Any mom’s get pregnant while on birth control? I am pregnant with #6 due in June. My first 5 kids, I got pregnant while on b.c… #1 was the pill, #2 depo shot, 3-5 was mirena. I haven’t used b.c. in 4 years and just got pregnant… I’m unsure what to do after this baby… we want more children in the future, so I don’t want to get my tube tied. Any advice? We don’t want to use condoms. 
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Snip snip for ur hubbs it’s reversible.
Pull out method and prayers are your only options then
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sounds like a problem! Maybe try nuvaring
Then number 7 will be soon to come… I would get the tubes tied. 6 kids is alot js
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She says she wants more kids - not for yall to be judgy buttholes and tell her she has too many kids 
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I’m a little confused on what you’re looking for advice on? 
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Keep going till you are ready to quit!
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I’m currently pregnant. And I was on bc and using condoms. So good luck momma.
You on any kind of birth control AND condoms for him EVERY time lol
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You could always track your periods and your ovulation time and do it naturally, it’s called natural family planning .
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Well, there’s spermicide lol I did a quick Google search as other than that and the sponge I wasn’t sure what other options there were.
This has a list of them, info on each kind for men and women and a compare option. This is probably a decent resource to find one that works for you both.
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Sounds like the pull out method is as good as any then lol
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Do you have a regular cycle? My Dr teaches me how to count my days. Download the cycle app too
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I have had five and I got my tubes tied after my 5th
I was conceived on the pill. It’s not reliable.
Was the bc taken properly like on time and monitored the iud by feeling for the strings? Nothing seems to work and the only barrier method you don’t want to use and you don’t want to get fixed, I’d say jump up and down afterwards and pray
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There’s other opinions
Ask your doctor and since it seems like BC doesn’t work well for your body maybe you just have to use condoms till your ready for another.
The have lady type condoms
how do u do it? I have 5 n I’m ready to jump off a bridge most days!
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My first pregnancy I was on the pill, honestly the best thing to do is talk to your doctor they know more and could point you in the right direction.
The nexplanon, It goes in your arm
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Try not spreading your legs.
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All of my kids i got pregnant while i was on b.c. mine because of my hormone levels being the way the are if your not wanting to get tubes tied i would suggest going and getting your hormones tested when picking your b.c. that way the dr can get you one that has a better chance of working! There are some that are better then others for women who get pregnant very easy
Nothing is 100% no matter what method you use, maybe your partner can opt for a vasectomy.
i have 6 kids myself 3 are under 3. after having my 6th i got a tubal even when i hated the idea but it is way easier and safest choice for me my body cant handle another pregnancy. my advice is research the tubal and talk to your ob may change your mind.
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There is actually a gene that makes HBC not with for some women.
Look into fertility awareness method of birth control
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Got pregnant with 1 on depo and miscarried before i even knew.
Got pregnant with my son on the pill.
Use a condom if you don’t want no more babies
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You’re best to talk to your doctor about this Hunni. Everyone is different on everything.
Nexplonon aka the bar in your arm good for 3yrs i have it nd love it never got pregnant and isnt pregnant till this day
Why can’t he do something?
Children are a blessing but expensive but I say more power to you on having as many as you want 
I had my last one when I was almost 42 it had been 14 yrs since I’d had one…from 28 to 41 I wasn’t on bc I guess I was lucky…lol.but I’ve never been on bc my whole life…I can’t have anymore bc of mother nature ( menopause) but I would love to have more but I’m 51 now…I love babies! I’m blessed with 4 boys 33,30,23,9:heart:
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Vesectomy! Best decision we made!
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For the people being rude if she wants the kids and takes good care of them its none of your business how many she has and to tell her to not spread her legs is just rude!!! As for the BC issue i would def discuss options with your dr since most dont seem to work for your body
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Use condoms with whatever birth control you decide to be on🤷♀️
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Yep and so did sister in law same year same bc.
Learn to swallow 
🤷
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Pregnant with baby 6?? And wants more kids?? Fuck that. Lol
If bc doesn’t work for you and you don’t want to use condoms, but don’t want more children right now… the only reasonable solutions is to not have sex 🤷
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Spermicide and pull out, to ensure no precum/late pull out swimmers survive? Also, not liking condoms may have to be put aside, clearly bc isn’t your friend and condoms are pretty decent at their jobs
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He can freeze sperm then get vasectomy…if you want kids later they can inject or do ivf
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I just found out I’m pregnant again 4 months postpartum. I can’t take synthetic hormone birth control because I have really bad reactions to it. My husband and I never had sex without a condom, but here we are lol 
Abstinence is the only way to prevent pregnancy after all xD
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If she doesn’t want to get pregnant she shouldn’t be having sex,end of story.
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Just get tubes tied. Not clip and burn just tied. That way if u want more they can untie them
tubes tied or burnt… doesnt always work tubes tide but u can giv it a try
Condoms nowadays come super thin and doesn’t even feel like he has it on. Or maybe you guys can freeze his little swimmers and he can get a vasectomy!
