I work in daycare and this is very common for kids to do unless some other signs show up I wouldn’t worry about it they’re usually done crying within a couple minutes of when you walk out the door
Becareful I had a teacher that was hurting my daughter. I go in to pick my kid up and the director shows me her thigh huge hand print bruise asked me what I did to her. She did not have before I dropped her off. She could not talk at that age. I questioned them on the care giver. That teacher seemed really nice but was not. She was moved to another class and shortly after I find out the teacher she originally had was hurting kids. So if your little one is acting out they are trying to tell you something is not right. I ended up moving my daughter to another daycare and no more issues.
It sounds like it’s separation anxiety which is normal for this age group. Continue to do what you are doing, give her a hug, tell her you love her and walk out. If you seem anxious or unwilling to leave that makes her feel that it’s not a safe place to leave her. If you are confident and happy when you leave she will pick up on that and eventually start to do better. Soon she may not even say bye and just run off to play. I promise it will get better.
My eldest used to do that and it left me feeling so bad. One day I went back because she left her jumper in the car and she was happy as the rest of them. Some children do this because they think it is expected.
I have work in daycares to and and there is some daycare workers are cruel to certain children and that’s what you trying to say
Not uncommon for a young child to have separation issues at first. Time usually resolves this. As long as you are comfortable that it is only separation issues and not something more. Try to help her focus on her friends and fun
Are you able to make surprise visits to her daycare ? Your daughter may be being abused and she’s to young to tell you what’s going on .
Kids know. Something is just not right in their eyes. Trust your child. If no change in two weeks leave and try another daycare
My kids did the same thing. It took them the first week to get used to it. After that they were fine. Shes adjusting to a new schedule without you there. She will be ok
My daughter use to do that but when I go to pick her up she’d want to stay
It’s normal. Separation anxiety that’s wat it is.
Call her on the phone so she can hear your voice ask the teachers how long does she cry after you leave her.
Your child will be fine. Give it some time. My youngest son was the same way.
Personally I think your child is more important than university education.
Is there a daycare on the college campus? That might help. Lots of help and one on one
Question, why is everyone just ASS U ME ing that “something” has to be going on? Get the facts first by popping in unannounced to see for yourself to make sure nothing is going on. If the center has cameras ask to check them. Talk to your child.
I used to work in a daycare. When there are allegations and assumptions like these it is really hard and it makes people look bad especially when they are doing everything they can to HELP your child. There are children that do have separation anxieties that is a real thing. They will cling and cry just to get mommy daddy or whoever is dropping them off to stay. The suggestions of giving the child something to hold onto to keep safe until you return is the best idea there is. Stand outside the classroom without anyone’s knowledge just so you can know how your child is doing once you leave and better off being treated.
Just please do NOT just jump to conclusions that something HAS to be going on.
How does she act when you pick her up?
Listen to your kid. She may be trying to tell you there is an abuser at the daycare.
Just doesn’t sound right… Needs checked …sorry.
According to my 27 year old son it did I was lucky, didn’t need daycare, he was sent for preschool and to get used to other children. I told the owner plainly that if he wasn’t adjusting to it, let me know. I found out from a friend who worked there that he was screaming and crying all day. I took him out.
They have to go through the whole separation anxiety all over again
My children both had separation anxiety, especially my son. Every Monday was the worst, but the teachers said as soon as I left, he would calm down. My daughter only did it a few times. She was more outgoing. But it tears a mother’s heart out to have to walk away when the child is crying…but they have to learn to do it. HOWEVER, my son had a bad time in first grade and he did not tell me until he was going to second grade that his first grade teacher yelled at the kids all the time. So it is not always separation anxiety…sometimes it is just bad experiences. And we don’t always know at the time.
ASK HER to SHOW YOU WHO??? HURT HER !!!
It’s scary maybe something happening
I know it’s hard , but she most likely calms down after you leave , I had toddler class and I had a few that did this ! Just drop and go ! You’re reassuring her you’ll be back and you always do give it some time this last year was hard in everyone especially the kids ! Hang in there
Give Her Something Of Yours That You Use Regularly She Will Believe You’ll Be Back 4That Object & Remain Calm
Do you teach at university ? Or are you attending ? Is it possible you can attend online courses evenings to allow your child to remain home with you ? Then find a free forest school to participate in during the day -
Call her and talk to her every day