Can I get advice pleaseā¦
My fianceĢ and I have a son together . Heās the best man and I love him so much . The only issue is that when he doesnāt smoke(bud) he will act different towards me . He will act rude and mean . He wonāt call me names but he will get mad at me or change his attitude for nothing . It hurts a lot because I can literally ask him a question and he will respond to me so mean . Or if I ask what he wants to eat he will give me an attitude . Iāll ask him why heās so mean to me and he just ignores me. It hurts because we said we would work on his anger when he doesnāt smokeā¦ yet I feel like nothing is changing . Its been over a year since we agreed that I would help him with his actions when he isnāt smoking . Nothing is changing and he will literally get mad for not being able to buy some when he knows we got bills to pay . We will get married around September but idk ā¦ the way he acts towards me when not smoking really does hurtā¦ advice on what to do please ? I try not to be so sensitive but I have no one else to talk to about it . I do love him a lot but it hurts to have someone be mean every time they donāt smoke
I am so sorry. Sounds like he is dependent on pot and that is something he needs to change on his own. He canāt change for you. Maybe you need to take a break? 
I am sorry love, you deserve so much more than this