Tracy Carter this one Lmaoo 
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You can try to file for divorce or see about legal separation since your pregnant. But you can’t “ban” someone from going into a neighborhood. Unless you have a restraining order. Then I guess maybe. But even then if just means he can’t go to/infront of your property.
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His house too! Sleep in separate rooms till you figure it out
Restraining order???
Lock him in the garage until he begs for mercy.
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File for a restraining order then he can’t come with in 500 feet of you and if he does he will get into big trouble
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Throw bread and bird seed at him lol
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Let him go! find a King who treats you like a Queen!
Let him live in the garbage can then. Trash eventually takes itself out.
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I sure hope some of you people don’t ever need advice, if so, I hope you get the same crap as you’re giving out! Talk about a bunch of mean hateful people!
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I’m so sorry you are dealing with this. My husband cheated when I had our 2nd child. In our home in our bed. We separated, I took him back only to have him cheat several times in the 13 yrs we tried. It was a rollercoaster of heartache over the years. It’s your choice as to trying again. Trusting him is not going to remain. Should you divorce, I am totally against restraining orders. They cause more deadly problems than people realise. Have the decision made by the judge as to his visitation. Also go for child and spousal support. YOU’RE GOING TO NEED IT. I’m praying for you. Be safe, strong. And dont let him ever hurt you again.
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get a big knife from the kitchen show it to him and say if you go to sleep in this house again I will turn into a Lorena bobbitt at midnight and make a girl out of you
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Call the girl to come pick him up for some lunch
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A restraining order can keep him off your property. A divorce can keep him out of your life.
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Protective order.
That’s harassment.
And you can drop the protective order if you want to patch things up.
Also getting a garage lock while he’s at work or etc and bagging up his items (again) and leaving them outside of the garage should also do the trick
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He won’t change. Divorce him
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I would get a Family Lawyer first and foremost. This whole thing sucks honey, but what’s going on isn’t your fault, it is his. He is the one that destroyed the trust in the relationship, you can’t ever get that back. If you try, you’ll constantly feel like you have to keep tabs on him lest he run off with another bimbo. You’ll never fully trust him again. You just need to put your foot down and hand him the divorce papers. You’ll save yourself and the kids a lot of stress and heartache in the long run. He needs to own his mistake, and leave you in peace and do his best to be a good Dad. Hang in there sweetie 
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Some of you ladies sound bitter and rude. The lady is asking for advice. Y’all sound like the ladies who will just deal with it and pretend it never happened. Thank goodness y’all are not counselors or therapists.
You can file for a restraining order. You’ll receive a temporary one until you go to court. Document everything, if he is harassing you through text and phone calls, don’t delete them. He cheated, divorce him. In many states you could be eligible for alimony or spousal support.
No where did she say she is not letting him see the child. Reading comprehension works.
You can get a restraining order if he is a danger to you or your children other then that this isn’t anything you can do except fill in court to have him evicted
Is this the hussy bringing him DQ that’s jealous of your half porch?
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From my research I have found that a half porch is a porch that only covers half the area of the front of the house… where a full porch goes the entire length of the front of the house. So many people have been asking… I had to find out. Now we all know. As for this situation, she needs to tell him to go back with the DQ girl, and divorce his *ss!! 
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Do what I did when I found my husband of almost 27yrs cheating. I found out while I was in the ER with his sorry butt. No wonder he was having chest pains with all that guilt. He said how will I get home. I told him straight faced to call one of his hoes!! Put his crap in his van and dared him to try and stay!!
Sage!!!jk a restraint order wld be nice
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You can’t ban him from the neighborhood as that’s public property… what he’s doing is technically harassment but definitely not assault… if your baby is his I’d hope you wouldn’t keep his child from him based on the fact that he cheated on you, but that’s your business
I wonder if he thinks you will cave and let him back in. If you dont trust him anymore make him earn it back if you want to continue your relationship. Make sure to be clear with how you feel. But remain calm. Forgivness and trust takes time and effort on both behalfs. Don’t cave. Make him stick to his word. He wants to be in the garage or porch…then let him! See how long he lasts. He should be making you a priority in his life. It sort of sounds like he is looking for pity from you. If he continues to stay in the garage/porch and he shows he is fighting to be with you and shows through his actions that he wants to patch things up long term then I would figure out a plan calmly together that will help you both move forward from this. Sounds like you need space… take some time and focus on yourself. What it is you want for your future and what will make you happy long term. Put yourself first. Figure out how you both can heal from this. Dwelling on it wont fix anything. You will both just remain hurt and stuck. I wish you the best. Good luck and stay strong. 
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Don’t keep living in agony. It’s only going to make you miserable. Things will never be the same for you so either file for legal separation or your divorce but do not take him back. Do not let him hang out at your place or anywhere near you if he wants his dairy queen let him have her but don’t feel sorry for him and let him pull you back in. It’ll never be the same. Just went through this. Finally after 12 years it’s over.
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Gotta LOVE that!!!
“I’ll live out here til you feel ready”
Your feelings, are CORRECT.
“For 500$ Alex(I’ll take”….
“Men who don’t take responsibility for shit! Please”!!!
It’s nice to know,there’s no remorse,or genuine feelings of wrongdoing…just… “when your ready for my bullshit again, I’ll be sittin here awaitin “…
And yes, before the men come in for the slaughter there are shit females too, but I’m specifically answering this question,so don’t piss in your cheerios or anything….OP- you sound self sufficient,and yes, they always do it again, unless they’re willing to genuinely address it…but that is the biggest betrayal of trust. If you did TRY to fix things…it would never be the same. Every time he’d leave the house you’d drive yourself nuts. It’s not worth the peace of mind and sanity.
Better to just let him sit on HER porch,and beg to get in. When I kicked my man of 10yrs out- I found out he had a plethora of women to go live with!! I was done by that point so good riddance.
Can you believe the chick he moved in with,called me drunk,like a month later,crying to ME because HE left HER? Well,look how ya got him!!! But I felt bad, because she didn’t realize the narcissistic POS he is, she had NO clue the monster she was dealing with…done slept with about ALL of the city, including the hookers…ughhhgv ugh,I just got the heebie Jebbies!! 
You WILL be ok hun. And if the cops come, they’ll ask him to just leave aslong as you only answer what your asked. Just- y’all broke up,you found him cheating and packed his things for him, I’d just like him off my property. That’s all. They’ll ask him what’s up- but aslong as no one mentions physical abuse,they’ll tell him go to your moms,and sit on her porch!
Best of luck. I’m going through something similar hun!!!