I’m so glad I dont have to go through this anymore
Ask him about it, but do some sleuthing before you speak to him.
Could be using them to masterbate
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He may have gave this a few test runs through to see how he reacted to them before presenting himself to you…self gratification
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He might be masturbating 🤷🏻♀
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You have 2 kids together so your entitled to snoop if you want! But yes, all I see are red flags! Confront him and tell him yes I was snooping, and your reason behind it… update up please on his response when you ask him about it.
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Ask him - why didn’t he tell you he got pills. Do you allow him to see your phone. The only reason someone would change a password is because they feel their information is being accessed- you may not be the reason - but it all comes down to communication- good honest communication 
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7 year itch is real.
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He’s hiding something. Try to watch him unlock his phone and then go thru it. You’ll never know if u ask him. Don’t let him know you counted the pills either.
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Maybe he wanted to see if they worked, or give him a head start so he’s not embarrassed??
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This is the 4th post I’ve seen with someone’s husband cheating. This is so sad…people need to grow up 
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Uh, no offense, he’s probably watching porn and entertaining himself now that he is able to again.
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I would confront him and ask why did u change your phone password and why didn’t you tell me about the pills don’t let him know you counted them tho he could possibly seeing if they worked to spice up the relationship in the bed room but like u said in post first time u guys did anything in three months just tell him I want complete honesty and go through his phone together if he gets mad about that and says no then u know he’s hiding something from you keep complete eye contact gotta watch for that poker face
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Never assume anything, maybe he wanted to see how and if they worked before he approached you. I think the problem is lack of trust since you counted his pills and now want to look through his phone. Talk to him, Communication is the key.
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You are supposed to take between 3-5 pills each time before you have sex. So with how many are missing he has only had sex once. Read the label on the bottle. That will clear things up for you.
He has to be. that’s too susp for my liking. I’m sorry, I’d wait to confront him. But keep a close eye, you might be able to catch him red handed. I’m so sorry
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My husband was advised to use them by himself to see how these pills worked, before we used them
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I feel like counting the pills were a little bit excessive. Changing the password was kinda weird I guess but I’ve never been a snooper and never felt like I had to go through my SOs phone but if that’s how your guys relationship is then that is kinda weird. Even tho counting the pills was a bit excessive, that is kinda suspicious that 4 were missing and maybe you had a right to do all that and your gut feeling is right. Dont freak out on him, just sit him down and try and have a conversation with him and dont accuse him of anything, just explain your feelings.
I’d confront him, it definitely sounds like he’s cheating u have all the right reasons to be worried! If he has nothing to hide then he will unlock his phone!
It not only helps with erections but also helps with fatigue and other stamina for men. So unless u find something different please trust he’s only with u. I know intuition in women run high… so do what u need.
Maybe you should talk. to. him. before you start snooping through his things, eh? Sure he’s a man, but he also deserves your respect & communication.
Depends on what the pill is and how it is prescribed! Some of those pills are prescribed to take on a daily basis… did you read the bottle properly? I knew a man that took his dose daily… then I knew another man that used his within a certain time frame before having sex… make sure you have the facts before you start making accusations!
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I wonder if he was trying them to see so he wasn’t embarrassed in front of you.
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Trust your instincts, but give him benefit of doubt. Talk, there may be legit reasons. But if his behavior persists or gets worse( more secretive) then I’d seriously think about ending it
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Could of took thinking was gona have sex with u and didnt happen so relieved himself. Dont think negative unless ur sure. Hell might gave couple to a friend lol
Possibly having some time on his own if you know what I mean? I’m not sure of he is. Into that but only other thing I can see why tabs missing
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He could have tried masturbating to porn to see if they work or how long the erection will last , maybe something innocent, talk to him if Ur overly concerned about it.
I totally understand your concern as this would appear a little strange to me too. But maybe he used them a few times without you but you know like doing it himself to see how it would work before being intimate with you. I’m sure for him he’s already feeling some type of way about having to take a pill to engage in sexual activity. He might be feeling a little self conscious too and wanted to make sure everything went well before doing anything with you to avoid anything embarrassing or bad happening. As a man, it literally kills their ego if they feel like they can’t pleasure their woman. So, I could see why he might have used a few for his own purposes (not involving anyone else) before using any with you. Changing his passcode is a little weird though. I mean I would just start with asking why he changed the passcode to his phone. I wouldn’t bring up you counted the pills or at least just yet.
