No that’s rude as fuck 
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Umm yes.
Be grateful to get anything at all.
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Maybe ask for people to make a contribution to Amazon. Purchases towards the gifts you want. But if you want let’s say a mattress for the baby $500 but the guest bought one similar for $200 it still does the same thing that you need. State you don’t want clothes if anything. Suggest a gift card for clothes if they wanna provide clothes. But it does sound like you’re ungrateful
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I want this anon to come forward so I make sure never to attend her anything! Smh.
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Don’t like it don’t have a baby shower. Nobody has to buy you exactly what you wanted. You made the baby not them.
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From a woman who’s had 2 kids and 0 baby showers… anything is greatly appreciated
I was raised to be thankful for whatever is given to you. Technically everyone could come to your shower and not give you a single gift. Be thankful and feel blessed that you have people in your life that put thought and money into a gift for you. I personally hate registries and have never done one for anything. We used as much as we could from what we got and donated the rest to those less fortunate.
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I can’t even believe that you asked this question. A registry is to act as a guide, not a requirement. Maybe they cant afford the items your entitled ass put on the registry! I straight up feel sorry for your husband…and possibly your kid too.
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Wow and to think people like y’all are raising children 🤦🤦 calling a person a “bitch” or “hag” because they have a difference of opinion 
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Literally no one agrees with this post. Time to take it down lol
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Ask for a diaper shower then, not going to judge you on your character. If you ask for a diaper shower then it’ll free up diaper money so you can buy the items you want?
Whatttt!!! This is absolutely ridiculous. I’ve never even heard of a baby registry! When I threw my baby shower I didn’t even expect gifts… just a lovely little afternoon tea which I paid for i’ll have you know! 
get what you are given and be thankful for it. I cant believe this is a serious post! If you cant afford your expensive registry gifts yourself then perhaps you should lower your standards abit. Baby will be out of half that stuff in no time.
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This is the kind of woman who tries to tell people to lose weight before her wedding pictures so they don’t ruin them 
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Then buy all ur own stuff, if u want specifics! That’s what I did, I bought all of my big stuff because I wanted certain things. You should be thankful for whatever you receive!
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I would definitely have to work if I was invited to this baby shower 
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Yes. You’re wrong. 
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I totally agree, I had to give away a few items that I got at my babyshower and return some due to duplicate bc people bought items on their own without looking at my registry but it was items I did ask for so I got multiple of them. I ended up getting my entire registry and then some and lots of money so it was all good and giving away some items to moms in need was perfectly fine.
I get what you’re saying as we do spend so much doing the shower and we make a registry for a reason, if a guest can’t even get something off the registry or instead get a box of diapers or a gift card then why bother getting something you don’t like or won’t use, it’s a little disrespectful with you.
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You could always ask for the money or a gift card so you can then purchase your own things and then send out little thankyou notes with pictures of what you bought with the money xxx
Wow! How about instead of being selfish and ungrateful you might as well buy everything your self
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Hell, when I chose to have my boys, we paid for what they needed, yes we were given presents which were gratefully received but we never expected anything from anyone. You decided to have a baby, you provide for it and be happy that you get any extra, should you do so once people know your feelings!
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Don’t have a baby shower. I’m appalled by this post. I was so grateful for the things I received and barely anyone came to my shower. Be happy or don’t have a shower.
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You should be grateful for Anything you receive. You sound super selfish. Your not entitled, go buy all the shit yourself!!
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You sound like a spoiled, ungrateful bitch.
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Never had baby showers with all 3 of mine, I don’t want people to feel they HAVE to buy anything, and I avoid going to showers too (especially registry ones), very entitled post, buy your own stuff!
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Don’t have a baby shower then go and buy your own stuff if your so ungrateful simple
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I mean you can just return the stuff most of the time if you don’t need it so it’s not really that big of a deal to me. I was kinda annoyed at mine cause everyone bought my winter baby summer clothes but again, just returned them and bought other stuff.
Maybe you’re as high maintenance as you sound and chose a bunch of expensive and unnecessary bull crap, that they couldn’t afford but because they still cared about you and that baby, they didnt want to show up empty handed. Be grateful.
