You sound like a fucking asshole and like you don’t deserve anyone to send you anything
Holy crap! I can only hope someone reads this and KNOWS who you are and let’s all your “friends” know what an ungrateful bitch you are! You don’t deserve anything, especially the friends who waisted their hard earned money and time on your ass!
Entitled much? be thankful in all things
Sounds like you are extremely selfish and ungrateful and dont deserve a single thing. Wow. You should be thankful for any gift you recieve. Someone soent their hard earned money on your child…that you chose to create!
I was always thankful for anything that was given to me when I had my daughters. Not everyone is made out of money. Plus I will look at the registry first but it seems like you can find stuff way cheaper than what the parents are looking for which is just the same thing with a different name brand
I think you’re rude as rude could be. Be thankful for what you get because those people dont have to give you a damn thing for the baby you are having.
Completely rude and wrong!
Don’t take this the wrong way but sometimes it’s best just to get the stuff you need. To me baby showers are to be together as family. And the gifts are extra
You’re so wrong. Sometimes you may think you need certain things and you really didn’t need them. Sometimes the suggestions/gifts people give that are not from your registry are better because they’re experienced parents or because the shit you put on your registry might not be practical.
Omg be grateful! Smdh
The fact that you are demanding a crib mattress instead of onsies and demanding you pick what gifts you recieve says it all. Momzilla!
You sound like an entitled brat
Glad I’m not your friend and won’t be attending to the baby shower. Your super ungrateful
I hope your child doesn’t follow your high maintenance arse, the purpose of having a child is to create a loving family, not scrounge off people around you.
Sometimes people buy what they can afford. The expensive stuff should be bought by you. You’re extremely ungrateful
Yes, you’re wrong. Nobody has to buy anything for YOUR baby. You should be thankful for anything you receive.
Id feel ashamed and embarrassed if I were you
You posted this in two groups. Did you think the answers would get better?
I personally think it’s utterly cheeky to say you want set things. Why should other people buy those things? You chose to have a baby so you should buy those things if you’re so set on having them and not expect guests to Maybe you buy the things you somehow feel entitled to be gifted and just be grateful for any gifts you do get
You are very ungrateful be happy for what u receive. Nobody has to give u anything.
Lol, first time mommas really should be thankful for anything they get to help out. Also, learn from the experienced moms. I buy what I know you will need.
2 different mommy page same post???
You get what you get and you don’t throw a fit. No one HAS to get you ANYTHING. Be grateful for anything you do get.
If you feel that way, skip the shower and buy your own stuff. A registry is a suggestion. You hope eveyone follows, but some don’t.
u need to grow up
Rude and wrong! A baby shower is to celebrate the baby NOT save you money! You sound beyond ungrateful. Sometimes you dont know you need or want certin things untill you try them. Also a onsie is a onsie… be thankful people are buying stuff for your baby. You need a reality check!
You sound like a spoiled brat. Be grateful that people do anything for you and your baby. If you’re that damned picky,buy your own stuff.
I had a registry and hadn’t given it to anyone yet (I was about 4-5m pregnant) hubby got a surprised babyshower at his job. I was grateful for everything they gave us eventhough they didn’t really know me. So yeah you’re rude.
Hopefully someone buys you a new attitude. Perfect gift for this baby shower, because it’s needed before baby arrives.
Yes you are wrong for 2 reason.
1.) ITS YOU JOB AS A PARENT TO PROVIDE FOR YOUR CHILD(REN). They do not have to buy you anything at all be grateful for what you have recieved.
2.) You were able to have a baby shower, do you have any idea how many people couldn’t and would love to be in your position right now? Be thankful for what you have and stop feeling like you deserved more.
You are terribly ungrateful. There are some mothers out there who don’t even get a baby shower or have people that care enough to get things for their baby. Be grateful.