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My husband said it sounds bad. He said he could see him using one or just to try them out. But it sounds like he’s cheating.
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Speaking from experience… is it possible he took it and then things couldn’t happen? The kids had a bad night? You had a bad day? Don’t immediately jump to cheating.
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Don’t worrie about it…
When there is a age gap especially being 14 years, older his testosterone as dropped… I had a Ex 16 years younger and I would go months without 
… She would go mad… Being younger she couldn’t get to grips with it… That’s the only trouble in a age gap relationship…
I wanted a rocking chair and she wanted a rocket… Its normal for you to feel neglected just like it’s normal for him to be hanging is boots up… Now I’m 50 I can go with or without it, I’m not bothered… which puts males in a position of power because women don’t have the ability to seduce anymore.which they suddenly relise to there horror?? … … BTW my ex as moved on as she couldn’t handle the shift from rabbit to tortoise… So you have a choice enjoy the emotional surport with less frequent sex or move to a younger stallion…
You can’t change nature and the aging of a male…
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Can be the dose he has to take daily.
Maybe he is watching porn and just trying out the tablets? If you are a strong couple he wouldn’t look elsewhere. Changing his password could simply be he’s watching porn.
He might have taken them thinking he was going to see how it goes with you but you acted like you weren’t in the mood or you guys started arguing or he might have just tested them out. And it’s 5 not 4 pills
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My husband has to take them and the dr told him that to figure out what amount is right, it can take 1 up to 5 pills. No more than that in a 24 hr period.
Is there been a couple of times lately that he might have tried to initiate but you may have fallen asleep or something ? He may have taken it befor hand and it just hasn’t happened between you two ? It seems very weird and counter productive to go and buy the pills just to cheat …. Why get them so you can have sex and not have it with your partner. I wouldn’t think he is cheating
Communication is the key… be upfront and honest with him. If he jumps the gun and gets defensive and aggravated then chances are he is going elsewhere but he could get embarrassed and feel inadequate coz he needed to take them. Don’t confuse the two. Talk to him and just ask
Talk but, don’t say you counted the pills. Just ask and say it’s just a feeling you have.
Snoop away !! Go into the Phone records.
Keep a tab count those pills in another month and you will tell
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Maybe he took a few and used is own body parts to see how he’s going to react. It’s not uncommon for men to pleasure themselves from time to time
Just talk to him. Communication is key you will know if something is up by the way he talks to you.
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he might be testing them, not a stupid thought. like id wanna know if they work, for how long, and if they would help, so if he uses the rest on you think nothing of it. otherwise, dont tell him you are counting them but keep doing it then when they are gone say who tf you use all your wood pills on motherf****
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Is this prescription medication
Or an over the counter medication ?
If it’s a prescription medication
His dr may have prescribed this for another reason
Its not uncommon for men or women to loose their sex drives as they get older
As for changing his pin code on his phone
You need to have that discussion with him
Without knowing the whole situation
We are just assuming
Its
This, that or the other
Maybe he isn’t wanting it out of fear “it” won’t work? I would talk to him about it, but don’t say you counted pills!
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I would def be concerned . Tell him open the phone
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OP can we have an update plz?
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I’m 40 and I had to take some pills 2 years ago due to not performing like I used too.i took 2 pills daily. So it seems to me that he is taking them due to ED (ERECTILE DISFUNCTION) so you don’t really have anything to worry about. But just have a conversation with him. And be empathetic because most men won’t admit that they have that problem.
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The directions actually suggest to use it alone first…just to see how they work…
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No reason to change his passcodes tho. Or take that many pills on his own. Sounds like he may be up to something? I’d dig a little before confronting him and giving him a chance to hide and make up excuses.
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Maybe he was just checking them out solo to see how they do first, before doing it with you.
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Just changing his password on his phone would be enough reason to be suspish.