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Wow how ungrateful, were you raised to be entitled smh. I feel bad for your child. Appreciate the things people but you that they didn’t need to waste their money on.
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You sound incredibly ungrateful. A baby shower is to celebrate you having a child not for people getting you what you want. You’re really lucky to have gifts in the first place and you’re going to turn your nose up at them? You sound really entitled
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Yup you’re wrong that’s ungrateful don’t have a baby shower then just buy the stuff you want
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People don’t have to get you anything and maybe they cant afford exactly what you want. Be grateful for anything you get.
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Wow! Just wow.
If thats how you truly feel; maybe don’t have a baby shower.
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Listen, I get you want specifics for your baby. But I also think you need to get some humble pie and be grateful for what you receive. Someone cared enough to get you or the baby a gift that they though would be appreciated. A lot of people can not afford what exactly you want for the baby. Some moms have a baby shower and no one shows up or no one gift anything at all! Be grateful someone cared enough to buy and bring something for you and baby. It’s the thought that counts if you don’t like the item, take it back to put towards something you really want 
Don’t complain when someone goes out of their way to help you
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It’d be wonderful if they did. However 99% of the time you can bring most back unwanted items to target and Walmart for store credit especially if you did your registry there. Always best to say thank you then do so. That’s what I always do…Christmas too
Selfish, ungrateful , spoiled brat.
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Please grow tf up! Be grateful for what you are receiving. So many moms to be don’t receive a baby shower at all! And you’re over here complaining that you didn’t get certain things.
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Izzy Te Ahuru sound like someone we know 
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I personally believe that a baby shower is to receive extra items, not things that you need for your child. It is your responsibility to make sure your child has everything. Anything a person gives you should be extra.
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You’re ungrateful and don’t deserve any gifts
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You couldn’t be more wrong if you tried. Be grateful for what you’re gifted or do it all yourself. Entitled much?
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In the future, I’d hope people with your mindset would add “entitled and ungrateful mom” on the shower invitation, who only wants stuff from her registry. This way I know who Not to buy anything for.
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Sounds incredible ungrateful and unfair, I would be super upset if a mother stated this to me if I attended a baby shower, I suggest not having one because you can’t chose what you receive for gifts, and I think it’s totally rude to do to family and friends, typically parents buy those bigger ticket items instead of demanding your guest get a certain brand or type
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Totally ungrateful. I wouldn’t buy you anything. People don’t have to be nice and buy you anything.
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Yes you ungrateful person
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Should just save the money from the baby shower and just buy what you really want, sound very entitled.
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Yes you are wrong. Lol wow
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Surely this is a joke
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Ungrateful lil girl
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Registrys are in my opinion suggestions/examples for people who don’t know what to get you so they pick from the list you put out… personally I never had baby showers for either of my kids, I didn’t ask anyone to buy anything for them but if they asked if I needed any big items e.g. baby chair, Moses basket etc or small items e.g. blankets, mittens etc then I would say yes/no and be super grateful that someone was kind enough to buy anything, I bought 90% of what my kids needed because they’re my kids and it’s my place. If you feel like everyone should have bought you exactly what you wanted and to save you money then having a baby is going to be a big shock for you because it doesn’t work like that. Be appreciative that people turned up, are supportive and in most cases bought your baby a gift even if it’s not to your taste or what you asked for. There are people having kids who have no support, no family and would love to be surrounded by all the things you don’t want…
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Not if they are all expensive items that’s just greedy.
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You must be serving bomb ass food at your baby shower and your prizes & party favor must be lit. If not, be grateful people love you and your baby. Or rethink the people you surround yourself with 
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Baby registry = wish list
Not only these items list.
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Wow. How about accept the gift you’re given and be thankful?
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Rarely does anyone buy anything from the registry, and not all gifts come with receipts. This is mostly because your guest probably they’ve had children of their own and/or maybe want to give you products that they feel you will like. So if you want something particular just know you’re going to have to buy it yourself. Most people do not even have the option to have an excess of items that they do not want or need. If you feel such a way that you do not want something or don’t feel comfortable with it… donate it … because there’s people out there that could use it. The point of a baby show is to celebrate the new life that you and the father brought into the world and usually people come with gifts. Not the other way around. I agree with everyone else you are I’m need of a reality check 
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Oh my!!! 
you sound like an ungrateful little child!! Grow up!!
