Anyone start dating someone and immediately get pregnant? My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months and I just found out I’m pregnant. I have two other older children and I’m not sure what to do. Would love to hear from people who’ve experienced a similar situation.
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I think about having to start all over again! My kids are 7 years apart! If I have more kids I think of this all the time my oldest is 11 already but I want one more wish I did it before I was 35!
I also have a cousin who just had a baby boy - and her oldest daughter is in her early 20s but they are happy!!
Also have a friend who is going to be a grandma at 36 years old! 
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My husband and I were together 3 months then got pregnant. Our son is now 12 and we just had a little girl 9 months ago. We are very happy and have been pretty much attached at the hip for 13 years. We did not have kids from past relationships but we have made it when everyone doubted us. We have always had balance communication and work. It takes work to make things last.
I did. We have been together almost 7 years and married for 1. We have 2 children together.
I got pregnant within a month of being with my daughter’s dad. It was tough, not gonna lie. We grew together and had to learn each other quickly and get it together for a baby. It was stressful, but so worth it. Almost 4 years later and still going strong. 
yup, dating for not even 3 months found out when we found out i was pregnant. Now we’re about to celebrate our 3rd anniversary and welcomed our second baby last month.
I’d been seeing my now husband for 7 months and only officially together a month when I got pregnant with our first. If he wants to stick around, my advice is lots of patience and grace for both of you. You’re still getting to know each other and that makes the situation a lot harder than if you’d been together a long time. For me and my husband the first couple years we’re tough, but we’ll worth it.
I did I met my now husband pregnant within 3 months it all worked out perfectly fine we are together almost 18 years and have 4 beautiful children
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I got pregnant 3 months into mine and my husband’s relationship and we are Married going on 23 years and happy
My partner and I happened 3 months in, I had the IUD lol we are happy and doing well 
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started dating in June, pregnant in August. Our daughter was born 4 weeks before our 1 year anniversary. Been together 8 years. It’s not easy, we had to learn each other in ways that challenged us and our relationship but he’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me
My current husband and I were together 16 days before we concieved our first son. I already had two sons who were 8 and 10 at the time. We have been together over 5 years now and had a daughter after our son.
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We had only been dating a month but been hanging out all time for 3 months. We have known each other 21 years. I’m 13 weeks pregnant now. It’s my first his 2nd. We are done now. He needs to work on himself
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Sure did. 3 months in I got pregnant. We’re married now with two kids, 3 cats and he’s the love of my life.
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I have. I got pregnant within the first month or two of getting with my current partner. But even tho we did we still managed to have a strong and healthy relationship together. With our blended family of mine and his and now ours. Everyone’s situation is different tho.
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Me-we were dating 3 mos and I had my son two days after the year anniversary of our meeting.
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I got pregnant 2 months in while on BC, then pregnant again 5 years later when I switched BC. OBVIOUSLY him and I were supposed to have babies lol
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Yep. I was seeing someone in July 7 weeks later I was pregnant. I was in pain ended in the hospital just to find out I was pregnant with my second son.
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Yes! I was 20 and he was 35 with a vasectomy. NOT! Found out at an ER he was lying when dr informed I’m not dying, I’m pregnant! I haven’t seen him in 12 years after he told me that he is totally forgetting about us and moving on. Good riddance. Best decision every made.
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We hadn’t been dating long. Mere months….If I could turn back time it would have never happened. I love my kids but I wish their dad wasn’t their dad if ya feel me
My partner and I were dating for 13 days then we conceived with our first. We now have an almost 9 year old, a 7 year old, an 11 month old and I just started labour with our 4th and final!
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I dated my husband for 4 months before getting pregnant. We’re still together 20 years later with several children.
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My now husband and I started dating , and like you unexpectedly got pregnant with in a couple monthes… it was a shock , I already had 3 kids by my ex, . But everything worked out fine , his first reaction was we have to get married , because he is old school. But we waited until our daughter was 11 monthes old then married. He’s been. A great dad to my other kids as well. We have been married for 20 years.
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All depends what kind of man you chose, men don’t have any control over your body so it’s ultimately your decision. If he is a good man he will embrace the good news.
yes me!! also 3m in but ended up in miscarriage 6m later got pregnant again our baby is 8m now!! 🫶🏼
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Met my husband in August. Discovered I was pregnant in January. Been together 10 yrs married 8
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I got pregnant for my oldest after only being with his father for 3.5 months. It ended very badly. My sons father is very abusive and narcissistic. But he also planned my pregnancy, to keep me with him after the first time I left because he knew I would do anything to make sure my child had a good upbringing without a split family like my own. We (my son and I) got out and we haven’t seen him in 4 years.
My situation however is not at all an example though. Not all men are bad and I know of a few couples who had babies with in the first few months and they have been together for a very long time and happily I might add.
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We were dating 6 weeks when I got pregnant, now we have two kids and it’s been incredible!
Yes. And same situation I had 2 older kids. We weren’t even together when I fell pregnant that’s how quick it was. But we’ve been together almost 10 years, married 4 and had 2 more children lol x
I started dating April 9, 2021 and got pregnant April 19,2021. My daughter and I moved in with him completely when my mom kicked me and my kiddo out I’m 39 years old now and she doesn’t even see the baby
Yes. And we got married… now were very happily divorced and he never sees or speaks to our 10 year old son 
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I got into a relationship within a month of leaving my ex who i also had a child with. We were together 6 weeks when i found out i was 4 weeks pregnant. Now weve been together almost 2 years, our daughter is about to turn 1 and were getting married in October 
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Yeah I did with My older daughter we started dating in June was pregnant by august he broke up with me 2 months later 
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People can’t give any valid advice because nobody knows the dynamic of the relationship, if he’s nice, if he treats you well, if he even wants the baby…
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So for anyone thinking of bashing this woman, wether it stays in your mind or u put it on here in a comment, id like u to ask urself if u ever slept with someone before the 2 months together mark. If the answer is yes, than u have no right bashing. This could of been u , u are just lucky it wasn’t. Even if u used protection, still could of happened to u. So unless u never slept with someone until after a couple months into the relationship, than u can’t say a word
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Currently pregnant by someone I had been seeing for a month. And we’re no longer seeing each other now due to said pregnancy
No, I wouldn’t be sleeping with someone unprotected after a month or 2… 
Been there. Less than 2 months in. And we were using protection. And I also had 2 older children. My daughter was just meant to be❤️we didn’t last very long and he has never seen my daughter, but it’s for the best. She’s got a daddy that loves her as if she was his, but I don’t think I’ll ever tell her differently
My current situation now 
I’m taking it day by day and maybe it was definitely meant to happen!! Even though I took the plan b pill 
Some things are really just meant to be!!
3rd weekend together count as right away? 
Yes I got pregnant with my first son litterly with in 2 months … now 17 years later still together and have a total of 4 kids together