A neighbor says she let's her 12 year old twins sleep in the same bed whenever they want to. I think it should be stopped. She says it's because he is afraid of the dark. Afraid of the dark at 12? I think he's a big sissy. He cries if you look at him cross eyed. She says it's because he is being raised without a father in the picture. I say that's bullcrap. Lots of women raise kids without a father and they turn out just fine. I think she's just making excuses for her poor parenting