Why do men ghost?

why does a guy ghost you after hooking up

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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Why do men ghost?

Because that’s what a lot of guys do

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They got what they wanted so they don’t have to pretend anymore.Simple as that.

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I would say it’s because he wasn’t interested in anything besides hooking up

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Because he got what he wanted and doesn’t want to have any confrontation :woman_shrugging:

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They just wanted you for sex.

Because they got what they wanted?

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Because he got what he wanted, it wasn’t good to him, he decided he might develope feelings and doesn’t want to for many reasons, etc…, there’s lots of stuff it could be. But at least you know about the person he is and you can move on

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Called a ONE NIGHT STAND :woman_shrugging:

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If “hooking up” means sleeping with, well, they got what they wanted, and they’ve moved on to the next.

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Because you already gave him what he wanted

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They had a trial run and didn’t want to buy. Also, women give themselves too lightly these days. Don’t even bother to get to know someone prior to being intimate.

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He don’t want feelings or the responsibility of a relationship!

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He was only after one thing… he got it!

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Cuz he’s a coward and can’t man up and say what he wants or how he feels. They’d rather ghost then to deal with how it’ll make someone feel. It’s them. If u get ghosted, consider it like the trash took itself out. U don’t want someone in your life if that’s how they handle things

Because that’s all he wanted, he got bored, found someone else, the list goes on and on and on. It happens and there is nothing you can do about it. Just keep searching and eventually you’ll find someone who wants you for you.

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Because they got what they wanted

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Um. Guys and gals both ghost because all they were interested in was a hookup with no strings attached. Men do it more often, but most of us have done it at one time or another.

Because that’s all he wanted lol

Because he only wanted A$$. And you gave it to him :woman_shrugging:t2:

Because he got what he wanted from you? It’s not that hard to figure out

Beacuse you were too easy didn’t make him work for it… Men like to chase :wink:

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Don’t know :woman_shrugging:t3::woman_shrugging:t3::woman_facepalming:t3:Usually I’m the one gosting because that dick just came up not playing the game I was sold in the negotiations

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This has got to be a joke :woman_facepalming:t2:

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Because he got what he wanted… simple

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Because that’s all he wanted.

He got what he wanted

Because he got what he wanted. Girls do it too

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Because you didn’t take the time to get to know who you were dealing with. I say close your legs and open your eyes.

He wanted one thing or just not interested in you

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Because he got what he wanted.
Don’t put out. :joy::joy::joy::joy:

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In my experience its because (I won’t say ALL men are trash cuz they most certainly aren’t) said specific LITTLE BOY is trash. He got the notch on his belt, he doesn’t need you anymore. No need to fake it after already receiving the end goal. Boys like this are :poop: and should be thrown away. All he wanted was to get under those panties. Boys are trash, men aren’t. Whoever you decided to lie in bed with classifies as a boy, sorry to say.

According to my boyfriend its because: The guy is a douchebag and realized things aren’t gonna work out but can’t gather the balls or human decency to tell you. That or he expected more from you and did not receive it.

Bc you already gave it up. You left nothing to the imagination. Don’t be so easy. Make him work for it.
" he says he wants ya ? He says he needs ya?
Why not make him wait for you? Take ur time…feel him out when he’s a good boy… i mean a really really good boy… then put out lol"

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Maybe he didn’t perform well and shame runs him away

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It’s a game. They don’t care.

Because he’s already taken and he’s a cheater, or he didn’t like how it went. As a man, those are the only 2 options. All of you women saying he got what he wanted and bounced, have no idea how men really work. Lol

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Guys don’t know If they like you or not til after they have sex with you . It’s called post-nut clarity. Look it up :joy::wink:

More of the time it’s Cause that’s all he wanted was a booty call n that’s it nothing more. Don’t give him the time of day again once he hits you up again. Most will hit you back up only when they need a booty call again.

Worse case is he didn’t like it with you and didn’t know how to tell u so he just ghosted u instead

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You wasn’t it love focus on yourself :smiling_face_with_three_hearts::pray:

Cause they are dumbasses honey :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

He got what he wanted and dipped

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Lol like my mom has always told me,”who’s gonna wanna buy the cow when they get the milk for free?!”

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I’ve had them ghost when I wouldn’t give it up. It’s a no win situation

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Because he got what he wanted and it didn’t make enough of an impression.

Y’all slut shaming hard

Seriously? He got what he wanted…that’s why

First date and in bed. Some don’t even have the first date and in bed don’t even really know each other.sick.

Key words :sparkles:Hooking Up​:sparkles: that’s all he/she wanted

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Well I am a woman and I ghost too but the main reason for me is the personality has to be good if not ghosted

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There’s that old saying “if everywhere you go you smell shit, perhaps it’s time to look under your shoe”

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He just wanted a warm bucket

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Because you put out on a first date .

Because some men are not interested in commitment. They are merely interested in getting laid. Once they accomplish that, they move on. There are also some women that feel this way also.

