Young one, sounds like baby brother has grown up alittle. 
“he’s in love” sweetie- I know it hurts - just like a Momma - when her babies grow up- I know - I am the oldest of 10 - 20 years between me and my baby brother. Just know he still loves you very much - and this is a good pain - your gonna be a great Momma. Why don’t your sister and you share now. Don’t take away his Netflix- girlfriends come and go - but “big sis gots your back”
I could see how this is very hurtful. At 17, especially boys they don’t always think straight and have their priorities in order. Have a sit down with him just the two of you on neutral ground. Explain to him why this was so hurtful, as you said you’ve been taking care of him since he was a child so this is another lesson you can help teach him
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Umm. No offense but your almost 30. At some point you gotta pay your own way. I know you all had a thing going. But he’s 17. 
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Your brother was WRONG & RUDE!
I’d just kick him off Netflix and let him learn lol it’s okay to be upset!!
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I wouldn’t cry, just ask him what’s up… lol & be a savage , take him off Netflix like he did you. 
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kick him off of netflix until he puts you back on the music plan. I would be upset too
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This is a mom group!
Those are not real problems girl. You are a grown up now…
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Kids are 
’s and don’t think about our feelings! My kid and younger siblings are the same way! Rude
Well, you both had an agreement if he’s not living up to his end – just remove him from Netflix and keep it moving.
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Block him from Netflix and call it a day ? 
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Just take him off the Netflix. He is a 17 year old boy with a gf, not necessarily using his best thinking brain rn. Don’t take it personally. 
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But apple music family can have a total of 6 people…
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You are allowed to feel how you feel.
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Remove him from Netflix
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I hope you changed your netflix password and signed out all devices going to 1 person Netflix you can now afford apple music
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He did you dirty
Change your Netflix account too see how he likes it
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All this over apple music? sorry but you sound like the 17 year old
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You are not over reacting, he lied to you. Tell him yall had an agreement, he changed that, so now you do the same. I think its time yall both had your own account. Things like this are bound to happen, he is becoming a young adult. I know it hurts since yall have been so close, but really just do your thing and tell him to do his and yall each pay your own accounts. Problem solved.
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It’s 2022. Stop paying for music.
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I would just take him off Netflix then💁🏻♀️
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Grow up please boo hoo 
music
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An agreement is an agreement and he isn’t holding up his end and 100% rude for not having a conversation with you prior to making the changes of removing you. Call him out on it in a calm, manner of fact way and decide if the consequence is that you will remove him from Netflix or he has to pay for his own access or share that expense with you. Making a change isn’t the actual problem, is HOW he went about it. IMHO.
If it was my brother I would say something. I was also responsible for my brother financially and motherly. I wouldn’t make it such a huge deal but I would mention it. I would probably playfully say “woooooooww so now you got a GF & you just cut me off?! No more Apple Music for me huh?! Lol well good luck trying to “Netflix & chill” with her lol” and then just change my Netflix password.
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I’d change my Netflix information but im petty like that
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Girlfriends can just get. A boyfriend to just about anything even if it is wrong
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Take him off Netflix. Nothing to cry about, hun. He’s a kid, you’re an adult.
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No judgement , remove him off your account , he’s chosen girlfriend over family, don’t tell him, let him figure it out,you my dear should move on and live your life
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Messed up for sure. Take him off your Netflix, change it, deny him access.
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I seriously don’t think it was for Apple Music she was sad about. It’s about the fact he broke the deal they had, y’all probably didn’t have the bond with their siblings that’s why y’all judging . I’m pretty sure she can afford the Apple bill but you guys are serious ppl that have no love in y’all heart! Talking about she’s almost 30 and stop crying about it 
reading all this comments makes my heart hurt because in the times that we live on now it’s crazy and ppl instead of being supportive and be nice there’s ppl here that are seriously with some real issues !!!