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We need to be greatful, if your rude people will just stop showing up. If YOU want something specific, YOU spend your money on that. After all its YOUR baby 
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Shit. Whats a baby shower?
3 kids & not once did I have a shower.
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WOW!!! What an ungrateful a@& bi*^h 
You should’ve put your name on this so people wouldn’t spend their hard earned money on your entitled ass
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Well bless your entitled, ungrateful heart thinking you deserve anything
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Go buy the bottles and outfits and mattress with YOUR OWN money then 
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I hope you dont raise your child to be an ungrateful, entitled touch hole like yourself.
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I usually get a medium box of diapers, 6 packages of wipes, and if I’m lucky to know their personality one onesie. Also, for toddlers/kids who are going to be a big bro/sis, I buy them two lil toys so they won’t feel left out.
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I buy off of the registry just because it makes it easy but will also grab other things I come across that I think are cute. You sound pretty ungrateful
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Yes you are ungrateful…they are gifts people buy with their money willingly, even if they bring a pair of socks, you must be grateful and thankful!
Yes, it’s called entitlement.
Yes, you are wrong. I’ve personally had too many kids to buy a FTM something on a registry they are never going to use when I can buy them something that will change their life.
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So a baby shower is just a way for parents not to have to buy anything for baby in the assumption guests are forced into buying the requirements/specific items for the child instead if the parents ???
Surely a gift should be chosen by the guest or it isn’t really a gift then .
Confusing
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Also if your having a child no one is obligated to buy u everything u need for your child lmao that’s up to the parents of said child is it not??
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I know what its like to get a load of gifts that u don’t need or want but its your child not theirs so keep what u want, donate what u don’t want or need to those who are less fortunate and use your own money to buy what u want!
If the gifts are off mothers themselves then trust me its probably a tried and tested item that they found has worked. For example one of my employees and his wife were having a baby shower, I chose not to attend however i sent a gift basket of items that I as a mother had found useful - certain creams, wipes, gels & lotions plus a gift card for Asda (uk version of Walmart) so they could buy baby supplies that they wanted x
Yes you are. It makes you come across as ungrateful and entitled. Not a good look
Wrong to me
I was grateful for all the other things I received at my shower
I picked some dumb shit to put on my registry that I would have never used.
I buy 1-3 things off a registry and 1-3 things that were super helpful or nice for me when my children were younger. And always a Starbucks or Dunkin gift card depending on the mom.
If you’d rather have NO gifts than ones that aren’t on the registry let your attendees know in advance
If a person chooses not to buy from registry they should bring cash. And you as a parent will decide what things baby may need.
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Yes, you are wrong. Nobody OWES you anything. LMAO
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You feel like a baby shower is to benefit you to save you money ? I thought it was loved ones coming together in excitement and celebration for a new baby arriving 
You made the baby you buy/pay for the things yourself lol … if your lucky you will get a few nice bits from guests which is a bonus . Anything else you don’t like pass on to someone else who might appreciate them.
You sound very entitled.
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Your guests didn’t lay down and make the baby, it’s not THEIR responsibility maybe rethink having kids if you believe everyone else has to provide you with the best of the best products for that child
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Just don’t have a shower and buy your own items
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I literally show up to baby showers with diapers of varying sizes. Guess you wouldn’t want something covering your baby
Also, baby showers are meant to help you out with extra stuff like clothes, diapers, baby wash, burp clothes and wipes etc. (all cheaper-ish items) No one but YOU is expected to provide a mattress, baby furniture, food, or specific items. Everything given to you is extra stuff on top of what YOU as the parent is to provide for your child.
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Entitled much? You created the child be thankful what people can afford and stop acting so spoiled
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Some women have no help off anyone at all count urself lucky u have people willing to buy your baby presents…so ungrateful in my opinion not everyone has the money…it’s your baby after all you and the father should be the ones buying all the important big things 
Your responsible for getting what your baby needs. Baby showers are to celebrate the new life of your child, not just for gifts. Like a birthday party, you celebrate another year of life but if somebody gets you a present that’s just extra and being thoughtful. You really got it all mixed up and should be happy and extremely grateful for those onsies and things you “don’t need” because nobody needs to get you shit in all honesty.