One or two pills as a tester would be reasonable to ignore but…Those two things together and I’d be making a plan to leave. Speak to a lawyer. You’re not being paranoid. Get proof with a private investigator or something and make sure you get what’s fair for you and the kids.
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Communication is key. He very well could have taken the 3 just to see if they’d even work…what I’m saying is that his hand could have very well been the one he tried them out with. All I’m saying is that with a situation like this it doesnt hurt to ask questions.
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Just so you know Testosterone is a big part of a man’s life NOT just sex I would know I give my husband a shot every two weeks.
He could have just been planning to have sex with you tried them they didn’t work, lost a few pills. Ima be honest cheating would be exactly where my mind would go but there’s a couple different reasons
Just wondering in the past year while yal have been just roommates have you noticed anything else? Has he been attentive and loving to you? Has his routine changed ? Does he go out alone?. Has he been to Dr for testosterone check up…
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Could be pharmacy miscounted them also. Happened to me all the time with my meds.
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Seriously only 5 missing most medications take atleast 2 weeks to get in your system…
Take a deep breath and quit feeling insecure do you not know the new passcode? If your address anything let that be it
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Maybe he took the other pills to see what they would do… changing a password says nothing…I change mine frequently… talk with him first before jumping to conclusions
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Eh could be wackin? Tmi buttttt I mean if he’s a curious guy and tried before he tried with you (trail and error)but if he’s been texting or being odddd or susss thennnn ya knoo
Maybe he didn’t want you to see he was researching the pill or something embarrassing pertaining to it:woman_shrugging:t2: everything will come to light 
remember your feelings are not facts… hang in there
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Not even going to read it. But yes he’s probably cheating.
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Your phones dead ask to borrow his and oh oops I locked it what’s your password? 
. As read before my relationship is so open my husbands phone unlocks with my face 
we have no secrets
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Tbh speak with him first. He probably watching se pxrn on his phone while trying out the pills first and doesn’t want u to see. Talk to him first b4 doing anything
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He was most likely trying them out on his own first to see if they consistently worked, I’m sure that he didn’t want to have this big build up over how well they work then nothing happened… It would’ve made him feel worse.
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Definitely cheating changing pass code alone saids it all
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He could’ve just been trying them out on his phone if u know what I mean (porn) lol
Our intuition is never wrong, go through his phone or phone records have the concrete proof before you call him out but be prepared before hand have all your ducks in a row to live without him before you actually take that first step, try to mentally prepare yourself for the worse.
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4 pills is a lot. Maybe trust your intuition and look through your husbands phone. What your saying now is not enough to confront him but if you feel like something is off then trust that feeling and do some investigating. I can’t tell you how many times I just had a feeling about something and it turned out to be right. Even when I didn’t find anything, things came to the light and I remembered that I felt that something was wrong during that time. You have to trust your husband but you also have to listen to your intuition. Keep us updated.
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How can you be sure that he hasn’t taken the ‘little blue pill’ before but it hasn’t given him the desired effect immediately. Perhaps the 5th one actually worked for him hence he performed and the future can be rosie. Don’t put your marriage in jeopardy on such a whim and hopefully you will be proved wrong…
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Could of tried them by 
to see results first , IMO men seem to be a bit insecure about their preforming
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He could of just tryed them to see if they help,
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Id just talk to him about how your feeling and ask him how’s feeling be opened and listen to each other
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Well you are doing your best to drive him to it!
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Cheat. Leave him if you can he won’t change. Soon his dick won’t work at all and all he’ll have is himself!
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Okay so, do you feel like he’s cheating? Like really feel it? My baby’s dad takes them cuz he cant stay hard and he has admitted he uses his pills or injections for masturbation to “feel normal”. I know he wasn’t cheating. Also, if his buddies know he takes them they may ask for them as well and are willing to pay even. Guys are dumb. 
just my two cents. Oh, and about the passcode, I’d ask straight up and right away.
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Follow him and see where he goes or try to figure his passcode out ! He probably is cheating ! Most men wouldn’t go that long without getting any !
It’s worth keeping your eyes open to the possibility.
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I’d say ask him about it and if he gets mad and really defensive then chances are he is cheating.
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