I am divorced and have physical custody of my child and joint decision making my ex has currently started sending me inappropriate text message including photos. Minor child is 14 has her own cell phone but is choosing not to respond to him at this time can I block Dad from contacting me ?
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Well of course you can…
You can if there is nothing in place for that communication
I had a PO against my ex husband, only way he can contact us through email, which is a positive because everything can be proven in court
Block him and let the court know why. Save the messages as proof.
You can use our family wizard to communicate safely. I’d block him on all other medium and seek legal advice.
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most phones have a blocking system that you can block him with and unblock it when you need to talk to him
Document everything and request a limited contact request - meaning the only time he can contact you and you him is i it relates to your MC.
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I blocked my ex that I have children with. He was toxic. All he did was abuse me… He didn’t care about the lives we created together. He only cares about his next high, selling my stuff and my children’s stuff. He always took my car and didn’t care if I needed it for emergencies.
I blocked my baby’s dad when we split I don’t have anything to do with him his family arrange contact with me x
There is an app called our family wizard. There are a few others. Research it! It helps to keep the communication just about the kids and it is also kept so it’s visible for courts.
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She’s 14 so legally she doesn’t have to have contact or visitation with him anymore. That’s Canada anyways… legal age of choice is 14 for children
You can have free court mediator . Anything he or you wants to do with ur child goes to mediator and mediator is the one who makes all contacts to u or ur ex
Use my family wizards and block his number
I would block him. But make sure you just let the court know.
I would set up a court approved communication portal account & only use ut to communicate, between him & you or her.
& I would definitely check your childs phone to see what communication hes having with her & screenshot it for further court proof if he decides to fight her no contact with him.
Protect yourself & your child. These men dont seem to care about abuse or the consequences of abuse much anymore.
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Legally no because you share custody he has to be able to get in contact with you however you can have a paper drawn up and signed /delivered where he can only contact you about child