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Go and buy your own shit! A baby shower is a chance to get together with loved ones before baby makes an appearance and give the mum and baby gifts!!! You can’t give the guests a fucking shopping list 
sorry to be so blunt, and I mean this in the nicest way possible… you opened your legs and conceived that child, therefore you and partner are responsible for buying what YOUR child needs. You’re not a charity case, buy the stuff you ‘need’ yourself and be grateful for what people want to gift you!! Not everyone is made of money so be grateful that they went out of their way to get you a gift or even if they don’t gift and they just attend, that’s good enough! Jesus Christ! I bet your a proper high maintenance bride zilla type woman. Pipe down and get your own shit. End of
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I say you’re wrong, if your child needs something that’s your responsibility. The baby shower guests aren’t required to get you or your baby anything, way to be ungrateful.
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I had a friend come to my shower and give me a card apologizing she couldn’t afford one and I felt blessed she came. You’re an asshole! Buy your own stuff😡
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You are wrong… Be thankful for anything you get…
You get what you get and you don’t throw a fit…at least thats what is taught to young children lol. Maybe what they got you was what they could afford. I would be grateful for anyone that spent time and/or money on me and my family. If you don’t like something smile, say thank you and exchange it later.
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Yes I was so angry for my friend cause she only received clothes and wipes! The wipes weren’t even the brand she asked for, she asked for a specific brand because she’s got a bunch of allergies and isn’t sure if the baby will too. She didn’t receive anything she needed. It’s so annoying. She already had tubs of baby clothes from her stepdaughters.
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To each their own… but to me a baby shower is to celebrate your baby & if you get gifts, cool. It shouldn’t be cribs, mattresses and the rocking chair you want/“need” as the parent you should get what your baby will need and not wait and see if other people are going to buy if for the baby you chose to have… if someone wants to buy you something they shouldn’t get ridiculed for it not being “in your taste” buy what you want and like & avoid the party all together.
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I didn’t even want a shower for my first because both my brothers done had one that year and I didn’t want to put my mom out. Im having my 3rd baby and I’ve literally picked the cheapest stuff I could find even if it wasn’t my taste. You don’t deserve a baby shower not even a little bit!!! You clearly think it’s for you! A baby shower is a way for family to celebrate your baby with you. The gifts they buy your not entitled to them! They don’t owe you shit! That baby is your responsibility so if you want to continue to be an inconsiderate, ungrateful, rude ass person be that, but then I hope someone finds out before they go spend there hard earned money on a damn thing for you or your baby!!! You really need a reality check along with a slap across the face for what you so obviously think your so entitled to!!! So selfish!
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Lol I rather just buy them myself
Dont be ungrateful wtf
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Super wrong! Super ungrateful & super annoying!
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Wow!! It does sound like you are grateful and just reading it gives that vibe as I am sure everyone will agree! Be grateful for what you get, these people took time out of their way to pick something nice for you and your baby. I am sure the put alot of thought into their gifts! If you don’t want or like them, return them! But at least be respectable and thank them for their efforts! I have gone to many showers, I would pick an item of the registry, but would also put effort into something I think is adorable! Never have I heard anyone bitch about gifts!
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Bless your little heart…
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Or they could just not bring you anything.
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Maybe you just don’t need the shower and just buy it yourself. You sound like a spoiler brat !
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Be bloody grateful people care enough not only to attend but spend their money to buy YOUR unborn child anything at all!
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You are wrong and yes…Entitled!!
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Honestly you dont know what kind of bottles your baby will prefer using until they’re born. So it’s good to have different brands and styles. Your baby may not like the clothes you want to put them in and may find ones you consider ugly more comfortable. Baby showers shouldn’t be about gifts at all really. It’s about seeing mom to be and congratulating her and spending time with her. My sister was given all kinds of stuff including infant laundry detergent which came in very handy because her child had sensitive skin.
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Yeesh! Someone sounds ungrateful!!
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