Anyones husbands complain about going to pumpkin patches? I cannot get him to go so am planning to take the kids alone…it just makes me sad…
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This is a ridiculous post
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I don’t know why someone is laughing at this! Regardless of what he does for a living etc. Making time for your kids and wife and showing interest in things they enjoy isn’t that hard. My husband has always enjoyed spending time with us no matter where and he works 3rd shift over 40 a week
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I wouldn’t see why he wouldn’t go…? Unless you’re not being reasonable with something. Or been arguing with him. He should go regardless for the kids, in my opinion. But if you made him some sort of way, apologize. Unless he’s a deadbeat in the spend time with his kids department, then it’s a loss cause.
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If he works and it’s his only day off or right after work, i can understand his feelings but you can’t get these memories back. Like yesterday , i promised the kids we would carve pumpkins after I got off work. I had a rough day and carving was the last thing i wanted to do, but i did it, cuz u only get so many years of this stuff and I dont wanna look back and wished i would of done it. Ask him, if theres a way for both of u to be happy. Some kind of compromise
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His loss……he will never have the memories with the kids.
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Leave his sorry ass home. His loss.
He doesn’t complain but I do when we get there cus the kids are all moppy about going so we don’t waste the money lol
Slap him on his butt, tell him he’s handsome and that there’s beer there.
In Austin there is beer and bbq at most pumpkin patches. Not all.
Why would he not want to take part in a family day
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My husband makes time for every single little idea I have for the kids. Doesn’t mention how much he had to work, what it costs, if it’s dumb, etc. He simply does it because he loves his kids and making memories with his kids. What parent complains about that? Yikes.
No. My husband loves all the little family things that make memories. He has set up pumpkin patch adventures every weekend and even talks my older kids into going and they all dress up to give their little brothers the time of their lives. Doesn’t matter if it’s 2 hours away, if it looks like it could be even the slightest bit of a good time- we go. Last weekend we went to three and the kids, even my older ones, 15 to 18 all had a blast.
my husband’s been told very clearly if I do everything alone I will be a single mom. your choice.
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That makes me so sad for you! My husband works Monday-Friday 7-5 at least usually longer especially in the summers. He gets sad that he works during toddler play group that I take our boys to during the week. Every Saturday morning we take our kids to gymnastics and he never complains about it even though we have to get up at 7 for it. I go out of my way to find all the fun family things to do on the weekends and he is just as excited as our kids to do them! These are years and memories you can’t get back so even if you do end up going by yourself with your kids make the most of it and have fun! One thing I always think about is it’s not just their childhood it’s also your motherhood! Let it be fun and full of memories even when it is chaotic! Sending so much love and positivity to you🫶🏻
My husband misses a lot but that’s on him…I’ll be there for my kids 