Please go easy on me for snooping and tell me wtf you would do at this point??? Because I want to just call his ass out and deal with my own snoopy wrongs later.
I felt like my husband was pulling back (we've been in a relationship for over 10 years). And I knew better but did it anyways...I looked through his phone. Everything was fine until I noticed he was deleting messages between him and a long time female friend. So I pulled up the trash folder in his texts and saw XXX rated pictures (not including any faces) being sent to an email account I did not know about. Which was also not connected to his phone, so I couldn't access it without a password. The email account with all our family pictures was connected and easily accessible.... I feel like these XXX pictures have something to do with the deleted text messages. I also feel like maybe they're just random pictures and I'm over reacting. (I'm not upset over some random woman's pictures but it would upset me if they were personal pictures...if that makes sense) Our love life sucks....three very young kids, my body has changed a LOT, and I'm emotionally drained everyday. I mentioned to him that I knew something was up (he's playing dumb) but I haven't plastered my evidence right in his face yet.