A Classmate Hurt My Daughter So Severely I Had to Take Her to the ER: What Should I Do?

File a police report and press charges and contact the superintendent of the school
Fuck all that

File a police report!!!

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Iā€™m about to stir some shit up. Let her kick that little shit with all her might square in the balls. Do not let her believe this is ok because theyā€™re in kindergarten,ā€œdumbest shit Iā€™ve heard in a whileā€. Back your baby up, let her know you will not let people hurt her and that she should never believe anyone has that right.

To kick with that much aggression isnt an accidentā€¦and should be looked Into hes obviously experienced thisā€¦

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ANY child that has that much rage to kick another child with enough force to make them bleed, needs HELP. Something isnā€™t right at home, and the parents should be held responsible for their kidā€™s behavior.

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Call the cops! Get a lawyer. They should pay the bills and move the child.

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I sure hope your little heals from this traumatic event ! So not okay for this to happen , this should have been handled very differently! sounds like u need a lawyer and push charges ! Poor little one I hope she feels better :pray:

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He is a minor they can not give you his information! But they should have notified you immediately! Pretty sure thatā€™s law ! Or giving you and Incident report !! Thatā€™s extreme !! I wouldnā€™t back down with something that serious

Why people saying this was a accident? She didnā€™t trip and fall on something this little boy kicked her with such force she needed stitches! Having just had a baby and needed them myself I can tell you its very sore even after! The healing process isnā€™t over night! Iā€™m sorry but Iā€™m with the mother sitting in timeout is not enough punishment for the act he committed no matter what his age is! Hope your little girl is on the mend very soon xxx

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File a police report

What happened to your child, was assult. Involve the law. Even though I donā€™t believe it was done to hurt her. It still happened.

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Tell them that you will be talking to the police,a lawyer and the press. Apparently to the other parents and the school itā€™s ok to commit a crime, yes itā€™s a crime of sexual assault, and assault. If they still do not comply absolutely go to the press and name the school and what not. How would the family of the boy feel if the little girl kicked him so hard in the nuts that he had to go to the hospital. Iā€™m pretty sure they would be freaking out if nothing was being done about it. Wheather itā€™s a child or not that was a crime.

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You can report it to the police so they have a file, then take the file to small claims court and sue the parents for medical bills and emotional distress

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Get a lawyer get cops involved get social workers involved definitely

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Iā€™m sure your daughter knows who this boy is. Have her point him out and Iā€™d be waiting at the school for this boys parents

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Lawyer
.policeā€¦ report it the media .tv newsā€¦ those parents should def be responsible for any medical bills and that student needs to be suspended

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This kid obviously has some bad influence at homešŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø Ive been around plenty of children around that age and thats not something theyre just gonna be familiar with by themselves. Thats not okay, boys AND GIRLS who grow up thinking that itā€™s okay to do these kinds of things because theyre still young end up continuing the same behavior through out life. So. Personally had this been one of my little babies Iā€™d easily be calling the school superintendent and the police. She had to have stitches on her private area for Godā€™s sake!

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Sue the school. That is outrageous. The school is responsible. Get a lawyer and go after their ass. It happened on their property.

Something similar happened to my son. He was also kicked in the privates by a classmate at recess. This particularly classmate was a complete bully to my son before and after this incident. My son ended up having yo have a pretty major surgery that took him out of school for 4 weeks.
Nothing was done about the bully. We were advised if we wanted anything done we would have to have documented police reports and file for a restraining order.

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My hubs said to get a lawyer

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Report it to police and cps. File in small claims court for the parents of the minor child to pay medical bills.

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Iā€™d remove her. Kids are resilient a change in her schedule may cause some adaptation for a couple weeks but sheā€™d be safe and not Around ppl that should care but evidently donā€™t ā€¦ move on girl. Theyā€™ve shown you who they are

Are people seriously suggesting this woman ā€œlawyer upā€ & call the police on a toddler?! :anguished: I canā€™t evenā€¦only in America :joy::rofl:

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You go to the superintendent. If nothing happens you keep going up the chain. You make public post in your community pages and tag the school in all of them. Social media is your friend. You keep documents , you communicate through emails only!! You make a scene, till something happens!!! You are your kids advocate, SO ADVOCATE FOR YOUR CHILD!!! This is not an accident!!! A physical kick that causes damage is NOT AN ACCIDENT!!!

