Would’ve celebrated both days after being a little bit moody 
This bro my dad could even remember his own birthday he could never remember my mom’s birthday and he could barely remember my birthday.
This just because you are blessed with the mind that remember dates doesn’t mean that everyone is it takes me years to remember When my partner’s birthday is
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Girl he at least remembered!!! Okay he was a day off but still.
Men are dopey about those things. Don’t sweat the small stuff if he is a good guy
At least he said it. My husband never says it.
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Not that big of a deal tbh. Atleast he didn’t forget! He is human
Me and my man have been together going on 5 years and he can’t tell you my birthday. He can barely remember his brothers birthday. I just give him reminders for everyone’s birthday.
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I almost can’t believe you took the time to post this… But at the same time I can believe it… Just because of how the people in this world are these days.
I turned 30 in March. My fiancé did not remember at all… Halfway thru the day my mom came over to give me a gift and that’s obviously when he found out.
I cried and was very upset. And I kinda got angry with him. So then he got mad back at me and told me it wasn’t a big deal. We fought most of that day… It was horrible. Never got a gift, dinner, or an apology…
So you are on here crying and being upset because your boyfriend told you Happy Birthday a day early?! Is this a joke?!
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Firstly Happy Birthday for tomorrow (its my birthday tomorrow too). Secondly I’ve known my hubby for 26yrs, have been together for nearly 18yrs and he still asks me sometimes what day my bday is. I always start with reminders on xmas day lol 6 months till my bday, and then gentle reminds every month
Lighten up…he was off by a day…it’s a running joke with my man now…i just randomly go “when is my/our birthday/anniversary?”…the panic crosses his face but then he’s usually right lol
Girl maybe he forgot:person_facepalming: I have been with my man for almost 5 years and he still forgets my bday sometimes, but that’s okay with me. You are overreacting and it’s ridiculous! 
Get over yourself. Mistakes happen. If you get this upset over something so dumb I feel bad for him.
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Not a big deal
Who cares
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At least he remembered you had one coming up. Sometimes I think it’s Thursday and then I end up disappointed that it’s only Wednesday or spend an entire day thinking it’s the 21st all day long before someone tells me it’s only the 20th…. He may have actually thought it was the date in question.
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I’ve been married for over 20 years and my husband still forgets the exact day lol doesn’t really bother me because he always gets me something and we plan a nice dinner out somewhere and it depends on the day it lands on anyway when we can celebrate us girls are the ones that remember everydamn date 
guys not so much
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Lol I’m over 30, however I still remember my shit,speak for urself.
At least he remembered, even a day off. My ex husband forgot about my birthday every time …and it’s 7 days after his 
Assume he didn’t know the current date. I’ve forgotten my own because I didn’t know the date. I currently regularly have no idea what day of the week it even is.
You’re about to be 30… this is childish. Better to be late than nothing at all. He is male 
oh and happy birthday 
If problems got his days mixed up… I wouldn’t be upset about it
I have been with my husband 12 years and he still never remembers the actual date of my birthday, I always have to remind him
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I’m not good with birthdays, so it wouldn’t be a big deal to me 
He’s a day off, relax
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Lol at least he got the month right.
I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and he still forgets what day my birthday is, it happens lol
I would just say aww thanks but its tomorrow Lol
Just imagine if he forgot all together…He’s just a day off. Give him some credit💞 Not to minimize your feelings but alot of men completely forget.
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Seriously? None of us are perfect. We all make mistakes. My God he was only a day off. If you get upset over something so minor I feel kind of bad for him
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Get over it? Lol! Some women are so toxic and want to pick fights over anything and every 
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SMH… Some men don’t even remember their own b-day…
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- Men are dumb. Smack him upside the back of the head and make him take you to dinner tomorrow.
- 30 ain’t so bad, I promise.
Honey you need to learn to pick your battles…
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I’ve been with my man for 9 years and he still can’t remember my birthday, I’d be freaking thrilled if he thought it was a few days before at least he was thinking about me.
Get over urself!!! Half the time I dont no what the date is??? Be glad he remembered at all!!!
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I mean at least he remembered
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Let’s just start by maybe validating her feelings a little bit instead of making her feel worse. Everyone’s situations are different and same with emotions. It’s okay to be upset. Just remember though that things happen… and men are forgetful by nature lol.
I would let this slide
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My ex never even used to get the month of my bday correct at least he was only a day off
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I have to go over the months in my head to remember who’s birthday is when in my family we have 5 birthdays in July alone so it can be tricky to remember
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You’re being dramatic. A simple lol try again tomorrow would have been fine.
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at least he wasn’t months off to make you think he was thinking of someone else’s birthday
Just say thanks but it’s tomorrow maybe he will get better lol
Really. I told my husband happy anniversary 3 days before. I can never remember my own bday. Definitely worse things. He probably has his days mixed up. I woke up thinking today was Friday.
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i’d just let it go… for next year maybe start saying things like a month early, then the week of id be like my birthday is on sunday… i wouldn’t take it personal honestly
My fiance doesn’t even remember my birthday. We’ve been together for 5 and a half yrs. My mom has to text him and ask him if he told me happy birthday.
He tried… Just laugh and say “better early than late”
My husband don’t even remember his mamas birthday. So what he told you a day early just laugh and be like thanks babe but you’re a day early it shouldn’t be that big of a deal most men have a hard tone keeping up with dates in general
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At least he remembered even if he was a day early - I know couples that have been together for years and the hubby still forgets dates and stuff. Give him a break and say thanks but it’s tomorrow.
Give him some credit a day before ur birthday is still ok, thank God he remembered ,
it would have been sad if he all forgot an not wished u happy birthday at all…
Just remind him its tomorrow loll.
