Has he ever given her cause to not trust him ? If hes not hiding the fact he’s contacting this new work mate I doubt he’s cheating and a different brand of condom is hardly evidence .
Personally I wouldnt be giving my opinion. Listen to her vent and be there for your friend without judgement. I suppose she made the situation your business by discussing it with you but you could cause problems by giving your opinion which could very well be wrong. Just support her
I always told my friends - if I tell u your man is cheating you better believe me because the only way I am saying it is if I saw it with my own eyes. Never gonna say someone told me or I heard it. And I m going to be specific about what I saw (hell now a days I could just take a picture with my phone, but that wasn’t an option back then.) There in no faster way to ruin a friendship than butting into someone’s relationship without the facts to back it up and even with facts a lot of times the friendship doesn’t survive because the friend is not ready to accept and/or deal with the truth. My philosophy is: We all have our point of no return, it just takes some of us a lot longer to get there than others.
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It doesn’t sound like he’s hiding anything. He may have just wanted to try a new condom and you said he is wanting sex more, I would think if he was cheating he would want it less but he is coming to his wife. I wouldn’t be putting ideas into her head and causing more strife when it might not be anything.
sorry he is cheating with the co worker.
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Anytime a person suddenly wants more sex, it’s because they are cheating. It’s one of the most common signs. The other person may like flavored condoms, so he wanted her to try them so he could re-live the sex with the other woman while having sex with her.
Then leave it alone.
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So if you drink coffee every day then for no reason at all you had a hankering for tea does that mean any thing?don’t jump the gun
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It lest he is coming to her for his needs
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Not your business, stay out of it
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Stay out of married folks business
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Please don’t second guess your friend’s husband. You are probably right, but if you get involved and they work things out, you will lose a friend
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Devil’s advocate here but as someone who has been cheated on, I don’t think he’s cheating. I found out my ex was cheating through his lack of sex drive with me, not wanting to be home and always finding a reason to leave (ie; picking fights over trivial things).
I think maybe he wanted to try something different… just because they never used flavored ones doesn’t mean they can’t start using them.
I’d tell your friend to go with the flow but stay alert for big changes. Good luck!
I’m not a man but I would think that if he’s still having sex with you and wanting to try new things (flavored condoms) he might be on the verge of cheating/ fantasizing but not there yet?? What about taking it about herself and spicing things up?? Make plans for alone time… It’s hard when you don’t feel appreciated and wanted to put others needs before yours. It’s a very difficult place to be as a friend but i would be there for her give her advice and be her rational thinking cause she might end up mad at you
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The fact that he’s wanting more sex from her is him bieng loyal to her! He’s going to her for his needs temptation will be out like a lion but he’s holding on and asking his wife to please him the condom thing maybe he doesn’t know how to tell her he’d like to change it up without actually saying it men don’t communicate very well, if he was cheating he wouldn’t have the need to want sex MORE it’d be less
I think you need to mind your own business. 
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He will dig his own grave
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Maybe he’s trying to spice things up maybe it’s an emotional affair another physical maybe that check turns him on so he turns to his wife and has sex with her instead of cheating. However it’s her life be supportive but try not to get involved.
As much as I hate to admit it (I prefer to see the best in people and to find the kindest answer as a rule) yeah I am fairly certain he is cheating. There’s just too many red flags. I dunno how to advise you, though. A part of me says to mind your own business unless or until asked and to just be ready to have to be there for her more so than normal for a time, another part of me says to out his stupid ass and help her get out before shit hits the fan.
You know your friend best and what she would prefer.
Go with that.
And if you are a praying woman, then pray.
If not, then good luck.
This sounds like its your story. They are married and they use condoms??hmm doesn’t sound right to me
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Mind your own business. That’s what I think.
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Maybe he thought she’d enjoy the new condoms? If he showed her, he obviously wants to use them with her… and you said he comes home wanting sex so he still wants it from her. I think she’s jumping to conclusions.