I read another comment where someone said “ was this seriously approved”
And another one where it said “ this a mom group” like really!! I’m sure she’s a mother too. And I’m pretty sure that’s why she liked this page .
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Some people are so mean. I dont think it’s about being taken off of the apple music as much as it is that he’s not communicating about something. Your feelings are valid. But, if he can’t hold up his end of a deal, you should take him off of your accounts.
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I can tell you right now your friends and family will. For the most part will always change up on you. When they get into relationships or gain new friends. I don’t think you’re overreacting what I do think. Is you need to use the same energy politely take him off your Netflix account and go about you’re merrily way.
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For Apple Music can’t you have up to like 5 people on a family plan? Let him know your not on it and he can have up to 5 people on a family plan
Things will probably happen now won’t they? Don’t let it spoil your lovely relationship, but don’t let him walk all over you either. 
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Crying was a bit much to me. Just take him off Netflix
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He messed up, I would remove him from the Netflix and change the account info
Don’t get mad. Just remove him from Netflix.
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Childish…but change Netflix password since he kicked u off Apple and both were supposed to be 50/50. You both start paying your own bills for whatever you want. Like a wise uncle once told me…Never mix business with friends or family. Money should never be involved between these.
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You are 27 and got upset with a 17 year old over apple music, that should answer your question 
also you can have like 6 members on it just tell him to add you back in
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Take him off ur netflix
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Nope. Remove him from Netflix!
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Yes. I definitely think you are overreacting. He is 17. His priorities are keeping himself happy, which in turn, means keeping his GF happy. Again, he is 17. Also, babysitting your siblings does not equate to taking over your parents job. They work to provide for you and your siblings. Sometimes there is no other choice but to rely on the older children to look after the younger ones. It’s not like they were out partying. If you’re that upset about it, change the Netflix password without telling him.
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I’d sign everyone out of the Netflix and change the password and not give it to him but I’m petty that way 
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He should of told you. I’m so sorry he did that to you.
Just remember what it was like being 17. You really don’t think about others feelings and the most important person in your life is your boyfriend or girlfriend. I am not excusing his behavior and you have every right to feel hurt. It may be easier to forgive him if you consider what I said.
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You are literally asking for opinions. Pretty much that is a judgement. Also, you are almost 30 years old.
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He’s 17…youre damn near 30, get over it. Everyone is young, dumb and in love at that age.
I would feel the same
Honestly, this is such a first world problem lol. Just take him off your Netflix account and don’t say anything.
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Kick him off Netflix.
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Sounds like a question for Ann Landers
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I mean your feelings are valid and no one can tell you how to feel. However he’s a kid and you can expect him to take care himself and his current significant others.
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No he should have told you. He didnt man up so talk with him ket him know she should have told you and your hurt that he didn’t. That is what your upset about not really the fact that he removed you. Talk with him about it.
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The problem with society these days
Take him off your Netflix.
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It’s messed up that he didn’t tell u. So to be fair, remove him from ur Netflix, he’ll get the point 
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Kick him off your Netflix now
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He should’ve at least told you . Take him off your Netflix
You have every right to be mad but I think crying about it is going a little too far. Change your password and take him off netflix. They have free music apps you can use instead but he will have to pay for something like netflix. So he really screwed himself. I don’t even need a Netflix account because my bf has one but I keep paying for it because my sister and nephew use it. Some people just don’t give a shit. Sorry
I’d take him off of Netflix. You have a right to feel hurt.
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Take him off Netflix
How about,not talking to anyone but your brother! Let HIM knowhow you feel. Maybe this is just an oversight…but don’t jump to any rash decisions until you speak to your brother.
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Feelings are just that. Feelings. We can’t control how we feel. That being said he is a dumbager. Take him off your Netflix and let him learn how to be a man. It’s very important that guys start learning to be men at an early age in this world or else this world will eat them up.
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Yes you’re overreacting hun just remove him from your Netflix, change the password and call it a day.
