Back story. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 7 year. We have a toddler together and another on the way. And he is constantly complaining that I nag on him and he can’t stand me, and has left probably 10 times over the years but I always let him come back. I try and talk things out with him and he always tells me to get away and I always do, but I feel hurt and betrayed he won’t talk to me and actually try and fix things. He yells and isn’t physically aggressive but is mentally and emotionally draining. I feel like he is sucking the life out of me and my kids. I work, and am the only caring for our child, and the house and our daily lives, and he DOES NOTHING. And I am always the bad guy. I just feel like I am at a loss. Do I keep trying? Am I the problem? Am I nagging him to much to help me? It doesn’t help that my parents are always having to save the day when he vanishes, and his parents think im the devil. What do I do?
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Am I the problem like my boyfriend says, or I am manipulated and treated like crap by a narcissist
emotional abused is still abuse… Even though it’s not physical. We can all tell you to get out. But youuu are the one who has to be strong enough to do it. I assume the getting out may be really difficult for you since you’ve accepted him back multiple times and your history plus your kids… It’s a difficult decision/situation. But i mean if you yourself want to be happy and not be so drained then do it. Get out… Its on you… Wish you the best 
Don’t let him come back. He’s no good for you or your kids.