I would say tell your friend to hire an investigator or tell her to tail him
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Your friend already knows … accepting it is another thing.
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He coming home for his needs to be taken care of so I wouldn’t jump the gun on this.
Mind your own business and just listen do not give advice. If you want to keep your friend support her only.
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It cost zero dollars to mind your business. Be a good friend by listening to her and helping her if needed but this is a them problem and you’re inserting yourself.
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Yeah it sounds like he’s a dog.
I guess I’m confused, she’s complaining that he wants to have sex with her more recently but you think he’s cheating? Typically when there’s cheating going on there’s a lack of sex happening between the partners.  sometimes it’s OK to just listen and be the friend that’s there to support, advice is not always needed.
He wnats to have sex wtih her to bypass what he is doing to her
Mind your own business and check your man! Oh…maybe you don’t have one so u invest your time in other people life
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Be a good listener. Be available for her to talk to. Be supportive in her efforts to try and save her marriage. Do not encourage her to confront him or leave him. Just listen. And if he is cheating and it all comes out, be there to support her; again, without trashing him. People split up and reunite all the time; and if you’ve talked badly about him, it may end your friendship.
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Well, maybe he’s trying to spice things up a bit? Using the same condoms can be boring, over and over again. Also, he wants to fuck his WIFE more, how is that…? Just how? Maybe he’s having some weird type of crush on the chick at his work, because hello, “work wife, work husband” we all know how that can be, but instead wants to do whatever on his wife instead of her. Who knows.
I suggest staying neutral while just being there listening to your friends concerns. We’re the condoms opened and used and she knows she wasn’t the one they were used on? Or did he just buy this brand because it was something new or they were out of what there normally have? And this coworker, whatever is going on between that needs to be transparent. And this communication needs to be between the couple. Only advice as a friend I’d give my friend is to keep an open line of communication and transparency between them and they should be fine. If he has anything to hide he will deny this simple healthy request.
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Nope he’s either already cheating or thinking of it bc a decrease or increase is usually a sign and the emailing the co worker and calling her is very suspicious.
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If she wants to give him the benefit of the doubt, let her. Just be there to listen. From the looks of this letter, nothing sounds like concrete evidence. Yeah he brought home flavored condoms, were any missing? Maybe he’s trying to spice things up. He’s been wanting to have more sex with his WIFE. Yeah, I wouldn’t use that to support the cheating argument. If she thinks he could be cheating, she just needs to keep her eyes open and do a little more investigating. 
Maybe he is just thinking of new girl with the wife😳
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Maybe they didn’t have the usual condoms. Maybe he just wanted to spice things up. The fact that he bought a different one doesn’t mean anything for certain. He wants more sex? Great, as long as he isn’t leaving the house to get it! I would be more concerned about the constant need to email or call the new co-worker but that as simple as telling him that I would prefer that he keep his work at the office and focus on me when he is home. If he cannot do that, then SHE might want to dig deeper. You should stay out of it.
I think you should mind your own business and let her navigate her own marriage.
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I would listen and be there for her. I wouldn’t get involved any more than I had to. Be there if they split up, but don’t say too much against him in case they get back together again. You don’t want her mad at you. It’s a ticklish situation. Try not to get caught in the middle.
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Dude, she needs to quit telling you her business! Her husband is still coming home to her AND having more s€x!!! Leave them alone
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Sounds like their business there Detective Too Much Free Time.
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Support your friend, listen to her and let her share her feelings. Try to remain neutral. Maybe suggest to her that it might be good to sit down with her husband and communicate with him. If she continues to sit and worry, resentment will build and everything will go downhill.
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Just be an ear for her. There’s nothing else you can do
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It’s when he’s not wanting sex that she should be worried. Don’t instigate with y’all’s assumptions.
Maybe the reason for the flavored condom is just to make it more tolerable for him to go down on her LOL
Well first mistake is him not making time for her only sexually now in my own life I’ve known the man to not sleep with u if he’s cheating so that’s strange but the coworker n him need to chill out if it’s affecting his wife’s feelings there’s no reason for it
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Her monkey, her circus!
