I met this girl in a mom group like 6 months ago… she sent me a ss that my baby daddy tried adding her and sent her a message… she said she was going to decline it but I can’t help but feel she’s going to screw me over… would I be totally wrong to text her from a fake number claiming to be him? I’ve been burnt a lot and I’m scared it’s going to happen again…
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It’s not wrong, just do what you feel is right. Find out if she’s being fake, why not!
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I don’t think so I had a “friend” who tried to get with my husband, then when I cut her off she will randomly write me saying my husband is trying to get at her… she doesn’t know we are very honest and I have complete access to his phone, so I just ignore her. However it sounds like you should be more worried about your partner if he really sent her a friend request, I’d be more worried HE’S going to burn you; with or without her….
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It’s obvious yr gut feeling is telling you something isn’t right and most of the time yr gut feeling is right !! Yeah do it to put yr mind at peace!! Good luck with it all !!
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Seems like you’re focusing your insecurities in the wrong direction…
Your bd tried to add her…and she was honest with you
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Yes, it would be wrong and creepy. Just because you’ve been burned and you’re paranoid, doesnt mean that itsa good way to start off a friendship by lying and deceiving her when she was trying to give you a heads up.
She’s not your “friend” if you’re just social media friends. So unfortunately the only one who owes you loyalty is your bd. And if you feel like he’s gonna lie then get rid of him too🤷🏻♀️
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If you think your man is playing away; you should be talking to him
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Maybe you should talk to him…did she send you screenshots?
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