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Also going to the Board of Education

If you havenā€™t went to the school board yet Iā€™d do that, youā€™ll never get anything handled at the school. Iā€™d also consult a lawyer.

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Fight it and get the news channels involved, unacceptable

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Try to get in contact with the parents. They may not know anything! These schools are unfortunately foul like that!! The parents may be understanding but if they are not, you can give her parents two choices, pay for these medical bills, and transfer your son, or deal with CPS and the police. Your choice. :woman_shrugging:t4: you better than me bc the school would have been shut down! The first issue is that the teacher didnā€™t Call you, send her to the nurse to be check or anything. Iā€™m pissed for you! I have three daughters and I just couldnā€™t even imagine. Sorry you are going through that!

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Launch a formal complaint against the school. Start with the administration of the district. If nothing then go above them. I would be surprised if administration didnā€™t do something. You shouldnā€™t have to remove your daughter she did nothing wrong.

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If my daughter went up and kicked another child on purpose and caused them to need medical attention and stitches then I would and should be held accountable for my child actions.

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Find out the father or mother kick them in the privateā€™s cuz wtf :rage:

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My daughter was in kindergarten when she was kicked multiple times in the head by a student resulting in a concussion. Iā€™ll try to make this as short as possible. This kid also choked her a few days prior. The long term sub did nothing but ask the kid if he choked her, he said no. Then a few days later my husband calls me from pick up and said he was going in to the school to talk to the principal because our daughter said this same kid kicked her in the head and now her head hurts. I was 3 days home from having my son and I drove up there, I told the principal that I wanted the sub gone because had she done her job this wouldnā€™t have happened and I want the boys removed from the class. He also suggested moving my daughter, I firmly told him ā€œno. Youā€™re not punishing my child for physically being assaultedā€ the next morning after monitoring her for a concussion per her docs orders we took her to childrenā€™s as she was still vomiting. They rushed her back, did a ct scan and diagnosed her with a concussion. She disclosed to the doc that the boy kicked her 5-6 times!! I called the superintendent and said I would like them or the parent of the boy to pay the medical bills that were not covered by insurance. Nobody had gotten back to me for over a week so I left a message for the superintendent stating I was prepared with an attorney to sue the school for negligence and child endangerment. I got a call within 24 hours and they agreed to pay the medical bills and moved the kid to a different class. I had to stay up their butt to make sure they did but they did and the following year we moved to a new school. I donā€™t like being THAT person but when it comes to my kids I will be that person in a heartbeat. Feel free to pm me if you want to talk.

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Medical cost may be difficult to get pain outside of a lawyer & court. However stay on them about transferring the kid. Ask your daughter the kids first and last name and search for a parent on facebook. Iā€™ve tracked down parents myself doing that and took care of situations. Stay on the school.

You donā€™t ā€œaccidentallyā€ kick someone with so much force that they bleed and need stitches. Iā€™d be suing since proper care wasnā€™t given in school.

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Report it to cps and police. Fight it with every thing you have. Get a lawyer

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How would you feel if it was your child who kicked someone and sm1 was trying to call the cops on them or take legal action? These are little kids. That kid did not mean to hurt her that bad. Sure what he did was wrong and I understand why youā€™re upset. But thereā€™s a reason the school isnā€™t doing much. Things like this happen all the time with kids. My son got pushed off the top of the playground equipment, he was knocked unconscious and fractured his clavicle, horrible concussion. The kid is still in his class, and I didnā€™t chase down the law for it. I know itā€™s hard to not freak out, but itā€™s also rlly just not that deep. My own son who is now 4 when he was 2 bit the everloving shit out of another child at daycare, drew blood. I felt sooo terrible for that kid and his parents but it wasnā€™t the end of the world.

Yep. Press charges :100:

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When my child, in prek, came home telling me a boy dug in his butt I called his Dr. Took him to the ER. Got an advocate. Called the principal, called the superintendent. Called the cops. Child services. Called the fn governor. I called everyone and raised hell.

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Yep! Take legal action she had a serious bodily injury. Itā€™s as simple as her pointing out this boy and going from
There. Iā€™d go straight to the school district to show the seriousness of this! Keep everything documented and get letter and such notarized. If you can do all this through a lawyer even better. Walking up to his parents can be seen as a threat so do not do that, especially if the boy is there. It can go against you!

