Dating violence situation all those are red flags ….you can text with a professional at loveisrespect.com
This will NOT end well. Eventually, something valuable OR YOU will get broken. I feel it’s only a matter of time before he hits you. Let him know that his next temper tantrum will be his last. Please have a safe escape plan in place !!!
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Sounds like he’s got a guilty conscious lurking inside he needs to come clean about. Talking from experience!!!
Get up in the middle of the night when he’s heavily asleep and sneak out as quietly as possible and when you’re out, run! Get to the next DV shelter in your area and tell them you’re afraid for your life and if it’s possible to ask they move you to the next DV out of town so he can’t find you. Because I assure you he will check with your family and friends 1st before checking with shelters.
Leave… I did that for 21 years and 3 pfas… leave if he isn’t willing to get help.
Don’t be putting up with that it’s not normal & it’s not your job to fix him x
Yeah… expect it to get worse, not better. And if you do decide to leave, don’t warn him. Prepare you plan in secret until you’re safe & stable. He’s a handbook abuser, and they are most dangerous immediately after separation.
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Not married … run for your life
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Anger management-- or leave his sorry ass before you become the target if his anger!
And there’s your sign
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Those are the things that will happen before he eventually is slamming you or hitting you instead of objects or walls. You need to leave.
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That is intimidation and is very much domestic violence. It will only excalate. Get help and get out.
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It’s not going to get any better.
Why are you still there???
Don’t go back once you leave,he won’t change and expect you to do the changing and eventually you will snap
This is a form of abuse. I lived this for far to long 
here if you need someone to talk to
You need to leave! But whatever you do, DO NOT TELL him you’re leaving. The best time to leave is when he’s working. Make a plan and get out before he ends up hurting you.
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Yes Run like hell. Don’t waste all your young years thinking they will change! They Won’t! And the abuser doesn’t realize they have a problem!!These problems pass on generation to generation. Look for family, friends or a shelter. Change your Phone number!!! Call Domestic Violence!! Might be hard at first but “Leave”the sooner the better!!!
Get out of there. Very toxic
He’s your boyfriend, so break up with him and make a better choice next time. Raise your standard and don’t settle for someone like this ever again.
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There is help out there…reach out for family or friend temporary to stay and make a plan…but GET OUT
Who cares why just get rid of him!
Men are the reason women are stressed all the time
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Sounds like he may be on the spectrum. Research Asberger’s Syndrome.
Make an exit plan and run. You’re in a domestic abuse situation. You can utilize the resources of a DV shelter to help you draft a safety and exit plan. Get a burner phone fast 
to be able to contact help and DV center without him knowing. The most dangerous time for a woman is right after she leaves. That is why it is imperative an absolutely necessary step to get in touch with domestic violence organization. He will never change. It will continue to escalate until you’re in a hospital bed or the morgue. I was married to a man like this 17 yrs. Trust me. Get ready and leave. All your ducks in a row.
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You did say boyfriend… right leave now
It’s only a matter of time before he hits you or pushes you please find a way out!!
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You definitely deserve better
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Before you know it, YOU are going to be those doors and walls. This is coming from someone who was thrown down in the driveway pavement after my ex slashed my tires and stole my phone. I slept on the floor of a 5x5 foot sized bathroom to “get away” because it was the only door in the house that still had a lock that wasn’t broken by him.
Get 
the HELL out of there
That is abuse and it’s just going to get worse! Leave now before you where like me at one point and I stayed and go right back for a twelve year cycle you don’t want to live in that misery they never change they make you change your self.
Leave ,if you don’t have a job get one and go home to your parents or see if a friend will help you out. There is always a way ,but don’t go back to him.you are a strong person and you can make it and believe it or not you will be happier then have ever been once you get settled.
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Leave asap. Nothing but misery in a future with someone like that
Show him the door and tell him to feel free to punch it on his way out!
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Oh Sweetie, why is he your BF? Run, as fast as you can. You are in danger.
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Take it from someone who married an abuser that is how it starts call the help line they can help you!
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Get out - call the abuse hotline for help - do it now 
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Run get out while you can.
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Sounds like you deserve each other. He may be a tyrant but you should not tolerate such boorish behavior. If the apartment or house are yours take back the key. If it is his pack your stuff and leave. It won’t get better.
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Leave and don’t look back. He can punch the door if he wants on the way out! You won’t regret it but will for sure if you stay! The longer this goes on eventually it will be you he punches.
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I was in a very similar situation just over a year ago. Look for somewhere to go, even if it’s a friend’s house for a little bit and just get out of there. It’s not safe for you
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This man needed to be your ex like yesterday.
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Oh yuck. Just leave his a**.
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He’s either bipolar or a narcissist . He could even be both. You can’t fix him.
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PLEASE GET AWAY. You can not control his behavior. The problem is with him not you.
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You have read all of the comments. I agree! Don’t waste your time and go. This will leave you traumatized. My daughter went through this and she left after 7 years of his bull. She’s been through it. Just leave. Blessings.
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get out or the next thing he hits or slams will be you
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RUN and take everyone advice on here you need to leave him . This guy can not be fix so don’t waste your time or you’ll lose yourself. Live in your car or find a shelter till you can have a place of your own . Because he is not worth it.
