So my SO lost one of his friends last weekend and he left home to be with his friend’s family as soon as he found out and he ended up not coming back he was gone the whole week except once to shower and change clothes.(said he was coming to shower and spend time with us but left immediately after he showered) Mind you I was supportive the whole time didn’t complain once the first night I asked if he was coming back home and he replied “sorry there’s so many “roadblocks” and I’ve been drinking so I’m just going to crash tonight and I’ll be back” never showed up the next day or the next. Still being understanding I understand he’s going through something I told him I didn’t want to seem selfish but he kind of left me hanging with 3 kids aging from 2 to 7. He took the car which is our only means of transportation kids missed an entire week of school and I’ve lost my job behind this. Not to mention we were stuck in the house running low on food and no way to wash clothes(just moved into new apartment no washer and dryer yet). So 6 days later he’s home after I texted him last night and told him I’d lose my job if I didn’t make it to work the next morning he shows up at 3:00PM. He acts as if he’s hiding something says he doesn’t want to be here at home but wants to go out and do something with me and the kids. I tell him I have no clean clothes no clean towels to shower and go anywhere. So he gets frustrated and asks what he did wrong insists he’s done nothing wrong and states again that he doesn’t want to be at home and I say well do you think I wanted to be stuck at home for an entire week with nothing and he tells me that I’m acting like an ass and that I was being supportive the entire time so why do I have a problem with it now basically guilt tripping me because he knows I had no choice but to be supportive because someone lost their life. I feel like he could have went and visited them whenever he felt like it but he stayed and slept Ed there for a week went out and spent 100s on liquor and I forgot to mention we were late on rent this month.