My impression is that you are a very young mother-to-be. You do not realize that you are NOT entitled to get everything and anything you want, but you believe you are! So that being said, YES you are wrong!! Time will make you realize that you need to be grateful for everything you have. Good luck with the birth of your child. Praying you have a healthy & happy baby.
If you want specific stuff, buy it yourself. I always took registries as a guide not a mandate. Just be happy people care enough about you and your baby to buy you anything. You sound ungrateful.
The registry is a suggestion not to save you money, you choose to have a baby that’s an 18 year investment and your responsibility to provide what the child needs. To even act that way is rude and disrespectful to the people attending your baby shower they didn’t have to spend their money at all!
You should just be thankful folks came to.celebrate with you. Its so.wrong to.expevt anything except good company …
No one needs to buy for your child but you… you got pregnant not them it’s your child not theirs… a baby shower is for family and friends to shower you and baby with gifts because they love you… it’s not a given! Be grateful your getting a baby that maybe 1 out of every baby shower cant have… total bullshit
Totally, because everybody’s intention when buying you a gift is to JUST help you save money for the child YOU created. Can’t possibly be because they want to be nice and contribute something that they do not have to. Ungrateful You want something specific, instead of complaining about it, go buy it yourself. And if you can’t just buy it yourself…then you have no right to complain about what somebody handed you. Honestly, unbelievable that you even asked this. There is such a thing as a stupid question.
Buy the shit yourself then… you sound SUPER ungrateful. Hormones maybe?
I think if people are generous enough to get you a gift you say thank you because they’ve gone to the effort and spent their money on your baby so I wonder why you haven’t learned about gratitude?
I think you shouldn’t be having a baby shower if you’re going to be that ungrateful…
Baby showers are a celebration of the baby. Not just a way for you to get free things and save the mother and father money on a child that they chose to have. No one told you to have a child, so no one has to provide you with anything to be honest. You sound very ungrateful.
I hope your child doesn’t grow up to be like you
Wow, thats wildly ungrateful, and rude.
You could always be, i dunno, grateful for anything.
Be grateful for anything you get. People didn’t have to get you anything.
Yeah wrong and ungrateful. The parents shouldn’t rely on others to get the big stuff at all. No mattress, no crib, no rocking chair etc big stuff is on the parents unless some specifically comes to you and says hey I’d like to take you to go pick out a “blank” and buy it. The clothes, diapers, wipes, the small stuff is for people to celebrate the baby. Gift registreys are more of a guide line. Be grateful for what others buy you and the baby. If you were smart you’d ask for diapers in all sizes, wipes, butt cream, and clothes anyway because baby’s grow so darn fast.
Sounds rude AF. Maybe they are experienced parents and want to get you stuff that they needed when they had their babies.
Your are in wrong and I hope you realize it before it’s too late
Ungrateful. Just buy your own stuff and stop sounding like an entitled selfish brat.
You’re very rude and ungrateful. Appreciate the gift that was purchased with someone else’s hard earned money. Wow glad I’m not attending your shower. Everyone cannot always afford what you personally want that’s to your apparently snobby and selfish taste . You should be embarrassed to even write this post
This the most ignorant shit I’ve read . Lucky anyone brings you anything. I didn’t even have a registry. And whatever I didn’t get at my shower I bought MYSELF. For my baby .
I think you should probably just be grateful that people spent their time and money buying a gift for your child. I’m a mom of 3, yes I look at the registry and usually buy an item or two that’s on it, but I also know what babies REALLY need and I get those items as well. For example, that baby can live without the designer crib set. It needs diapers, wipes and bottles.
Let’s get the point across everyone ANGR like this post too
Wow. You could always donate the things you didn’t need or want. Sometimes nothing great is left on the list, or only expensive things are left. I just went on a friends who is going to be a first time mom and she didn’t have much to choose from. I got a box of diapers and then added things that I had with my first that were great - I thought I’d pass my knowledge on to her and help her in the long run. Be grateful whatever is given to you.
Geez you sound like a rude spoiled entitled brat. Nobody should attend a baby shower for your ungrateful ass, go buy your own crap.
