I’m fine with it and I’ll watch it with him but I’ll also go to strip clubs etc. I’m secure about myself physically and sexually and also in the relationship. I mean I’d rather a man watch videos than go out and cheat. That’s my view on it. I’d say most men do if you know or don’t know. I mean some of them need to watch them they might learn something. 
I will say if it bothers you and you’ve talked to him about it and he’s not respecting you there’s a issue there and that needs to be addressed. Some women are open to try new things and some just aren’t on that level and that’s alright we have to do what we are comfortable with and what makes us happy.
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Alot of woman here are okay with it. And their opinions literally don’t matter. Your not okay with it and that’s the point. Your husband needs to respect your feelings about it period. Your feelings a valid regardless of others opinions.
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Can we have a man chime in?! 
I say watch it with him
It doesn’t bother me at all.
I don’t mind it at all
We have watched so much in the past we lost interest but our rule was not while under the same roof. If he wants sex I am right there but when he was out of state it wasn’t a problem.
Don’t let people normalize this and make you feel like you have to accept it. If he’s said he understands and accepts that it makes you uncomfortable and feels like cheating, even if he doesn’t understand himself, or accept it as such, he should respect your feelings. But porn is selfish sport, not all can give it up for a real life relationship.
I dont care at all. Idk why it just doesn’t bother me.
No not ok with me. If you let him know and he does it again that’s your answer as to how he’s going to treat you in the future. He’s going to do whatever he wants no matter how you feel. If you can live with that good…but not me.
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I think the biggest question should be why does him watching porn make you think you’re not enough? Every one has fantasies, some fantasies just can’t be acted out by partners so people watch porn. I’m confused as to how it’s cheating for those that see it as such. Said person watching isn’t doing anything with anyone else at all, they aren’t connecting emotionally, aren’t physically touching, they don’t even know the person they’re watching.
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Yes, it’s where he learns more freaky moves to tr on my freaky ass
Watch it together haha
Nope not one scrap of porn in our house, he wants porn then we have a non recorded show of our own.
Honestly if your man needs other women to get off on, then he isn’t really your man is he…
17 years in my relationship and we are both very happy with each other.
It’s not cheating. All men do it, and if they say they aren’t they are lying. Spice things up and watch with him. Find videos that you can enjoy with him
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I dont care its fine if he does
I don’t mind if my husband does it, just as long as he doesn’t hide it from me. If he’s sneaking to do it then yeah I’d be upset. Otherwise no.
You probably are enough. Sometimes it’s just the thrill of the fantasy. He’s still coming to you for his needs so I wouldn’t worry too much
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Idk if u have sex regularly then why must he watch it, would make me think thats what he sees when yall have sex and he closes his eyes… 
I see nothing at all wrong with it 
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Yea I am. It’s also not an issue. He’s not really into it. But if he was as long as it didn’t become an issue I wouldn’t mind.
I really think it’s relationship to relationship and there is NOTHING wrong with not wanting it to be a part of yours.
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Shawn-lyn King Minnie and Mickey mouse don’t count
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You know this may sounds crazy but I pretty much told my husband to hide it what I don’t know about him “personally” is okay he loves me but I don’t want to see what he fantasies about… but I’ll also watch with him to set a mood… also found it in his phone and was shocked at how uncomfortable it made me so to me as long as he is not using it instead of having sex with me and isn’t cheating it’s not my business I see cheating as engaging conversations pictures pokes likes… but port for me isn’t cheating I simply just don’t want to know delete it use incognito for all I care… and I don’t search…
Yeah I don’t care at all
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Dont ask these ppl! Ugh sickening, and not right!
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He probably just Jacks off to it when ur not around not a big deal. But every one is different.
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Yes I am ok with my husband watching it. I watch it and sometimes we watch it together. 
