would be done. You could also go to sheriffās office of your county or city. Any police will help. Just stay away and keep your son away from that piece of shit.
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Also, turn the iPad in to the police when you make the report. They will put it in evidence and he wonāt be able to get it back!! Make sure you have screenshots though because he can log in on a different device and clear his history then you have no proof. Always be 2 steps ahead!!
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You protect your child at all costs first and foremost, thatās your role as a protective parent!
If your sons father is a RSO how the hell does he have unsupervised contact? How is he allowed contact with his gf children? Thatās illegal
Heās iPad searches are incredibly disturbing
You have a duty of care to report these findings so they can be investigated
Police can gain a search warrant and raid his home for all devices checking the history
With the history he has you need to be all over making a report now!!
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Make a report to DHS but ask for a different county to take the case. Explain the situation that nothing is ever done with the one currently on taking the case!! Have an officer come out and make a report also that way there is a back up report. I had to do this when someone messed with my daughter and the county it happened in took it as a joke and never done anything except call her a liar. When I knew they werenāt going to do anything I called back and asked for a different county and I also added child abuse to it because my daughters stepmom left bruises on her from a belt buckle. A different county ended up with the case and they contacted someone higher up and action was taken. She no longer sees her dad, it has been over a year!! Please keep me updated on how it works out if you take my advice. I hope you get justice!! I will be praying for you and your son.
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Report it to his probation officer or your lawyer, bring it to the local authorities and request an emergency restraining order
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This is absolutely disgusting and very disturbing. Please donāt just keep your son away thatās breaking a order and I donāt know what could happen. You have all week to figure this out honestly, get the ball rolling tomorrow first thing and go to the court house and file for a PFA. Print out screen shots of YouTube findings and bring it with you so they can staple it to the PFA and the judge can see it and you should get a PFA tomorrow granted that is temporary until the hearing ā¦ as a mother of a 2 year old boy who has autism that search is crushing my heart
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IPad straight to police. File for an emergency custody hearing. DHS wonāt do anything to help. If you feel like the judge cannot take ALL the facts and evidence into consideration, have your attorney ask he/she to recuse themselves.
I would have went to the police with that iPad and showed them. No way that man should be left without supervision.
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Definitely get an emergency restraining order and make a police report documenting alll of this asap! I agree do NOT let him go back there. Jail is better than a hurt baby and hopefully it wouldnāt come to jail time since you have a lot of evidence
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Unfortunately most of what he was looking at probably isnāt illegal. Get a lawyer 1st then get your lawyer to help you navigate. And they lawyer is going to be able to be your advocate and get things moving. If money is an issue contact a womanās shelter.
First off the questions about why didnāt she do something before she got pregnantā¦ What if it didnāt happen to after she got pregnant? And then she chose to run to protect her child!! So donāt assume!
And to the mother dealing with thisā¦ I hope you get the help for your son you need.
Iād start by getting an attorneyā¦ going to the copsā¦ reporting to his probahtion officer If he has oneā¦ and the two step daughters maybe speak to their father and see if he can help get them taken out of that home as well which may help your case.
Donāt do anything against the court or your son will go straight to him and you do not want that!
Iād bring that iPad straight to the police department. Let them take a look at it and theyāll probably contact DHS themselves.
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Iād also let the police and DHS know they need to contact his girlfriend because not only is your child in danger, her children are as well!!!
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Whoa.
If heās a sex offender how is he allowed around children? That doesnāt make senseā¦
What crime did he commit to end up registered? Were children involved? Show your findings to cps?
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Well this is why you donāt get married and you donāt put your the name of of the father on the birth certificate. Just sayin.
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I have a court order to let her go with her dad but I donāt follow it because I feel sheās not safe with him
I would make a report of it because he seems like he wants to do bad things I would definitely no want my children around him after finding that take it to the police immediately but definitely take pictures so you have proof that way he canāt delete it off
How old is your son?
Take it too police straight away and get a emergency custody order
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Omg the police need to be informed ASAP
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Wondering why the running didnāt happen before the pregnancy. 
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Turn it in to the police!
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Call the police and report what you found
Poor girls.
Do what you think its best
Also find it strange he would look that up on YouTubeā¦
Take pics of his search history and report his gf to dhs
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U should be able to file emergency custody.
Go to the police ASAP
I understand the concern 100%, however stepdad/stepdaughter sex can be a kink. With the sex offender thing tho that is alarming.
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Take the iPad to authorities.
Take the iPad to the police. It will be on record he is a sex offender and they will do something immediately as he isnāt allowed near children. Protect your son and them 2 poor little girls from your ex.
This is definitely sickening and Iām so sorry you have to go through this you child and her children do not need to be around that
Well first u shouldnt have spread ur legs and got pregnant problem solved and u was bound to know ur husbands back ground
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Go to the police. They will trace it all back to the ip address even ig its deleted. He will do time for that