Charlie these friends be fake bitches
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#1. Not your friend
#2. Get a good lawyer. Make him pay financially
#3. Give yourself grace. Be kind to yourself. This is NOT your fault.
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No comment been there, your choice.
Leave while it’s out so he returns home to nothing
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Call a Lock Smith to change the locks while packing his stuff and throw it outside.
Send him to her. They deserve each other.
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It’s not very good advice, but pull up…thats what I’d do💁🏽♀️
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Yessss Meylin Diaz is sooo right. Save those receipts, and actual real financial records that can prove where his income, the hpuseholds income is going to. And I hope you’re done. Cause when he learns that you found out about his dirt…he’s gonna LOVE the ferk outta you! You’ll be sooo beautiful again, so very important, he’s so very “sorry”.
Brace yourself. Because the guy you fell in l9v3 with originally is going to be making an appearance again. 
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Leave his belongings at her doorstep
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I’m so sorry. I can not imagine the hurt and pain. Take care of yourself. You are the priority that HE has not made you.
Depends on your situation.
I’d change the locks & put his shit out with the trash
Never leave the family home. You abandoning home and that gives him the upper hand. PUT HIM OUT!!
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Lock the doors and throw his shit outside!
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Get all the receipts. You’ll need them for court and his family
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Next time go there and just walk into her house without knocking and record the entire thing.
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Get the money and don’t keep it on you or around you. Don’t don’t feel bad because he’ll do it to you believe me.
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Gather your things, have your affairs in order. Call them out and then leave with your head held high.
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kick him to the curve
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Why should she leave, I would pack all his clothes in a Dustbin Bags, and leave them on her door step, Than lock all your doors so he can’t get in the the house, and leave a Note on the door saying he’s no longer welcome in this house.
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Leave him. Why even ask.
Change the locks and when he tries to come on. Call the cops that someone trying to break in. Then cops get there, call him out on it … cops will make him leave and you have time to get divorce papers.
I’d be live streaming it on tiktok. They might not have even locked the front door.
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Box up all his stuff real quick. And then start unloading it at her house quietly. He lives there now. Buy a triangle door wedge from the shop to stop the front door from opening if there is a wait on the locks being changed.
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Go knock on there door 
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I’d go over there and confront that so called friend
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Change the locks and put his things neatly outside
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I’d garbage bag all his shit and drop it off at her house while he is there, and say welcome to your new house don’t come back, and change the locks and file for divorce, obviously if it’s been going on for years so he don’t give 2 craps about your family with him so take him out of the equation and move on he’s not worth anymore of your time you deserve better
Don’t listen to me you’ll catch a case lmao
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Sophia Poulos BYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Only you can really answer this question mamas if I was in your shoes I’d pack his shii and neatly place it outside for him , I found out my fiancé cheated on 72 days before my wedding day I kicked him to the curb .
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Wtf is wrong with all you women!? Take his shit? Change the locks? Empty his accounts!? Divorce and take him for everything!? Ur all fucking nutso and acting children! Grow up. Talk to the man. Leave if you want to that’s fine. But talk to him figure our where the cracks are in the relationship that lead him there in the first place.
Get all shit and throw everything in the front door , and give him a call. Don’t forget to change the locks of your house.
Make sure if you have a his credit or debit car used it , is going to make you feel better.
Your so called friend take her to court for being hoe
Pack your stuff and be gone.
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If you’re up for it, Can we have a status update? I’d definitely save those messages for now, and like everyone is saying, leave him and cut that so called friend out too! I would have showed up with wine like, why wasn’t I invited to this shit show?!
Put all his clothes on the front yard and light a fire to them. Get a triangle door wedge to stop the door from opening and/or change the locks 
which ever is faster.
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You are worth more then that boy ever will be. You deserve someone better, let him go gal he’s not worth it it’ll hurt and you will be sad but there will be a point where you look back and think that was a good idea and worth it! X
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Pack his stuff and leave it at her door with a note your welcome go home change the locks wipe your tears and hold your head up and don’t look back
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If I was in your shoes, I’d take a bat to her car & his! Like Carrie Underwood said to do.
Walk away. Neither one of them are worth another second of your life.
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Pack his $hit, set it outside, change the locks to the house. Let him come home to a big surprise. Fu@% that piece of $%!#.
