My husband had been planning a road trip, our 2 kids, his mom and brother. Our son has special needs, and can’t go to a museum that my BIL wants to go to. My husband said the kids and I should stay because our son would be holding his mom and brother from enjoying the trip and they went without us. Our 10 year old had been planning this trip for weeks. I hate the idea of my kids not enjoying what they had planned because it was inconvenient for them. I want to take the trip anyways and do the stuff we had planned (without involving my husband and in laws) I don’t want my daughter to grow thinking that it’s ok to leave someone out because of how they look or that she has to rely on a man to do things.
What would you do?