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Well he’s 17. He’s not an adult and he will absolutely choose girlfriends over a sibling right now lol
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I would have my feelings hurt too because that wasn’t the agreement. Remove him from Netflix and remember it next time 
I wouldn’t start an argument over it or anything though
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He should have told you…
You do realize that he is a 17 year old CHILD, right?
You crying and telling your little sister on him sounds childish too, tbh. It’s ok for your feelings to be hurt. But to be this upset about an adolescent acting like a hormonal adolescent is silly.
TELL him he hurt your feelings, and that Adults do the responsible thing and discuss making changes in existing agreements BEFORE making them.
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Yes just a little… remove him from Netflix and get u a Apple Music subscription
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If the agreement was you pay Netflix and he pays Apple music and you split it then take him off the Netflix because he’s not keeping with the agreement.
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You are 27??!! Pay your own bills!!
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You kind of come across as the 17 year old
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You’re 27 kick him off your Netflix and grow up
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Although slightly trivial, I think the principal of the matter stands. I think I’d be upset too
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A person is a only as good as their word. He’s a young man, that’s an important lesson. Take him off Netflix, and if he asks why, teach him that lesson.
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Lol this made me laugh my children are 27 & 20 and this is such a them thing. Smh lil bro removes u cuz he’s 17 and trying to impress or whatever u wanna call it his girlfriend and pry ddnt wanna pay more by just adding her so he removed u. Lol Now as big sis u got 2 options 1 u teach lil bro a lesson and remove him from your Netflix and let the arguing commence or 2 you give him a piece of your mind with lots of big sis attitude reminding him that when the girl is gone his sis is still here and u deserved a heads up. then move on after all your the ADULT here., So it’s really all about the route u wanna take and the Big Sis lesson you wanna teach. My daughter said as big sis in this family she would have done option one and two just to make sure he understood the lesson LOL
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No he needs to pay you for netflix. No pa y take him off.
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He’s a kid yeah he should have told you before he did it but take him off your Netflix and move on . I’d totally be upset at first too but just realize he is a kid.
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Yes you are overreacting. Grow up your 27! Just remove him from Netflix.
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So you admitting to password /account sharing ? Hmmm
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I would be hurt a little just because he didn’t say anything and even if he said it I would still be hurt a little just because he would choose a girl instead of his own sister but I will move on.
I would just just ask him why I can’t get in and hear his explanation but honestly if it was me I wouldn’t change anything. I would not cut him out of Netflix or anything else because he still my brother.
Take him off your Netflix account and move on its nothing to cry over oh and don’t tell him you taking him off either just do it so when he gets on to watch shows he’s been watching he can’t got em
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take him off netflix and let him start paying his own way
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Remove him from Netflix, that easy…
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You change the Netflix password
He’s a child. Children are selfish sometimes. Just remove him off Netflix he can’t be chilling if he has no Netflix. You gotta hit him where it hurts lol
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No body can hurt you like family. Do your own thing
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You can get a family account. I have like 6 people on my Apple Music
I think u had every right to be upset I’d talk to him and ask him why he did that just clear it up
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Talk about 1st world problems 
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Girl Apple Music is only 9.99 grow up.
But also be petty and remove him from Netflix
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This is why I love android. Paying for music pft
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Umm a deal is a deal no Apple Music for you and no Netflix for him simple….
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You are 27 years old ma’am
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Talk to him hun. Sorry prayers
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I dont think i would of gotten that upset but i would take him off your netflix and him and his gf can figure it out.
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Sibling rivalry at its finest
Idk kick him off netflix or you can just get your own apple music lool hes 17 and trying to do something sweet for his gf but is a child so this is something he can share with her. I see both sides but its not like a huge deal dont be upset lool .
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I think you put a 2 in front of your correct age, hon
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He did you dirty. Cut him off the Netflix account without notice then when he asks why explain it to him. Some people will turn traitor over a piece. Damn shame to