Leave for a bit to clear your mind. Go for a drive, a walk or something. Then you don’t confront him yet. Just calmly ask some questions at random times. Liars hate questions because they can’t remember the lies they tell. He will catch himself up and bust himself.
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I would sit down and make a game plan… and give it 3 months tops…cuz you gotta find a new place, that’s gonna take a minute
first…contact a lawyer… get the papers drawn up… start moving money over into a private account, take your name of the lease. Slowly move my things into my new place…leave bare essentials so he doesn’t realize.
The next time he’s at that woman’s house have him served, grab my essentials while that’s happening , put them in my car. While that’s happening change the locks on the place you guys were sharing. And head on out…
Wouldn’t it be priceless to see his face getting served at that woman’s place and your all moved out, your number changed and his ass blocked from everything.
He tries to come home he’s locked out.
Only contact is through the lawyer…
That’s what I’d do anyways.
Move through this like a princess ninja warrior!!
Throw his shit in a pile and change the locks!
That’s up to you. If they’re doing this for you/ or them.
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Pack his stuff drop it off change the locks and move for your better than 2nd place
Leave his shit at her door with print outs of their messages
I’d pack his stuff, and take it to her house.
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Change the locks right now
Confront him … And leave
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Change locks and pack he’s bags. 
Drive to her house while he’s there!!! Surprise!!!
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Get rid of both she’s not your friend and he ain’t either go for all you can get
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Find a good lawyer show them the texts and statt from there
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Go over thr wit a pan of “hot grits”!!!
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That’s disgusting, honestly karmas a b**** but invite them somewhere together and call them out
Ditch the “friend” and the husband when you get a chance to cool down. No one is worth this heartache.
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I would put deposit down on a bunch of attorneys so he’s only left with the shit ones 
Change the locks while he’s gone and leave a note on the door telling him to take his stuff back to her house. Leave his stuff outside.
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Pack his bags and leave them on the curb for him to collect on the way back around to her house. He wouldn’t be welcome home again and then I’d save all the texts and see a lawyer about divorcing him on it. He’s not worth the hassle in being mad about just forget him as he clearly doesn’t care about you.
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He’d be gone lickety split, and she’s your friend. I wouldn’t need advice from anyone.
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Divorce. If he sleep with your friend he’ll sleep with anyone
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Been there. I’m sorry you’re going through this.
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Play dumb for now. And first things first find a lawyer
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It happened to me & I got my divorce…Keep your cool & get the advice from a lawyer…If you have a checking account with him get all the money out…You deserve much better & don’t cry over this…This is NOT your fault
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Change the locks before he gets back there. Pack some of his shit (nothing you bought) & silently leave it on her front porch for him to find when he’s leaving. Then, go like half way down the block and call her and be like “HEY GIRL!! I got some TEA for you, I just got us Starbucks and I’m about to pull up in like 3 minutes!” Then sit back and enjoy the show. 
From there on out go dark, stay silent, file for divorce. You got thisssss. & You deserve SO MUCH BETTER.
Don’t let him know u know then give him a hand job with deep heat as lube …
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Sue them both… Alienation of affection. Get an attorney ASAP. You have the proof
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print everything out onto yard signs and post them all across the yard. change locks. pack his shit. file for divorce
Pack his shit and change the locks 
Get a good attorney 
I used David Leonard in Greeneville, TN
He was fantastic
Screenshot all texts
Change locks
Take pictures
Empty bank accounts
Pack up a few clothes of his in garbage bags & dump them outside for him to pick up
If he comes to your home call police cause he will threaten you
Lock his ass up
Don’t let him know that you know & don’t back down!!!
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Leave tell him to hit the road then you can talk it over
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I’d bag his clothes up and take them round right now while they’re both there … play that song ‘abcde f**k you’ from you car and walk away head held high, middle finger ever higher. You deserve better girl💁🏼♀️
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Let them have each other. Sounds like you’re better off that way. You’ll never trust either ever again
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being there and it was my first cousin and she is pregnant! What I did! I divorced him! Well I first threw all his things out and divorced him! No man is going to fool me behind my back! If a man says he loves you and goes behind your back and do this he is not worth keeping or fighting for even if you have children from him! He is a bad example for your children also!
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Yes even if he comes back to you you will always doubt him and not trust him better u let him move on with his life!