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Diaphragm would be the only real choice left I think
Not to be mean or nasty but if there nothing you can, or want, to use then just dont have sex, no accidents then.
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Pull out method?
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Omg I got preg on BC 4 times 
and the 5th I wasn’t on any(cause what’s the point)… I have 6 healthy children now… I cant give you any advice besides Condoms… lol good luck
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No sex. I mean that sounds a little butthole-ish but you’re obviously fertile, don’t want a tubal, and birth control hasn’t worked so…
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I got pregnant twice on depo
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The best birth control option for me was the Nexplanon implant… goes in your arm, and is good for 3 yrs, never had any problems or pregnancy scares. I’m currently 8 months along with my first my 1st baby.
Condoms do a pretty damn good job at keeping you from getting pregnant!
Then use condoms… 
? Haha I’m sorry but if you’ve tried all you think you could, that’s probably the safest bet
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My first I got pg while on depo and my second I got pg on Mirena.
Why doesn’t anyone want to use condoms now?! That’s a good chance you WON’T get pregnant. My gosh.
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I Got Pregnant On The Depo Shot And Now Im Scared Too Get On Any Birth Control
The Paragard worked great for me! And it’s non-hormonal.
Neem leaf powder. Have your hubby take it. Works for us
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Wanting more after 6 wow
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After 6 and you want more?!?!?
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Might just be time to get fixed
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Just do oral the safest way
You want more than 6 kids? You are so brave … I only have two and I’m terrified of doing it again 
Must be a doctor or a lawyer to afford that many kids!
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Yep! Had a Depo baby over here. I personally want my tubes tied after maybe 2 more babies.
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Tie your tubes and adopt a baby when you want another?
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Anal bc his pull out game sucks
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I did on the mirena and it was a tubal(ectopic) pregnancy
Me too with two out of he three
You’re a brave one to want more than 6 kids lol good lord. You could get your tubes tied then have them reverse it when you’re ready. Cause if birth control doesn’t work for you, & you don’t want to use condoms then I really don’t know what to suggest other than that. Lol
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Try natural timing? I’ve known a lot of women this worked best for. One lady never wanted kids. She was around 40, married 20 years. They never had a scare!
I heard you can’t get pregnant in the booty hole
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I have always done the pull out method and condoms. And been fine so far. Also the OP has already said she wants more kids in the future but not right now. Why are so many people suggesting vasectomy or tube tying? Those are permanent birth control and their are risks trying to reverse them. They are also expensive to reverse at least tube tying is.
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Well shit the pull out method
Dont listen to some others have as many as u want if u can afford it. The have stuff u can put up there before sex at Walmart that kills the sperm so I’d use that along with condoms. Talk to your doc as well I’m sure there’s an answer
Well, I guess you will have to. Having sex.
Ask to have just your Fallopian tubes taken out, it’s an easy procedure and won’t send you into early menopause!!!
Natural family planning
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Six children??? You must by rich. 
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Do they clamp tubes still? If so do that i heard it works well for 5 years
The 1st two kids was the pill. The 3rd was depo. I got my tubes tied after her.
Well then don’t have sex until you’re ready for more babies. It sucks birth control didn’t work for you. But congratulations on baby # 6.
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Anal haha jk I’m not sure what you are going to do.
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That’s about it…lol
Natural family planning but you need to find a good dr who can really educate you and your spouse/partner on this… it can be done if you follow the methods and chart religiously… after a while it will be easier… and congrats on the baby!!!
By the sounds of it your outta options. Idk maybe try vaginal contraceptive films and pulling out. Maybe you in that 1% section where birth control doesnt work.
Js, so no offense but nobody has that many birth control “accidents” m’Kay? It’s 99% sure so having THAT many “one in a million” accidents, you are either lying, or something, like I said Js because it’s literally ONE In 5 billion for you to conceive 2-3 times with IUDs.
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Damn. 6 kids. I can barely handle one.
I got pregnant all 4 times on different birth controls. Nexplanon, pill, Nuvaring and Skyla IUD
Wow so much ignorant comments … We have 8 natural children and can afford each and every single one without help from the Government or anyone else … It’s no one business how many kids someone should have unless it’s affecting your wallet or life … and no we don’t drive a bus … To the O. P natural family planning might be your best bet or the BC that goes into your arm … good luck
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Mirena fell out, hence my second son, depo failed, hence my 3rd
I did on the depo and him using condoms(38 weeks)
I got pregnant well on The pill then again on the Depo. I had my tubes tied and still got pregnant. I had a miscarriage that time. So I know how you feel. I think you may have to use condoms. You must be very fertile.
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Get your tubes tied. If you want more later then get them untied?
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If you dont want to use condoms pull out and try using an app to calculate and follow your cycle it will help avoide the fertile times 
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Have your eggs frozen and his sperm Frozen and get your tubes tied and he can get snipped and you still have options to have more children later on on your own timing
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Man I wish I could get pregnant that easy. Lol
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All three of my kids I got pregnant on the pills.