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School board and superintendent.

Id be taking legal action. Thats just wrong of the school & parents of the little boy. Hes obviously a bully and he physically hurt your daughter its their responsibility to make it right. If they donā€™t remove her from that school and take legal action they need to be responsible!! Mention the ā€œno bully tolerant ruleā€ cause if that really is in affect like they praise it is then they should be taking action about this! I would not be calm, i would be out for blood in all honesty. Im so sorry that happened to your little girl & you as a parent, do whatever you need to do momma, fight for her! That little boy needs more than a time out. He needs that ass busted.

I am truly SHOCKED nobody notified you though. Thatā€™s what you should be fighting and going to the board about!.. Thays outrageous kids do stupid shit, but the adults need to step in and do something! Like contact the parents :woman_facepalming:t3::weary:

Go to the police, get a lawyer, & go for the school & the parents of the child.

Iā€™d fuck someone up! Thatā€™s so messed up :face_with_symbols_over_mouth::face_with_symbols_over_mouth::face_with_symbols_over_mouth:

Call your local news station they would most likely cover it which would cause it to gain attention

Also, a lot of schools have a directory with names and phone numbers/email addresses.

This is disgraceful!!! I would take legal action if it was my child!

I would fight tooth and nail till someone listened! If they can move her they can move him! Iā€™d go above the school and go to the school board and if that donā€™t work Iā€™d take it to the media! Thatā€™s just me lol.

Take legal action against the parents and the school

I would fight it and press charger against the child and parentsā€¦ and go to the school board. Was an incident report doneā€¦ I would demand one if one wasnā€™t done.

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File assault charges with the police.

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At the very least, file assault charges with the police.

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This is absolutely horrible I would be sooo angry if anyone did this to my kids , the parents of the boy definitely need to be told and that little shit bag needs to say sorry and he should be removed that behaviour is disgusting your poor little darling . And maybe see what cops say

Sounds like a bully to me I would press charges.

Request a meeting with parents of the little boy and speak with them about being responsible and take legal action. This happened to my daughter in her ninth grade year and they treated it as a sexual incident and expelled him from school in the district. Im in Alabama

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Not okay! The child should be expelled and taught a lesson. Kindergarten or not. Someone has bad parenting that needs a wake up call also!

I would call the cops gets a lawyer and waiting after school for the childs parents and tell them what happened. If it was my kid that hurt someone I would take full responsibility.

Contact an attorney, reach out to DHS, and file a police report.

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Idk what kind of parent wouldnā€™t pursue charges idc

I would file assault charges against the boy and the school

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Definitely contact authorities.

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I would file a police report and go to the superintendent and school board if you donā€™t get the response you want with them get a lawyer!

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Cant you get your daughter to point the child out after school and then speak to his parents and if they dont do nothing I would definitely take it further especially with the school thatā€™s discusseing I would be fuming if that was my daughter and definitely would drop it x

Legal action! 100% your daughter should not be punished for this boys wrong doings

I would file a police report for assault hire a lawyer!!

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Take Legal Action. A similar situation happened to my cousin. A boy smacked my cousin in the eye and the daycare refused to allow my cousins mom view cameras. She was told the cameras didnā€™t work in which she knew was a lie because she also worked for that daycare. Daycare workers did nothing & the daycare owner did nothing so my cousin took it into her own hands and had her son sent to another daycare. She informed her boss (the daycare owner) that she could fire her & do whatever to her but donā€™t play when it comes to her child.

Ugh this gets me SO mad. So sorry this happened to your baby girl and that you guys are going through this! Not ok.

I would remove my child just for the lack of responsibility from themā€¦i would not feel comfortable with my child being in their careā€¦
id be outraged and definitely speak to my solicitor! I hope your little one is ok x

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I would have contacted the police and filed charges against the child which would hold the parents responsible.

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Get the law involved. Get records of everything that happened. And medical bills

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I would call a lawyer and try to sue the parents of the child that kicked her. If that didnā€™t work, then I would try to sue the school system.

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You guys are ridiculous, they are kids. Talk to the parents for sure, but its your kid so you pay the medical bills. :roll_eyes:

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Youā€™re saying prekā€¦so Iā€™m guessing 3-4?
3 and 4 year olds dont have the greatest impulse control already theyā€™re very impulsive. No. It is not uncommon for them to kick or hit. ESPECIALLY if they have a speech delay or anh other issues that bar them from communicating effectively.

