Fan question :how to handle when your boyfriend thinks only rules apply to you and not him?
So my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. I have a 7 year old that he took on the dad role and we have a 2 year old. Both girls. We both work. Him 8am and he’s home by 5:30pm and me I go in at 4pm or 5pm and till about 10/10:15pm. It works for us but it def has caused its issues over the years in the past that we did work out through couples counseling and making more times for date nights. Our current issue is when there’s a important doctors appt that he wants to come to and could easily tell his job hey one of my kids has a doc appt can I come in late or have the day off they won’t give a issue about it but he doesn’t speak up. This Thursday our older daughter has a behaviorial therapy appt (the Intake for It ) which he’s known about for months and I reminded him 3 times yesterday and today to tell his job and he never did now they are being sent to Manhattan to do a job. I got upset of course and walked away and he just goes “ f*** you “ which made me even more hurt because he’s the first one to tell me that our family and girls are more important then work. Am I wrong for being upset ?