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Run away run far far away & don’t look back …
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He is a controlling narcisst that given time will physically abuse you. I was with someone like this and adter getting married instead of punching walls and slamming doors started hitting and kicking me. You need to get away from him and put him in the past.
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It won’t get better unless he gets help and only if he wants it
Oh shit I feel like I wrote this myself. Giant dip while you can. I wasted too much time staying in a situation like this
Go to a domestic violence shelter
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He much rather be with a man. Your in the way are you blind… I love you women she very comfortable around me. We rock
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He has an anger problem and he needs to get help with it. If he refuses to get help then you need to leave because it won’t get better on its own, it will only get worse.
Get out you’re not married. People rarely change unless they want to or possibly hit rock bottom. #truth
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That’s a big sign of abuse
Red flag Central… you shouldn’t stay… trust me.
Any place is better thsn living like that.
Go to a women’s shelter. They will help you get on your feet. You do deserve better. Please leave now before there are children involved. He’s only going to get worse
F… that go to someone who and help you !!!
Okay… he’s abusive. Leave. Please.
I would leave. Uncontrolled anger can be a very bad thing. One day it may not be a wall but you instead. Plus, the phone things a control issue. Been there, done that. Your not hurting him, your protecting you!
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I’d go to a shelter before I’d put up with that
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One of these days, he is gonna go from hitting things to hitting you. It is a process. This is a warning sign.
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There’s homeless shelters if you need somewhere to go. No one had to deal with that. You know you deserve better…
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Women’s shelters will help. Get out now girl!!!
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Run. Please take my advice it may take 10 years from now but those walls will be your face. Please go!
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Get away from him. He is a control freak. Pretty soon he will start hitting YOU.
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I used to be in the exact situation but we ended up leaving 18 hours from my home town. And had a baby. Best thing I ever did was get the fuck away and never look back
He must get help. You need to take care of yourself.
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Been there! Please get away. It only gets worse and you can in fact get used to it. Believe me. Not something I care to admit but I hope you take the advice and leave. I’m sorry you are going thru this! Prayers for you.
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You need to get help yo leave. No no one has the right to treat you or anyone like this.
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I would tell hem to shape up Or ship out. Life is too short to be fighting. Mad all the time he needs to Injoy life. And love. You.
Your bf needs help. I’m not saying stay at all. He sounds like he is suffering a mental illness or personality disorder of some kind
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Time to get a new boyfriend. It doesn’t get better, only worse. Is this how you want to live the rest of your life? Telling from experience.
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Run don’t walk!! Huge red this will turn bad in a flash! He crazy and just showing you the tip of the ice Burge boo! I’d sleep in My car before I would risk this!!
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He is the Wrong man…he has issues in his past that you can’t " fix "…
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Do not settle for less find somewhere to go asap
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Girl you’re dating a whole Kyle, if he doesn’t want to admit he needs help and continues treating you and making you feel that way then let him be someone else’s problem
U feel like your walking on eggshells leave
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Leave before he starts doing it to you.
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Mood swing disorder, or just a way to control you. Either way if he doesn’t get help get out. Cause the beatings will be next. As I have lived this life for 2yrs and my Ex almost took my life.
It’s a horrible way to live. I’m telling you from experience and it only gets worse especially since he’s in denial. Please get out now. If you value your life and any semblance of peace at all, you would leave. I know you said you have nowhere to go, but anywhere is better than with him.
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A report to Adult Protection Services might be a start for intervention…if that doesn’t work…run will only get worse 
…been there not pretty.
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Go to a Shelter for Abuse Women is you have too! You deserve better!!
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You should never feel you have to walk on egg shells…sounds as if he is a controller. Next you won’t be able to have friends, phone calls that he wants to know who it is. Don’t walk… Run.
He’s a narcassistic. Run.
Run. Do not look back!
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I got out of that a year ago. Never looked back. Best thing I did. Ran.
No where is better then where you are now. Collect yourself. Straiten your crown. And walk out that door, with your head held high!! Find someone who will treat you like their queen. Or don’t. But this is abuse and it will never stop. It will only get worse.
Tell him,get help or your out of there. YOU will end up as one of his targets!!!
Run, and then run some more.
Needs anger management classes !Our son as a teen was like that we got him a punching bag and did karate it taught him control !Thats scary please be careful that’s spooky …
Get out now’he will hurt you.'You cannot help his dumb ass '.
Run like hell it’ll only get worse next time It could be you that he hits
My ex husband was like that. It only gets worse. He is a narcissist. Leave while you can
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Get out! Leave him! Speaking from personal experience! Those objects and wall will become you instead before too long. I don’t mean to be harsh sorry. But it don’t take much time before he turns all that on you and your kids of you have them… good luck
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He is unstable and controlling you by intimation. It will only get worse.
Record his actions and get help. Soon he will be physically abusive. Remove yourself from this abusive situation.
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Dude, you NEED to GET AWAY! That’s how abuse starts! He is trying to control you!
Girl he gonna be beating your ass in a minute