Your issue is not the other parents. They werenā€™t there to stop it. They may be doing everything right at home and the inconsistency is happening at school (my sons behavior got TERRIBLE from starting school)ā€¦you dont know. And due to privacy laws you are NOT entitled to that childs information. Nor should you be. Look at all these comments? Moms saying how theyā€™d show up and ASSAULT other parents.

Your issue needs to be with the school. Now. Incidents happen fast and theres not always time to intervene. But you should have been informed immediately. No. They shouldnā€™t force a 3 or 4 year old child whose ALREADY BEEN PUNISHED to switch classes.

I think your expectations for punishment for a preschool aged child are a lot. I think if you want to make an issue of them not informing you immediatelyā€¦do it. Otherwise pull your child or understand that children are unpredictable and things happen. Adults cannot control everything. Did he mean to hurt your daughter so badly? Probably not. That part was probably a true an accident. I threw a stick at my neighbor once when I was about 7ā€¦and it hit him just right that it cut him above the eye. I wasnt trying to hurt him. But it happened. Thankfully his parents didnā€™t try to sue my mom.

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Files charges then they will have to give u the name

Wow letā€™s take legal action against five year olds are you people insane.

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You need to go after the school for not filling an incident report and calling you immediately when it happened.

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Fight it til the end mama!!!

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The hospital shouldā€™ve made a report stating it happened at school. Iā€™d call a lawyer & ask them what can be done. A 6yo canā€™t be held legally responsible for their actions. However the school & parents can be. I would fight it.

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Kick the moms ass or get a small kid to beat up the boy lol jk get a lawyer

Take Legal Action & Have It Blasted on News Station as well. I bet the school try to fix the issue then.

Contact the police make a report and go above and beyond the principal go to the school board of education.

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Iā€™m not a very nice person so Iā€™m not gonna go into detail about what I would do. But yes, fight it legally. Thatā€™s assault and he needs to be punished and his parents too since they see nothing wrong with his behavior.

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Go to the school board and if that doesnā€™t help GO TO THE LOCAL NEWS most have their own fb pages now and post it they will put enough attention on it Iā€™m sure SOMEONE will do something this is absolutely Ludacris there was BLOOD on your child and she needed stitches so clearly this was more than just a normal kick and fall from a little brat who had no business kicking her in her privates to begin with and they wanna remove YOUR CHILD??? NO MAAM he needs to be suspended. Iā€™d be making some major noise if it was my kid!

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Go to the superintendent, they also are responsible to pay for the medical bills. Donā€™t let it go!

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Please take legal action. We had a foster child who was inappropriately touching children in her class. Teachers and Social Workers all covered it up, refused to do anyrhing. I wish the other parents had taken action.

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Press charges and Get a lawyer. Also get the media involved!l

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Write a police report! What if he does it to other girls :pensive:

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Not sure what district youā€™re in but we live in TX also. I would file a report with the ISD police, the local police, then inform the superintendent via email (further documentation). If nothing becomes of it, then get a lawyer and go with a civil suit. The parents should pay for her medical bills.

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Take it to the news! Itā€™s disgusting they havenā€™t done more!

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Talk to the school board and super intended and tell them you intend to speak with a lawyer if they do not take the child out of the class.

As well as pay for medical bills

I would fight it legally

Press charges against the school. :woman_shrugging:t3:

Iā€™d definitely push it, yā€™all to the school board. Taking recess is not enough for that.

Lets just give the little 5 yr old boy the death penalty! Geez people get a grip!!

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First off I am very sorry your daughter had to go through all of that!! I would have been outraged if my baby girl had to deal with that. I do think some people made good points. At that young age the little boy probably didnā€™t mean to cause her great bodily harm. Little ones donā€™t have great impulse control. With that being said I would have a major issue with the school handling the situation like they did, it would be hard to send her back not knowing if she would be safe and feel comfortable. I would continue to push with the school to do something so an issue like this doesnā€™t happen to your daughter or another little one.

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Absolutely hire an attorney.

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Start by filing a police report.

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I hope this all gets taken care of! Iā€™m sorry that happened to your little one. My heart is broken for her. I wouldnā€™t know what to do in this situation. Praying for you allā€¦

Press charges on the family!! Thatā€™s not cool at all!