I had to cancel my baby shower a few months ago because of covid, count your blessings you witch.
I felt this way about certain items like the mattress and car seat but that’s why we bought them ourselves
Jebus princess, is there anything else you do in your spare time aside from practice entitlement ?
I am glad you are not my friend🤦🏻♀️
I would have got duct tape and put it on your mouth during your baby shower so that we can at least enjoy the shower
Maybe you should just asks for giftcards from various places if you are really that worried about getting things you think you won’t use or need.
Wow y’all comments are brutal but I’m proud of you all … I trolled thinking I would ready a bunch of yeah your right … but y’all were truthful bravo class
You sound like an entitled asshole. Honestly you don’t deserve anything. Buy your own shit if you are going to act like that.
#ungrateful #Spoiled
Your baby shower isn’t Burger King you can’t always have it your way… ungrateful ass.
Wow, entitled much? It’s a gift!
If this is the kind of person you are, I don’t think you have to worry about anyone coming to your shower anyhow.
so were you a bridezilla too? You should be grateful for anything that is given to you. People are nor OBLIGATED to give you anything. Nor should you be so selfish as to DEMAND that they give you certain things. You should be ashamed of yourself
You sound entitled as fuck dude. Read what you just wrote and self reflect. Buy YOUR BABY the stuff YOUR BABY needs. No one made you have that baby! A baby shower is a way people can celebrate new life and yes give you gifts but out of generosity and some people cant afford certain things that you specifically want even if they’re within reason! Be grateful for a gift anyone gets you! You don’t know how much they went out of their way to get it for you. humble yourself
I am not fortunate enough to have a baby shower like you but if I did I would be happy with whatever I get because anything helps. I set up a registry but I’m not forcing people to go on there and buy me things. My mom has helped with some stuff and I love everything she’s gotten me but whatever the baby actually needs, me and my hubby have bought with our own money. Also, you can never have too many onesies.
Just wow. Spoiled, entitled brat. Be grateful for what you do receive or don’t have a shower!
Wow!! Yes, babyshowers are meant to celebrate the baby, gifts are optional!!! very ungrateful. Some people wanna come and maybe cant afford your “taste”. Sounds like you shouldn’t have a shower and stop expecting things from others. So glad I dont know you!
Omg i pulled up the comments thinking that people were going to say its ok but im glad people agree with me, i actually didn’t have a registry because I figured the older generations that already had kids knows what I need and also even with bday invites I always tell parents please dont feel obligated to buy a gift, just your presence is enough and also with the onsies you will use every single one you get even though its not your style loo
You sound like a spoiled brat be grateful for having the friends to have a baby shower!
Spoilt much? The best thing for your baby is a parent who isn’t pampered and entitled
A crib mattress lol I wish my kids used their crib when they were born. I get the want of a registry. When you are changing that onesie at 3 AM because baby peanut decided to explode out their diaper for the 6th time today it won’t matter if it’s one on your registry or a hand me down. Have fun, enjoy what you get. Love that baby!
You should be grateful for anything you get
You should be grateful for whatever you receive. It might not be on your registry but I am certain it can be used.
I believe you should be thankful for any type of gift received… it’s not anyone’s job to provide anything for the child you are carrying, that’s your job.
It’s not wrong to want your own things. However, you should still be appreciative of what people buy you. Baby items are expensive and not everyone cant afford the car seat or the stroller you want. For my last baby shower my husband and I out money away for the items that we wanted and everything given to us was welcomed.
Buy what you want
NO BABY SHOWER
YOUR SELFISH SPOILED & HATEFUL UNGRATEFUL
HOPE YOUR BABY HEALTHY & YOU LEARN LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY
I can understand where you’re coming from because I was like this when I was younger and pregnant with my first I was very concerned about having to buy the stuff we needed because we weren’t well off financially and no one really bought off the registry at all maybe one person got one thing off the registry but we got by don’t waste time fretting about something that you have no control over. I think you’ll be surprised at how much you use the stuff you will get whether it was on the registry or not
Talk about ungrateful. You need to skip the baby shower and buy your own shit.