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I can’t really say much to him if I also watch it. You could always ask that he doesn’t watch it around you. But it’s just better to be open about it. Something you guys have together that no one else knows about. For my guys birthday I made him a collage of racy anime girls. Unless he’s going to porn conventions lol he’s never gonna meet these people. Even then I wouldn’t be worried because he better take me also lol. Some people say it’s an addiction, I can also agree to a certain extent lol but try to stop watching your reality shows or Netflix lol once Gray’s Anatomy has its final season I know I’ll go though withdrawals 
forget about porn lol go easy on the guy.
Just watch with him and maybe u wont be as uncomfortable. It’s not that bad unless he is doing it addictively.
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I don’t look at it as a form of cheating… Because he could be out actually cheating. And it’s totally normal to please yourself! Pick and choose your battles. Good luck. Don’t sweat the small stuff! 
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Doesn’t bother me as long as I’m getting mine 
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R the badlings asleep
I’m not okay with it but I am very insecure and have had trust issues all my life. I wish I were okay with it because I know it’s normal but it makes my mind wander other places
I don’t mind as long as i get some. My exhusband wouldn’t touch me but go off and watch it. It sucked but now i kinda begg my bf not to touch me but im pregnant with my 3rd his 2nd he will have to deal lol
I see nothing wrong with it.
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I don’t care. I mean we don’t discuss it. If he does he does.
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I don’t understand why some women can’t understand that most men do this and it’s normal. Least he’s not actually cheating. Trust me, that compared to watching porn feels 1000 worse.
I’m not insecure, however, it would make me feel I’m not enough if he were watching it by himself
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I wouldn’t care about the porn, but I’d be a little concerned about him ignoring sometime expressed discomfort with and doing it anyway. At least he should have the guys to talk about it if he disagrees with you
That’s a big no. He should be interested in you and you only.
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Not a big unless he starts neglecting your sex life to only watch porn
We watch it together and separately. It’s just videos. To each their own. It also has nothing to do with you…it’s about exploration. I’m glad when my hubby brings something fun and new into the bedroom. I’m not mad at it one bit!!
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He lacks imagination is all. Blame your MIL. No biggie. Not cheating.
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When I was in a relationship… as long as I’m getting laid and happy within our Relationship right on! Watch as much porn as you want! Hell I’ll join in!! It’s when it becomes secretive and I’m being avoided that I have a problem with!
I know that I am ok with it don’t want to walk in on it. All people pleasure themselves. I know I enjoy my time to myself and so does he. Be open minded as long as there is no worries about trust. I know that sometimes our life gets so hectic that we don’t get to enjoy the way we would like to have our sex lives so you know in between that time we pleasure ourselves. But I also have a 100 complete trusted faith in my husband if you were to make such a big deal out of that, The chances are they may wander but it is also known that we make time for each other to enjoy watching Adult videos together role playing things like that. Everyone has eyes as long as they don’t touch Another person
I watch it and he watches it. We have different tastes when it comes to what we like. I’m slowly teaching him what I like and he is teaching me what he likes through porn. I don’t care if he is watching it at all. I even encourage him to do so especially when aunt flo hits harder than normal.
Those saying you watch together… I promise he watches it alone too
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I don’t care. I actually bought him a porno when we were dating and I was pregnant with our 1st.(this was before it was easily available on your phone lol)
I was huge and uncomfortable towards the end. Sex was the last thing on my mind.
We were young and had sex almost daily. I felt bad cutting him off, so I gave him porn to enjoy. I don’t expect his urge to go away just because I don’t want sex.
I was like that through all my pregnancies. Some people get super horny and to some sex is the last thing on their mind.
Watch with him! Buy some toys. Experiment.!
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I think some dudes just like looking at different bodies. It doesn’t matter how hot you are. They’ll never be satisfied
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My question is how did you find out?
I don’t mind as long as it doesn’t interfere with our sex life!
You are enough. He just a h0rny man.
Yes bc i watch and some times im not around
No I’m not ok with it. Just because it’s supposed to be normal doesn’t mean it is healthy.
