Am I overreacting to my little brother removing me from Apple music?

I love Spotify. It’s free unless you pay for the upgrade. Let it roll off and let him know your trust in him is gone. Next time y’all are in an agreement be sure to discuss changes in future. It’s called respect. God bless.

I’d remove him from Netflix. Fairs fair.

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Be petty change any passwords to any accounts he has access to and tell him when he adds you back you will give information :woman_shrugging:t2: some of y’all never grew up with siblings and it shows :joy: 17 or not go low sis ruin his streaming not your mascara

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If he broke the deal pull him from the Netflix account and explain that you are extremely upset about the apple music deal break.

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A deal is a deal, no matter your ages. If he removed you from apple music, remove him from the Netflix. :woman_shrugging:

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I’d tell him ok that’s fine but he won’t be allowed on your Netflix anymore cause that was your deal. And next time you would appreciate him telling you first.

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Change your details for Netflix. He’s 17, young, dumb and full of c*m. Don’t take it too heart, he’s following the direction of his little head, lmao. That is all!!!

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Yes tell him to put u back on.

Um he is 17 yrs. I was not going to fuss. I was just going to remove him a not say a word just to be petty.

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He could have told you but it’s not that big of a deal you over reacted but that’s ok your allowed to feel however you want to feel either ask him to pay half of Netflix or kick him off but I would still tell him to show him that’s the right thing to do

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A deal is a deal. He broke his end so you just remove him from Netflix. Change your information and don’t give it to him.

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He’s got a girlfriend now. The apple music is only the beginning. Just u wait. More to come

You had every right to be upset. But don’t let it come between you . You love each other to much.

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Change your Netflix password to KarmaBitch and tell him he has to figure out the new password

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Take him off Netflix :woman_shrugging:t2:

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Yes an over reaction and calling another person such as sister to Complain is also triangulation and child ish.
It sounds like you feel he owes you this the way you explained you are his mom and dad rather than just sticking to the facts about the accounts

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I don’t see the big deal, it’s not like it’s too expensive for you to pay yourself
Just tell him he has to get on his girlfriends Netflix account

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Remove him from Netflix :woman_shrugging:

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Easy enough to log out anyone logged into your account and change the password.
I don’t understand why you cried. You can easily sign up yourself for Apple music.

You’re 27, he’s 17. You’re really not saving anything, if you’re both paying for one. :woman_shrugging:t2::rofl:

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Just take him off Netflix… boom

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I would let him know you’re not mad but your feelings were hurt

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You sure your 27 sound more like a petty 10 year old get over it ffs

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I too think this is a bit of a overreaction but some of you guys are being so cold. Show compassion and be kinder.

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You guys had an agreement and he broke that for a girlfriend. I would be hurt too. Everyone is talking about how it’s cheap but it doesn’t matter it’s what he did

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Just start putting out again and you might go back to girlfriend privileges

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I think crying is an over reaction but it’s fair to be hurt. Just change the Netflix password and be done with it.

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Just remove him from Netflix and get over it

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No that was low of your brother.

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Remove him from your Netflix account

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those of you mentioning the money- i think she is more worried about the principle of the situation…

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The principal of it all he removed you for the girlfriend so you do the same and say oh sorry thought you were going to do your own thing and I was doing mine ? No hard feelings?

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Remove him from Netflix a deal is a deal

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Let us know what you did.

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He is 17. Still a kid. Kids do stupid, insensitive stuff sometimes. I can understand her being hurt but he’s a 17 year old trying to impress his new girlfriend. A little bit of perspective is required I think

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He should had inform you. I agree with you.

Your feelings got hurt because he removed you from his apple music account :joy::joy:
your lucky you and brother are not crossing the borders into Poland imagine how many people’s feelings have been hurt over there yet yours got hurt over a music account Fccuk Up

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No Netflix and chill for him. Change the PW.

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There was a agreement. I’d talk to him and say well I’m lowering my account now. And take him off.
My brother n I have the same agreement. I do Spotify and he does Netflix.
Then a friend uses my Spotify and I use her disneyplus.

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Girl just go talk to him dang lol :joy::sweat_smile:

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Go get a boyfriend and delete him then add your new man :joy::clap:t4:

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Some of y’all are so heartless and cold :cold_face:

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He’s 17.
17 year olds do silly, thoughtless ish sometimes, especially for a girl or a boy.
He should’ve spoke you about it, and you have every reason to be taken aback a little. But overall, I wouldn’t take it too personally and I wouldn’t change the Netflix acct pw, like some suggested.
That’s juvenile imo.
Talk to him, tell him how you feel. But I wouldn’t be mad or take it to heart. Xo

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Talk it over with him, but don’t yell at him. He wasn’t thinking!