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They could have at least said I don’t want to see you anymore

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Never had that happen

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Got what they wanted… Found that they lost interest or you weren’t as they thought…or they really were only looking for a one time hit it and quit it

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Bluntly, bc he decided he didn’t like you but you were still a warm hole :woman_shrugging: don’t sleep w people quickly, that weeds out a lot of losers from the jump.

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They either got what they wanted or they didn’t

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Bc their assholes haha :joy:

He’s just not that into you, and he lacks courage and communication skills to be truly honest with his intentions—and possibly, sexual self-restraint.
:woman_shrugging:t2:

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Because you gave them what they wanted

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It doesn’t matter If u sleep with someone the 1st night or wait before you do anything with them the only thing that keeps a man is a man that wants to be kept nobody will change that. Don’t try so hard for someone to settle just have fun and the right one will find you

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Because it was a hookup nothing more

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Geez. That’s sad.
I’ve never had that happen

Cause he got what he wanted

He just wanted a booty call

Because he wanted to get laid.

You weren’t the one. You gave it up to quickly. He has a girl. There’s multiple reasons and it’s a question that goes both ways especially nowadays. Woman now are just as bad as men if not worse. The internet has capped a lot of people’s heads up making them think they look better than what they really do. Especially with the way desperate men throw compliments and women that in all reality look nothing like their pictures.

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Lmao there are SO many comments saying “because you gave it up on the first date” but literally nowhere does it say that :upside_down_face:
For all anyone knows they were seeing the person for a while before this happened…
And even if “they got what they wanted” they could at least have the decency to tell you they’re not interested in continuing it but people just suck

  1. They had a gf or wife
  2. Didn’t think you were attractive enough to continue anything
  3. You suck in bed
  4. They were under the influence
    (Don’t come after me, asked my guy friend!)

Because he got what he wanted or because he just doesn’t want it again lol.

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Because your breath smells like a dumpster full of rotten milk.

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I watched a podcast with two blokes answering this. Their answer. " men are cowards. We hate confrontation. End of. It’s actually nothing to do with the woman." I don’t know of this is true of all men, however, it does say alot of his character. If he cannot be honest about his intentions is he worth it? Probably not. It’d definitely not anything to do with you or your worth. Shake it off n move on. X

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I mean it’s not just men, women do it as well. Those are just horrible humans and you’re better off without them.

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Wasn’t exciting enough

Cuz they got what they wanted.

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He got what he wanted… Like high school, fuck & dump. Same thing just men are way more of a bitch about it now. Back then they’d brag “yeah I fucked her & ditched her” . A lot never grow up, just get hairy & grow.

That’s ever happened to me but usually they don’t want it again or you just didn’t Vibe or they don’t consider you long-term or there’s no challenge there’s a lot of reasons that are possible

Same as it ever was…

Why keep trying? The fun is over first round lol

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Cowardice and getting what they want
Not everyone you come across deserves t0 know your scent or taste your taste
If you’re gonna get physical best to clear about your expectations

Don’t settle for this behavior! It will break your heart. You deserve
More! There are people who cherish your soul and body! Sex is so awesome and I have learned that it’s also so sacred and special! Get horny with someone that wants all of you!

Cause you gave him the pussy

Is this really a serious question…lol

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Because those aren’t “men” those are Boys!

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Because all they wanted was a hookup. And they aren’t mature enough to communicate. Glad I’m not still single

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Because it was a hook up.

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Because he was only looking for someone to hookup with and nothing more

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Maybe they realized what they were getting themselves into

It goes both ways hahahaha

Probably have another life going on somewhere, just using you for whatever they can get!

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Could be a million reasons, try not to dwell on that and refrain from hooking up

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He already got what he wanted so easy, why bother anymore?

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Probably in a relationship already, just messing around on their partner.

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Ummm well your probably given it up easy…… Can’t turn a [email protected] Into a house wife

Because that was all he wanted.

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This happens both ways … most of the time this happens when people don’t really know each other and clearly have no idea what each other is looking for… it’s as much one person’s fault as it is the others , first of all you’re making the choice to sleep with someone don’t base it off emotions or alcohol, be straightforward and clear in your thinking and honest in what you want… It doesn’t hurt to ask a question, it doesn’t hurt to be truthful of anyone, most of these situations occur at a desperosity… People will treat you how you allow him to treat you
When a girl says I have had 10 worthless men in my life they’re all sorry , she has to take responsibility as to her expectations and decisions as far as a type of man she let come into her life and around her children the same thing works for men… When you have had five or six failed relationships and five or six idiots… it’s your fault as much as the idiot’s fault

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Because he got what he wanted and now he is out, I’m sure he will get at you when he wants to hook up again

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Maybe dont hook up with a guy you just met? He got what he wanted easily…now he is on to the next. Want a relationship? Keep it in your pants for a few dates.