I didn’t get a lot on my list…just put on your invite that you would like gift receipts and I guess if that doesn’t happen you’ll have to get what you need/really want on your own…I mean I get it but damn be thankful!!
Are they wrong for not giving you anything at all? Everything received for the baby is something you didn’t have. Appreciate it. The nerve of ppl
Also the fact you have this attitude makes me wonder what sort of attitude and morals you will instil in a child
While there are some out there who do not even have family to have a baby shower. I understand what you are saying but think you should be happy you have family & friends to have a baby shower.
Honestly you better be glad youre getting anything at all. They dont even have to go. Much less buy you something. Be grateful for what you get. You never know what position the other person is in.
Far out is this post for real ?
People should just be grateful that for 1) they have friends/family to attend a baby shower, and 2) be thankful for any free gift received.
I say if you want to dictate what folk can and can’t buy-just say no presents and buy it yourself !
Or did you need them to help with things yet are being very rude and self absorbed about what YOU want. Bet the baby doesn’t care what it’s wearing long as it’s clothed.
This has to be a joke
Ungrateful.
Bratty.
1st thoughts of you from this post
How about paying for your own shit and not spending money on a party and expecting other people to fund your child? I’m from the UK so I may be totally missing the point I realise…but this is such a completly alien notion to me…imagine being so entitled
I have noticed that if someone gets something not on your registry its because they put some thought into your gift and thought you would know and appreciate it. Maybe you should forego the shower and just request gifts. Apparently you are missing the point and frankly you shouldn’t be parenting with these entitlement issues you have.
I can tell you that the registry was a bit difficult. Unless you plan to purchase one thing from one place. When the parents ask for things that are in many different retail locations, I found it difficult. Anyone else or is it just me?
People buy what they can afford… you are not getting married… I don’t get the point of a registry for a baby shower… you’re supposed to buy the mattress etc yourselves…
I just wouldnt buy anything for you. It’s nice if someone buys ANYTHING for your baby, especially when so many are struggling financially.
Be glad with what you get
Oh my… Praying for you to find humility and grace. It’s in there, I know it.
So I feel like I can kind of understand. It can be frustrating to plan on using certain items and asking for them and then getting something you didn’t want. In a way it feels like it’s wasting the other person’s money if you aren’t going to use an item. For example, I knew I wanted to use specific bottles due to the research so I wasn’t going to use other kinds of people gave them to me. However, I feel like most people do include receipts and understand that if they go off your registry you may not want the item. I feel like clothes are just one of those things to accept- people love picking out baby clothes, so say thanks, take a picture of it on your baby, and pass it along to someone else who can use it.
Nobody and I mean NOBODY is under an obligation to buy you ANYTHING. If you have a baby shower that people attend in support of you and your children, you should be grateful for their love and support PERIOD. I don’t know what was put on your Registry but some people put expensive things on there that experienced mothers may not think is a necessity and they may not be able to afford it. I had one baby shower out of 4 children. I don’t expect anyone to buy me or my children a single thing. They don’t have to “save you money”. They don’t have to contribute anything but if they do, it’s out of the kindness of their own heart! Maybe you’re not ready to be a parent if you can’t understand that
The nerve! Complete ingrate. Pay for your own child and enjoy the onesies and the small extras that people love/can afford to buy. Grow up!
You already know the answer to this, hence the “ANON” post
So wrong! Showers are for people to bless you from their heart. If they give you nothing you should still be grateful they even attended to spend time with you. People can give you what they want, to exchange or return is in bad taste, that being said if you’re going to be rude and demanding buy your own stuff or specify that this is need based and since you have needs look to goodwill since beggars can’t be choosers, maybe proper planning ahead to afford your own tastes before you have a child.