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No. It dehumanizes women, teaches men to treat us as sex objects, and contributes to sex trafficking. Porn is so bad for people. It rewires your brain. Many women in porn videos have been molested, or sold in sex trafficking and aren’t doing it by choice. Exodus Cry, an organization that helps free women, children, and trans people as well from sex slavery says this on their website.
“Many of the same tactics used by traffickers to lure the vulnerable into prostitution and stripping are used by pornographers to recruit victims of exploitation in the porn industry. Often times perpetrators of rape, trafficking, and sexual assault upload videos of their crimes to popular porn tube sites like Pornhub, further exploiting their victims.”
I’m cool
With it 
I personally see no problem with porn.
Darling , he is only interested in you. The adult videos are just that videos. My husband watches regularly to get some inspiration for thing for us to do and bought us a toy. Let me just say BEST THING for us ! Not cheating just inspiration
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Watch it with him.
It’s only cheating if he sticks his dick in the porn star!! People watch porn all the time.
You are allowed to feel that way. Your feelings are valid. You need to decide if that’s a deal breaker for you and communicate that to him
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It’s normal for people to view and enjoy porn. It’s equally normal to not want pornography as a part of your relationship or life. If he knows you feel it is a hard boundary and he violates that, he is cheating. That requires a serious discussion about deal breakers. If he feels having porn is a necessity for him then nothing you do will change that behavior. It isn’t about you. Its about him and his priorities.
I read it idk if he watches it and honestly I use to get mad about it when I would catch but we’ve been together 8 years with 4 kids and I’m finally confident with myself and my relationship to know I’m the only one getting his attention and dip stick lmao
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I dont mind mines watching it, its good to learn new things as long its not saved
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Lol. I mean yeah, I’m okay with it because I watch when he’s not home! 
what! Don’t act like you’ve never been curious
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Tell me everything is about you without saying everything is about you
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Some people are ok with it, some are not. If you have established boundaries in your relationship and it continually gets ignored, there is the problem. Every one has certain things they are not comfortable with and if you’ve expressed that to him then he should definitely not be doing it. He needs to be more considerate of your feelings. Once that trust is betrayed, especially multiple times, it makes it very difficult to trust afterwards as well.
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Some women are okay with it, but that doesn’t mean you have to be. As with all other relationships, what works for you is up to the two of you. Some people say that every single man does it and you’re fooling yourself if you think otherwise but that’s simply not true. Your husband should be considering your feelings and respecting your wishes, just as you should consider and respect him. That’s the bottom line. Porn or not, once lying and sneaking and disregarding you is involved, then he has done something wrong.
Porn is there to look at…learn new things…see other people’s fetishes…shit I like porn too
I don’t care what he does
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Nah I’m not ok with it.
I’d be more worried about the snooping through his phone. If you don’t trust someone, don’t marry them.
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Unless your watching it together there is no need for him to watch it no I don’t agree with it there no need for it if he has you
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Wow some of you are horrible. Her feelings matter too.
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Start watching it too but men with big 
and see how he likes it
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I feel the same way but we do watch them together
It all depends on how you feel about it, some women would be fine with him watching it whenever he wanted, some only with them, some not at all. What really matters is the fact that you have said you feel it is cheating yet he still watches it, maybe the best approach is to ask him why he still watches it and actually listen to his answer and do so without having a argument about it. Just like you are allowed to feel a certain way about something he is also allowed to feel differently and express these feelings how he wishes to. Relationships are all about give and take on both sides. Good luck x
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It’s his phone. He pays the bill not me. I dont care what he does on his phone.
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I really don’t understand the issue with it. It never bothered me.
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I don’t mind at all.
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I don’t care I watch it without him sometimes. I don’t feel jealous or insecure I’m any way though.
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My husband and I both watch adult videos doesn’t change anything with our relationship or sex life.
Personally, if you’re snooping around on his phone there’s already trust issues. That’s just how I think.
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I’m fine with it just as long as he doesn’t sext another person without my knowledge. I watch porn sometimes to get off.
Sometime
I prefer it. Mama needs sleep.
