How would you feel if your bf was watching porn when youve stated you didnt like it and think it is cheating.
Personally, it doesn’t bother me cause it’s just girls on a screen.
Do you think it will get better with age? It makes me feel like im not very satisfactory.
It does not get better with age. I struggle with it also, I’m just lucky enough my husband saw how much it bothers me and now just comes and dirty talks to me until we can get to bed. But if it bothers you to the point of obsession like it does me, then you should maybe offer to watch it with him. Just try to remember, he’s not looking for bigger and better things. Men are very visual. It would be the same thing for him as watching you masturbate. It’s not a reflection on you or your love life, it’s just a guy blowing off some steam. It helped me a LOT to research why guys watch porn.
And honestly, after I saw the things he was looking up I realized it made me pretty fucking hot to think of catching him jacking off, and now it’s a tiny fantasy of mine.
See it botbers me so much it makes my sick. I worry that he isnt liking what I do or how and im not sure how to get better
He also lies to me about doing so and when i ask he makes it seem like its my fault for being nosey