Hi, so my question is this. Would I be wrong to not want my boyfriends sister to visit the hospital when our baby is born? While I have been pregnant I was in the bathroom listening to music when she calls him to try and hook him up with her friend. She knows we’re together and pregnant and didn’t care. I was pissed. He told her no and that she was wrong but she refuses to apologize to me.
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If it was me I would have a little chit chat with her myself lol and no she wouldn’t be welcome
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NTA. I wouldn’t want her anywhere around me nor my baby. She’s gross.
She’s the AH! We would be having come to Jesus meeting… 
No! She’s not welcome…neither is anyone else YOU don’t want there!!! Nuff said…
Hell no she shouldn’t be allowed
Nope and let the maternity area know that’s she’s not welcome they won’t let her in!
No! NTA! Make sure the labor and delivery at the hospital and security know not to let her in.
What does your BF say? What does his parents say? Do they support you? Like you?
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NTA! I would make sure she knows she isn’t welcome and I’d also let your hospital/nurses know you don’t want her there when the time comes.
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You are not wrong. Ban her.
Why would ANYONE want someone who tried to sabotage their relationship ESPECIALLY in such a vulnerable moment?!? NTA!!!
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You don’t need negative people in your life right now.
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Absolutely not the a$$hole
She is she doesn’t deserve to be there
I definitely would not! Tell the nurses and doctor you don’t want her there. You only need to focus on labor and taking care of baby and yourself. It should not be a time for you to stress. Definitely make him aware.
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She doesn’t like you and flat out tell her she’s not invited
I would tell the nurses to not let her in and even tell him either he stands with you or you need to rethink the relationship.
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No, you’re not in the wrong!!
Tell the nurses too block everybody but the bf. This way you don’t even have to deal with her.
Why does she wants to be at the hospital? She can wait like the rest of the family to see the little one. 
You are not the AH! Tell her straight she is not welcome because you need the peace and quiet with your baby and adjusting to mother duties is not easy.
It’s your birth, you pick. This experience will take its toll on you…I banned anyone for 2 weeks whilst we adjusted and such with my 4th. Pics and video call were done when we were ready though but it was so good for us.
Please let the hospital know that u do not want her there…my ex MIL was NOT a part of my birth plan, she was supposed to leave when the action started and my mom was supposed to stay…well needless to say, my baby decided he was just going to wait a little longer before arriving and my mom went to go meet my dad at the underground parking in the hospital to bring him up to the room to see me. However, baby boy decided at that moment that he no longer wanted to wait and the action began again. At this point, because of the confusion and the amount of pain I was in with contractions, my MIL snuck to the back of the room and stood quietly until they closed the delivery room door…BAM, once that door is closed, there is no coming in or out for anyone. My mom was locked out (she arrived back literally less than 2 mins after they closed the door) and that witch of a woman was now present for the birth of my baby. She knew very well that I did not want her in the room during the birth and she did that in spite. I will never forget that, I will never forgive that, and I am forever angry with myself for not telling the nurses that were there on the day that she was not a part of my birth plan. I wish I had have told then and they could have removed her from the room without me even having to stress about it…PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell ur nurses/doctors/OB/ anyone that will listen/ppl u want there on that day, WHO you want present in the room with you.
NTA. Your birth, your baby, you can have whoever you want there. My husband kicked his own mother out because he felt she was stressing me out and his exact words were, “Mom, I love you more than you will ever imagine; however, I am a husband and dad first and a son second and right now, as a husband, I am asking you to come back after the baby is born because you are stressing my wife out.” there’s nothing wrong with being honest and if your boyfriend doesn’t stand up for you- then tell him to grow a pair.