My mother messaged me this morning with “just saying, but I hope you got (Fred) made up name a Valentine’s gift/card.” She was referring to my husband of almost 16 years. Why is she concerning herself with my relationship on Valentine’s Day? This is just one circumstance of her nosing around in my life. Am I being petty in letting this annoy me or would you find it intrusive as well? By the way, I’m 44 years old! Thank you for listening and being honest with your responses.