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He interested in her.
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Tell her to read this!! Seriously! Or have her write down everything she is saying and then wait a few days, and give it to her & have her read it! If she can read it and not see it, something is wrong with her
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Thats not your business to be telling
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Not your husband NOT your problem, be a ear to her whenever she needs to talk
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He is definitely cheating
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My ex did that and then left our 10 year marriage for a coworker. She should put money away and leave him
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If he was already cheating he would probably be avoiding sex with her. Idk though bc it def sounds like he wants to if he hasn’t already.
Tell her to go to her gynecologist to check for sexually transmitted diseases. Although, it is great that they use condoms.
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Why would a husband and wife use condoms ?
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So he bought different condoms (for THEM), wants sex (with HIS WIFE) and his new coworker is helping him a lot…yup definitely must be cheating 
I say “Nunya!” All she needs to do is talk to her hubby.
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It’s not your marriage STAY OUT OF IT. Be a supportive friend listen but stay out of it don’t give her sneaky idea’s or suggestions about catching him etc. just be a friend and as a friend suggest she talk to her husband. Getting involved would not be good for your friendship for many dif reasons depending on what happens or comes to light or evolves from the situation with her husband. I helped a friend once leave her spouse help her pack a ND move out while he was at work cuz she asked me too months later she went back to him and we are no longer friends. Her husband stipulation bcuz I helped her leave and ultimately she laid it at my feet and let him believe I TALKED HER INTO IT. which I didn’t but still lesson learned
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It’s up to her to talk to her husband and find out what gives!
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Just be an ear and stay out of it… that’s there business
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Is this friend… you?
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Cheating. Or wanting to.
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she needs to handle her own shit 
Stay out of it,
It’s her business.
All you can do is to support her
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Tell her to quit whining she still has the ring, spend time with him
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First of all gtfo of your friends business. Just cause he bought different condoms doesn’t mean he’s cheating. Maybe he was having a reaction to the other ones so he innocently changed to another brand.
Just cause he’s talking to his co worker a lot doesn’t mean he’s cheating maybe he genuinely needs help from this person for his work.
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Mind your business. Stay out of it. Just be there to listen.
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I’m getting a divorce and this all seems so very familiar.
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If they use condoms maybe he wanted to try something different 
especially if they are flavoured doesn’t necessarily mean he is cheating, just because this co-worker at work has been helping him at work also doesn’t mean he is cheating. As for the constantly finding an excuse to email or text her that’s a little odd though and could be an indicator that he is cheating but she’d have to find proof of him cheating or it’ll just become more of a problem if there isn’t proof
I would say she has reason to be suspicious. At minimum his behavior is altered. If it were me I would go into spy mode and see if I could find out what they are talking about. Hopefully she has access to his phone.
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While I don’t think he’s physically cheating, it does sound like this new coworker has sparked something in him. That can hurt if it is directed at the new coworker and hes simply using the wife, but she should discuss it with him. Then, reap the benefits. He’s in the mood more, he’s spicing things ups, etc. go with it if its not something like that. He may not even be attracted to the new coworker; she may have said something that enspired him to tend to his wife more. I don’t really see a huge issue here yet. I would probably tell him the constant communication with her bothers me.
Be a friend, let her vent, and offer unbiased advice. I disagree with the ones saying stay out of it, no your friend came to you, be supportive but don’t jump to conclusions. As a friend if my friend comes to me I’m not going to “stay out of it” but I am going to let her lead and make her own choices. I’m strictly a sounding board, as my friends are for me. Good luck
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i think this is a made up scenario, but if all this is true the wife already knows the answer.
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Don’t listen to everyone saying “mind your business”. It’s easier to have the wool pulled over your eyes when your so close to something, tell her your honest opinion and support what she does with it.
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Uhh maybe tell your friend to start getting her husbands attention. Have sex with her husband. Try the flavored condoms. They’re married not dead so she should step her game up.