But seriously doesn’t
Bother me. Probably cause he’s gone a lot … i would rather he get it from
Himself than someone else .
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I am 100% fine with it. I enjoy watching it as well and we often watch it together. It’s great for four play. I also prefer girl on girl porn. Now if my husband tried contacting one of the girls and met up with one that would be cheating. But to watch it without me I’m cool with. I don’t see it as cheating. But we are all
different and if your not comfortable with it then you need to talk to him again and decide what you’re going to do if he doesn’t stop. Maybe you can compromise with him and say you guys can watch it tighter once a week or something.
We watch them. To spice up our sex life. Which is great
Nope dont like it. Nor does my hubs like the idea of me watching it. Thats why we have eachother.
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Every man does it. I understand that it makes you uncomfortable. But I promise you. It has nothing to do with you. Ask him if there’s something in the videos he would like to act out. Maybe it’s a fantasy thing. Don’t be so hard on yourself. It’s more then likely not you. Be open and non judgmental when it comes to talking about sex. Otherwise he will be afraid to talk to you about how you can please him, and visa versa. Ask to watch it with him. You may like it.
I don’t have any issues with it. I know that sometimes my husband does, sometimes we do it together.
Why would you want to watch other people having sex?? That’s sick and perverted,and it can become addictive, and then it turns into to cheating and your wife or husband will never be enough because it is sin,and will rot your mind,and the devil will use it against you,you’ll never be satisfied with who you have…it will destroy you!! I’ve seen so many lives destroyed and marriages.
100% okay with it. As long as he’s not touching idc.
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Would you like him to tell you what to watch in tv? If the answer is no then stop trying to control what his eyes see.
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Plus my guy watches hentai, so yeah…
Porn isn’t cheating… I have a feeling you may have some insecurity within yourself as do most people including myself. I would be more concerned with the fact you feel the need to search your husband’s phone. Porn really isn’t bad unless he has an addiction to it. You should try it out sometime and watch it with him I’m sure you guys will have a lot of fun 
. You should see that you are more than enough and don’t base your worth off of what he chooses to watch.
It depends on what you’re comfortable with not what we all think 
You have already told him what you feel about it, you need to decide what you can put up with. Maybe ask him why he’s doing it. It also depends on how often he’s doing it like if it’s everyday all day then it’s a problem. Is he saving it on his phone to watch later or over and over? I would calmly talk to him because some guys do it to break up the monotony of being married and committed to just one person. Some guys do it to make themselves last longer in the bedroom with their wives to please their wives better because if they do it right before you make love, they will last longer. It doesn’t mean they’re trying to picture the other woman instead, they’re just getting primed up for their wives. There’s many reasons why men and women both watch adult videos, you just have to figure out if you’re ok with it. It’s not like he knows the actors and he will never meet or talk to them so I wouldn’t consider it cheating really XOXO
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110% okay with it. It’s fun to watch together, too! If you’re feeling hurt or threatened by your partner enjoying watching the bodies and sexuality of others, there were probably already trust issues in the relationship before, and/or you have some body confidence issues of your own to work on.
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I don’t have a problem with it when it’s out in the open and even watched together by both parties. How, once your spouse goes off watching it themselves in secret I feel it’s very disrespectful! I had a husband(of course now Ex) that would hide when he was online looking for other people to meet up with…I’m So Not Ok With That!! Do what you feel is right for you and you only!
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I’m not into and my Husband respects that.
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I don’t care at all. Make videos together for him to watch.
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It all depends on your relationship and what your comfortable with. Personally idc if he’s just looking at it. But absolutely no communicating or interacting with other woman that’s my boundaries. But watching videos idc but like I said it all is a personal boundary and what you personally are comfortable with in your relationship!
If you think your husband watching porn is cheating it indicates your insecurities. To be honest I watch porn regularly and have a healthy sex life with my hubby. Everyone has different sexual desires and fantasies find out what he likes and help satisfy his needs. It’s goes both ways! Good luck you got this