Can the opposite sex be friends?

Is it okay to talk to the opposite sex if ur just friends and u dont cross the line? I have been told being marriaged I cant talk to other guys just being friends.? need opinions?!

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As long as it doesn’t interfere with your marriage

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One of my best friends is a man and has been there before any marriage. I couldn’t be with a man insecure and untrustworthy.

I talk with men all the time I’m married. Wow!! Nothing wrong I get along better with men.

I’ve been married 14 yrs an one of my besties is a guy an my hubby n bestie get alone just mine

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It’s fine . My best friend is a guy and he’s like a brother to me and my ex never had an issue with it . As long you don’t cross anytime it’s fine . You can be with opposite sex and not be attracted to them the same goes with guys . That’s the way I see it .

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I don’t see anything wrong with it.

There is nothing wrong with talking to the opposite sex as long as you dont cross boundaries

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If you both (friend and you) can keep it just friends then there’s no problem. Unfortunately a lot of the time one person can end up with feelings which can complicate things. I used to have a lot of guy friends but they all “disappeared” when I got into a relationship. My boyfriend had a similar experience except his female friends just acted like they hated me until he decided they weren’t very good friends to begin with lol

Well if your husband was friends with a female that you didn’t like… In my house if I don’t like that bitch then he don’t either and same for him if he don’t like a guy that’s my friend out of respect for my husband I respect his wishes. It could be a respect thing not a control thing. As long as you let him have female friends.

You can be friends with whoever you want. Don’t let anyone tell you who you can and cant hang out with.

Thats a weird control issue. It shouldn’t matter.