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Remove him from Netflix
Lol he’ll stop and think then
What happens when they brake up

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I don’t think you’re over reacting. You have a right to feel hurt. But remember he’s 17 and he’s treating you like a 17 year old does their parents. You basically cared for him, so your gonna get his teenage responses. Hang in there.

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Just change your Netflix account

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I’d just change the Netflix password :joy:

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You’re and adult he’s a child get over it and move on.

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He’s a teenager and you’re almost 30. Right now in his mind, he wants to do everything for his girlfriend so he’s doing it for her to impress her and let her have that apple music hook up. If there’s any advice I can give you its this. Be happy he’s being nice to his girlfriend. Love your brother and let this petty stuff go. I am 34, my brother is 36. He recently died. And I’d give anything for him to be here doing stupid crap like that to tick me off. My biggest regret in life is letting these kind of small things come between us and waste time, rather than using it to be close.

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I’m sure it will all work out when me and my sister fight I change all the passwords on my streaming accounts :joy::joy: but I always make up with her and give her the back. People do stupid shit and people are dumb when they Are 17 and get in relationships. Just talk to him and ask him what’s up and tell him if isn’t gonna let you be on his account you aren’t gonna let him be on yours or just be the bigger person and let him stay on yours and then get your own apple account. But I’m sure it will eventually work out

Change the Netflix password if it’s bugging you

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He’s acting like a 17yr old male. Educate him.

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You’re a adult, you didn’t need to cry over it you just needed to go and ask him why he had removed you from the Apple Music and put his girlfriend instead? It was wrong of him to do that but you do have to put your foot down, especially when you both had a deal.

Unless you are your brothers legal guardian since he was a baby because your parents were working a lot you haven’t taken over from your parents that’s a huge kick in the guts to your parents when they where most likely working there butts off to provide for you and your brother.

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A bigger age difference between you and your brother but we (my 2 older brothers and I) were latch key kids. We had to rely on each other. I made sure my kids wouldn’t go through that but my eldest son got into a bad crowd at about 15, started smoking weed. (didn’t know initially) but became aggressive and argumentative. After one argument he went to live with my parents in their sleep out. What I didn’t know was he took my I-Pad with him and then sold it for weed. I won this! Raising 5 kids I could not afford one. He knows better and he tries to excuse his actions now. I know that boys brains go off a bit in teen years but I think we need to stop using this as an excuse for bad behaviour. Not when it comes to bigger issues. They know better! at 17 he should of been able to have a conversation about the issue especially since this lady acted as his Mum. I too would be hurt but a conversation needs to happen without the GF. Maybe you will get a bad reaction because boys that age tend to do but it will stick in his mind for later.

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Simply do the same to him
Problem solved

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It was rude, but he’s a teenager. This is the point where he learns the consequences of rude and selfish behavior. If the deal is violated, change your Netflix password and let it go. Seventeen is a very hormonal time for everyone. They are not making the most logical decisions right now.

Sounds like you may be a 27 year old "trapped " inside the mind and body of a 17 year old little boy…

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Simple remove him from Netflix and you both pay for your own shit. Get over it he is your Brother and family is more important do not sweat the small shit

Apply for disability if you’re almost 30 year old IQ self …is asking advice on “like” what should I do…“like”…I raised him…“like” I taught him how to pour milk in his cereal…“like” I still wiped his ass after every shit till he was…like…11…like… why would he do that?.. why would he take me off his apple account…like…WTF

This is just completely stupid.

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I would be upset too. That was very mean of him.

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He’s a 17 year old boy all he cares about right now is his gf if it’s bothering you that much change the Netflix password and don’t tell him

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Lol i have 4 younger brothers 10, 15,27 &27 . Two half brothers , one step brother and one from the same parents. My and the eldest two used to go at it alot, I’d say give him the same medicine he’s not a baby :rofl: take him off the Netflix and when he asks about it say “Oh we still splitting , i didn’t realize that when apple music was changed :shushing_face::saluting_face:” . Lol me and my brothers go at it all the time even at my age. When a 17yr old realizes he don’t have anymore tv shows on Netflix and realizes the costs for that and apple music he just might change hi tune. :joy: Don’t get to upset over it though he’s still young you just have to put your foot down since he wants to pay for him and his gir then let him pay for his and his girls Netflix too

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This is petty. You’re 27. Pay for your own stuff.

