So just out of curiosity, I want to know how other women feel about this. My husband had a friend that he was taking to and from work everyday. His friend recently got let go because he got caught making out with a female co-worker who he has been seeing behind his girlfriend/fiance’s back. The female that he has been seeing knows that he has a girl but still continues to see him. I told my husband I really didn’t want him hanging out with his friend anymore than he has to just because of the fact that he’s a total tool for cheating on his wife… Now I’m not making him do anything because he’s a grown man and I trust him to not get influenced by his friend. Would you want your husband or boyfriend hanging out with someone who was cheating on their significant other?
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Would you want your husband hanging out with a friend who cheats?
I highly doubt my husband would want to be friends with someone like that. He expects better morals and respect from friends too but if he were to choose to be friends with the guy, I think I’d say my peace and leave it at that for him to decide on his own since it really wouldn’t effect me.
if your going to be with your man, give him the repect to make his own decision. if you cant trust who your with, leave him. He is not your dog or your son. You can’t tell him what to do. You need to trust he is going to make the right decision. Hopefully he was raise right. Wouldn’t you rather have a man who wants to be with you verse feeling force to stay with you.
I said the same thing to my ex husband. We actually went to counseling and I was told that was controlling and manipulative behavior. I stopped saying it, he is still friends with that man today. Have faith in your husband. By the way, we didn’t divorce because he cheated.
My ex husband went out with his brother often and he was always cheating on his wife,my husband eventually cheated on me,I left and then told my sister in law everything
A) the friend cheated not your husband
B) the side chick has made no commitment to the gf
C) if you don’t trust your husband why are you with him?
No, imo he shouldn’t hang around friends who don’t share the same morals.
Nope eagles flock with eagles
He wouldn’t be my favorite friend for my man, that’s for sure. And I’d feel compelled to call him names like douchebag each time he came by. (If he does, I don’t know)
He is not his friend. This is between his friend and his friend’s girlfriend. You either trust him and are secure in your relationship or you don’t. Do you “allow him” to be around people that smoke, drink or do drugs…do you worry that he will start those bad habits or are you just insecure about your relationship?
No, I certainly wouldn’t. However my husband does the same too. He has friends that cheat, I also try to tell him not to hang out with such men.