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Screenshot everything you can and send it to your phone, this will help you with the divorce if you end up going thru lawyers. Then gather all his stuff and take it over to her house.
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1keep the phone 2)find a good lawyer3)Divorce him and collect alimony 4) leave is but alone once they cheat they will always cheat 5) empty bank accounts 6 throw him out the house
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Be quiet about it…I know it’s hard but patience and rationale are important at this point… do not act on impulse…get a lawyer and drop them papers
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Empty your bank accounts. Call a lawyer and keep all the texts and info. You can easily get alimony.
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Process it, calm down! Then fully think about it. Do not act right now. Its not a good time. It wont be worth it. Go to a family members if he is coming home anytime soon. Just say ur going to visit for a night and act normal until u can set up a plan that will work!
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Mine cheated the whole 39 years we were together. That was MY fault, I should have left the FIRST time. Your partner can only cheat if you are willing to be cheated on, one and done ! 
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Or you could tell him like I did my one that’s why we’re going to bounce around messing around like that charge we could use the extra money
I wouldn’t say anything. Yet. I would cry my eyes out. Then I’d get myself together (and my stuff), and I’d figure out a living situation and then I’d be gone.
No trying to stay, no arguing, just gone. and cut that friend off too because she’s just as trash.
Cook dinner 1 night and invite your friend over, be sure that you act regularly in front of both of them…make a great dessert…while you are enjoying your dessert 
and you’ve had all those texts printed off give each of them a copy of them…let him know that while hes reading that …earlier that day you left him 5.00 in the checking account and 5.00 in the savings account…because hes worth about 10.00 for all the time and expense hes worth and hes lucky hes getting that…and also paperwork is being drawn up because you 2 are sitting in my house that you will pay for and I expect a check in what used to be your mailbox for a particular amount on the 1st of every month…so now you and your trasy ass ho get out of my house…your shit is packed in the garage waiting on you…BYE
So sorry been there it’s such a shock and trauma
You deserve better!
Lock him out and throw his 
on the lawn
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Hire an investigator get documentation and evidence then move your money and get the best attorney you can afford. Then lower the boom. Serve him with papers. Then make sure afterwards that everyone that knows your friend and who she works with knows she cheats with married men and the. Take his dirty laundry over to her place and dump them outside on her doorstep. If she is screwing him then she can get all of the responsibilities that you have been taking care of for him in good faith. Make sure your bills get paid first. Then delete her number. Don’t get mad just get even and 10 pounds more. Trust me it’s liberating
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Find a frend of his n sleep with him that way url will b even
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Make a plan before you unload on him.it will be hard but get your stuff in order first. If he will cheat with your friend then he will cheat with anyone.
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The only thing you can do is tell him you know and leave his ass. If it’s been going on for years there is nothing to work out. I know it hurts but you gotta face that he’s made his choice.
I’m pulling up. Idk what I’m doing, but I’m coming over.
I’d send her a message from him while he is there. Maybe send a pic of you or something that will blow both their world up! Sorry girl!
Drive over there and call her and tell her that you need to come over because you think your husband is cheating on you. When he walks out the front door fuck then both up
Rethink why I loved him in the first place and then pray for his healing. Cuz he gonna need some.
Copy These Messages To Yourself Immediately!, as it is hard to digest or even Believe, so his & her excuses can wear you down, don’t fall for it. Stay Strong! As hard as it will be!!! Dump them both!!! YOU WILL SURVIVE!!! It took 4 years for me to rid of him, through hard hurdles that were unbelievable
But I had photos of what I caught him doing!, so each time I got weak & thought I was wrong or overreacting, questioning MYSELF, I was able to go back & look at the proof, so I could stay strong & not buckle or give in. Yes, get the documentation, but mostly protect your bank accounts!!! I never thought the ex would stoop so low, but he wiped out all our accounts, while my mother and I were with the legal and medical officials to document what he did, while we were with the law, he was wiping out my moms, mine & our accounts, after 30 years of being with someone!!! You Really Need to Protect Yourself Better Than I Did!!!
Save the proof, pack your shit and dup him! It aint worth it.
And leave a parting gift like amber heard. LOLOL
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First just go do some shopping, play with your kids! Then later either take all your shit or his crap and leave!
Pack up and go while he’s gone, or (if leaving isn’t an option), pack up his shit, throw it on the porch and have the locks changed