AITA for asking my friend not to bring her older kids to the birthday party?

My neighbor had a bday party for her kids and some annooying older kids came with their siblings and were playing on the bounce house…they were just so big…and while they werent really being mean I felt like we had to fear for our little kids on the bounce house…plus arent 10/12 year olds too old for bounce houses at parties? My issue is I am wanting to invite my neighbor to my kids party but i do not want her to bring her older kids so they cannot hurt mine on the bounce house…how can I let her know this? without being rude