My boyfriend has a car in HIS name only and is behind on payments. He job hops and moves jobs allot, last week was my last check from my job and instead of paying for my pregnancy doctor and buying our 7m stuff he could use (more clothes) i paid 462 to his car to keep it because i need it. Now a week later they wont accept 80$ which is what he has cause his check was only 103$
Hes wanting to sell my stuff to pay for his car and i said no. I dont get out or have any friends. I dont play my xbox allot (but i still play it) so i got a switch since im more mobile with it and can play more. I dont think im selfish at all.
He likes to hold the car use over my head as well and not let me use it when we fight or i say or do something he doesnt like. So i refuse to pay for a car i cant use. I have my sons appointment to save for next month, his next round of shots, and i have to find a way to see a doctor since finding out im 5months along with our daughter. I cant help him, i already have and now im struggling to find a way to pay for everything because i cant depend on him
What do yall think? Am i selfish? Idk what to do, im so stressed and worried about this pregnancy because the stress he gives me