Hey y’all, I’m 22 with two toddlers. My husband (soon to be ex) is super narcissistic, I’ve known this whole time but chose to stay hoping things would get better. We’ve been together off and on for over 10 years married for 2.
He grew up in an abusive household however I hoped and prayed once he got out and away from that he would see and choose to be better but the farther into our marriage the worse it’s getting.
I told him I wanted a divorce today, and I’m honestly struggling sooooo bad. I have no idea how to be alone, I have no idea what to do or where to go. We have agreed to let it be civil and live together untill we are both on our feet, I’m hoping during this time to get closure but at the same time. I’ve been a stay at home mom for 2 years, while I know I’m fully capable of turning things around for myself and being a boss bitch… I’m also super anxious. I have fibromyalgia and have struggled with it the past year, so finding a job has been difficult.
Honestly I suppose what I’m asking is has anyone gone through this? Is your life better? Any advice for me moving forward?