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It sounds like he might not understand how much it meant to you. Or how much he means to you - b/c you helped raise him. Talk to him about it and go from there.

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Are you sure you’re not 12? Cause you’re acting like it

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Delete him off Netflix bam done Apple Music is worth the monthly payment though just saying

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Remove him from Netflix and see if your over reacting when him and his girlfriend cuddle up for a movie night lol

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I think you have a right to be upset. It’s an agreement with you both. I’d definitely change my Netflix password and not give it to him. Use Pandora

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I would be upset too

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Tell him or remove him from Netflix :woman_shrugging:

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Jeeze. Dick move for sure, but he’s a 17 year old boy, trying to impress his girlfriend :woman_shrugging:t3: get a partner & remove him from your Netflix!

If he removed you it would be fair to remove him

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He’s a kid, you’re a grown adult.
Purchase your own, and if it’s a huge issue for you, then change your Netflix.
I wouldn’t, but that’s just me.
My sister is 22, I’m 30. I have a family and she’s in college. We share some 1 thing each but I wouldn’t be upset if she changed me off of something… not enough to cut her off mine.

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Not everyone is going to be caring like you are kick him off Netflix and don’t be so giving to everyone. Save it until they prove they’re worthy of your time and effort and care

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You’re brother is a “kid” but it doesn’t meant you should let this go. You were always thinking of him and he clearly doesn’t care about your feelings. So I wouldn’t be mean to him but I would take note of his character and how he treated you when you know you would never treat him like that. Don’t be in a position with him to make you feel this way again. Pay attention to how others make you feel. People probably know you’re kind and giving and they will take advantage of that. Protect yourself it’s all you truly have

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Yall say this sounds petty and stupid but they had an agreement he went back on the agreement for a piece of pussy. Quite frankly I’d be just as petty change the netflix password

A lot of people are going “you’re 27 grow up, he’s 17 he’s basically a toddler” 17 year olds know what they’re doing and know what emotions are he’s decided that getting laid is more important than a deal he made with his sister

I’ve seen it multiple times before where parents have a kid then a bit later down the line have another then both get wrapped up in their careers and rely on the eldest child to raise the youngest, she’s probably lost a lot of her childhood and teen years looking after her brother and then the second he has a chance at getting laid he’s thrown all of that back in her face

I’d change the Netflix password without telling him, if he brings it up tell him if he doesn’t then lower your plan and tell him you had to go with the lower plan to pay for your own Apple music

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As an adult, talk to him. He is almost an adult and it’s time to let him know this isn’t how we treat people.
Common courtesy (even with family) and communication go a long way.
Remind him that you both had an agreement and he should have talked with you about his decision.

Now that you have shared that with him, in the same conversation let him know that it bothered and hurt you. He might see you as his “sister” but you see him more of a “brother/child”. Your “parental” feelings are hurt, and that’s ok to share that with him too.

Now after that conversation is done and over with, tell him you love him and let him know your down grading to a 1 person Netflix.
He might care or not, but he can either get his own, or not.

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Overreacting for sure lol

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Just talk to him about it? Good lord :woman_facepalming::woman_facepalming::woman_facepalming:

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you are right, go change Netflix and let him see how it feels, so I changed my mind, the girlfriend can pay for netflix

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First find out if he did it or his girlfriend got into his account and did it. If he did it tell him to cough up the $8 a month if not change your password.

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Time for lessons learned here. All hurt feelings aside which I fully understand… time to let him go on his own… take him off all your accounts and let him stand on his own feet. If not you will always be picking him up…

Well
Have a convo with him. Remind him of the agreed upon deal. If he does not want to hold his end of the deal up ,remove him off of Netflix

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Remove him from the Netflix.

Well I would remove him from Netflix!

Just change your netflix password and get your own apple music account.

If the deal was you Netflix him Apple. Yes he should have told you. And take him off your Netflix

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How do you know it wasn’t an accident? You can family share with more than one person. I know because I do it. I share with 4. Maybe it was accidental and you are overreacting for nothing. The best way to find out, ask him. Communication is the best answer.

Is this even a question? Build yourself a bridge & get over it, it’s not that serious of a problem for you to even make it go live on fb & post a question about it! :confounded::no_good_woman:t4: just go confront him & see what’s going on! Facebook driving people crazy nowadays! :tired_face::tired_face: Banin

You’re 27…change your Netflix password and pay for your own apple music