He may feel bad when u remind him but that’s all ok…
At least he remembered🌷
It’s the thought an love that counts💕
Been with hubs 14 yrs and has forgotten or got the day wrong more than right just be happy he even remembered u had one
I think it was an honest mistake, don’t overthink it. At least he didn’t forget it.
Ur lucky he remembered at all
have him take me to dinner and get me a present, Then make him do it again on the actual birthday for forgetting. How else is he gonna learn?
Not that big of a deal
At least he remember even if it was wrong day!!
Honestly my dad always thought that it was on a different day than it was. It can be hurtful yes but some people just aren’t good at remembering dates regardless of what you mean to them. Maybe just write it on a calendar or put it in the one of his phone so he can remember.
Be grateful he even remembered to do so.
okay. so he was a day early… So what… And yes I understand the 30th birthday blues. I had them too. Just remember this… You are not old. not even close. HONESTLY your life is just starting and is only going to get better. MAKE YOUR DAY A GREAT DAY!!! You are alive. you are healthy. so be happy. Go pamper yourself. Have a spa day. get your mani/pedi. Get your hair done. HAVE FUN!!!
I’m the person who writes everyone’s birthday in our family on the calendar so nobody forgets:)
I’d just be happy to hear a “Happy Birthday” not one person is perfect! I’d be like “thank you love but it’s actually tomorrow “
If it’s that bothersome I’d get a calendar and write the names of everyone you guys are close to including the both of you…
maybe he wanted to be the first one to tell you lol anyhoo happy birthday
I said happy fathers day on the wrong day lol married 10 years, 2 kids and one on the way. We just laughed about it!!!
It happens😌
Ok, so there’s people that remember what day it is? I’m in bad shape.
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Not a big deal lol if you were a little kid maybe. But you’re an adult. There are worse things to be upset about. At least he tried 
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try 28 year’s and with 21 of those being married and he does nothing
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I would count it a wonderful blessing that he took the time and energy to do this, even if the wrong day. Also yes being 30 can be difficult for some but I would find something to do that you like or have never done. Celebrate the life you have. It helps us see that life is in a new stage not an end.
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He was close lol. Celebrate your birthday today and tomorrow hahaa
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Hes a man. They forget shit all the time. Let it go.
At least he remembered tbh some men which ive known Alot dont say happy bday at all! Just let it go as a accident and enjoy your life.
Many people are not good at keeping track of days and dates. It’s easy to mix up. I wouldn’t make a big deal out of it as I believe he wasn’t intending to hurt your feelings at all. Be gracious and accept the heartful apology. My hubby thought today was Friday, prime example.
Mines tomorrow too…happy birthday
Just be happy n grateful he even said it n stop being dramatic about it. If you’re truly hurt by this then u need to ask yourself why you’re making it a such terrible thing. There’s nothing wrong about turning 30 we all grow older as each year comes n goes n there’s nothing we can do to stop it so be grateful you’re alive well n getting to have another birthday cause so many ppl have died this past year so be grateful honestly.
It was a mistake. At least he still knew. Just use it against him as a forever running joke now… That’s what I’ve been doing with my husband for 3 years
At least he remembered… even if a day off. Now he has time to get you a gift… 
Lol
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He’s human! He made a mistake. Laugh & move on. Why are you do bothered that he got messed up by 1 day?
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My husband of 10 years sometimes gets it wrong. Personally I don’t really give a damn lol its just a day.
this is the stupidest question ever
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Relax. Don’t you ever get confused by the day? Think Tuesday is Wednesday? At least he remembered. I almost forgot my boyfriend’s last year (6 and a half years). I just looked at the calendar and went oh shit.
He nay have put it in his phone and set the reminder 24 hours ahead so that he wouldn’t forget. I would just tell him thank you, but you do realize it’s tomorrow.
At least he remembered it the day before so celebrate it today and tomorrow
Be thankful he remembers a day earlier than later, and kindly remind him of the day.
Eh, 2 years isnt thattttt long when talking about being in a relationship. Who knows how many other birthdays hes had to remember lol it isn’t that big of a deal. I think he just caught you on the wrong day emotionally. Tell him how you feel. I doubt his intentions were to hurt you.
I confused my husband’s birthday with an ex’s for years lol … he was always a good sport about it though.
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I wouldn’t make a mountain out of a mole hill about this. To err is human. We all have many things on our minds. I don’t think it was done maliciously. Let it go!
you are over reacting
He probably just a day ahead. I do it all the time. I think it’s Thursday it’s really Wednesday.
Honestly I get confused what day is today easily especially if I’ve been real busy. I’d say thank you but kindly remind which day it is. Shit happens
I would forgive him for that. At least he acknowledged your birthday. Maybe remind him next year.
Get over it , my husband dosent even say happy birthday he will just be oh today’s your birthday huh 
Be happy he remembered at all… if you were in his shoes how bad would you feel? Don’t make him feel too bad… shit happens.
I’m lucky to remember my birthday my self I’d laugh about it and move on…
Damn, who cares lol give him a break.
Over reacting. At least he tried. It gets worse as the gears go on
I wouldnt care get over it and move on.
Better early than never.
Just be happy he remembered at all. It’s just one day difference lol
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Hes a man tell him you expect this to be the warm up for tomorrow
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He wanted to be first!
If its a straight male… You gotta cut him some slack
I’ve been with my bf almost 5 yrs and I can’t remember it for nothing. The only way I remember is by him talking about it coming up soon. He just laughs about it. It’s not a big deal
I know how you feel…. I’ve been with my husband for 30 (THIRTY) years and he STILL doesn’t know my birthday! I turned 50 on my birthday no card no gift no Happy Birthday…. No nothing! Never mind the fact our dates are the same just different months and years! 