Could this mean the guy I causually hooked up with has feelings for me?

I have a weird quesiton…I hooked up with this guy for like 5 months straight a few years ago…i moved away and we kinda stopped talking…it was fun while it lasted and that was that…he has always been weird with his feelings…but he still texts me every few months and i always feel like he wants to say something about hsi feelings but he never does…he is very closed off…after this long though and me not contacting him at all…does this mean he could hold some kind of feelings for me? i mean its not like we can hook up anymore as we are a thousand miles apart…so part of me wonders if this means he likes me more than he let on and cant stop thinkin about it…or am i over thinkin things here? i mean im not stopping my life for him until he says thing with his chest…but just curious

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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Could this mean the guy I causually hooked up with has feelings for me?

I doubt it. More like he wants to get laid again

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maybe ask him straight up

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Hes saying next time your around yall should hook up.

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Man this is 2022 now. We gotta learn to communicate. It sounds like you’re not a mind reader. How the hell can he be ? :joy:

He’s keeping his booty call options open in case he’s ever in the area.

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Sounds like a waste of time to me

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Sounds like you also have feelings for him that you don’t want to admit.
Y’all were hooking up for almost half a year. Someone inevitably is gonna catch feelings.

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Sounds like he misses what you use to have…

Some men keep up with the women they meet. I doubt if he has romantic feelings since he hasn’t been around you. Men just don’t automatically fall head over hill for someone that they hardly ever see.

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If you have to ask then you already know…

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Sounds like you have feelings for him and he wants ya booty! How old are you guys?

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Why are you worried about it

:woman_facepalming:t3::woman_facepalming:t3: closed off? He isn’t dead, I promise you, if he had feelings for you, he would tell you.

Unless, he is playing games… in which, you don’t need.

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Are you sure you are not the one with the feelings lol not sure what’s making you think he has feelings for you. Maybe he just would check up every few months because you are a friend that he cares about.

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Kinda sounds like every few months get goes out, has a good night,catches a buzz and messages ppl just cause.

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He might just wanna be friends. Or wild idea :sparkles:ask him :sparkles:

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What I’m getting from this is that you have feelings for him

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Your both adults, just ask him🤦‍♀️

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You’re on his mind for some reason so there is some sort of fondness. Could be friendship, keeping options open or more. Ask him!

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Babe. You are a booty call.

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Sounds like he misses the sex and not you or the relationship. This is quite common with someone you didn’t had a serious relationship with. It seems like you are the one that still nurtures feeling for him, but he is definitely not on the same page.

You should just ask him. There’s no way any of us can really answer this question for you.

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It kinda sounds like YOU have feelings for him. But I’ve been in this situation.

There was a guy who, if we were both single, we would hook up. Every so often he would reach out with the “hey stranger” line. It was basically a feeler… like trying to find out if I had moved back to the area, was single etc. It was never anything more than a hook up.

If he had feelings, you would know it.

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Prob wanting noods lol

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It seems like you have developed feelings for him and are wondering or hoping he feels the same. Since you are a thousand miles apart, you need to decide what do you want or expect out of this. If it’s a relationship, then you need to ask him how he feels about you and you will know where you stand.

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Definitely not an indicator of feelings. He probably wants nudes or to keep his options open in case you’re ever in town again

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I think you have feelings for him and you need to just be honest and tell him. Worse that can happen he doesn’t feel the same and you move on which is better than being in the land of wonder

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I dont think it’s a booty call and truth of the matter is he probably isn’t looking for a relationship with you… but I do think he genuinely likes and cares for you and probably even considers you a friend. If you want to know if it’s anything more or less than that ask him.

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No lmfao he doesn’t like you. He wants nudes or sex. You sound like you might tho the way you’re overthinking it

if sex is great & you only see each other every so often, He does like you, but doesn’t love you, So take the sex & be happy or stop seeing him

Probably wants to rub one out because you let him for so long

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You need to ask HIM. We can all guess and speculate, but he will have the true answer :heart:

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Why don’t you ask him?

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Ask him say i feel like you want to say something but i get the feeling your having trouble with it

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Intimacy is complicated.
I still check on friends I haven’t talked to in months and they often don’t reply, but I want them to know they still matter to me.
This isn’t the same as having deeper feelings for them, and I hope I don’t make them uncomfortable.
That said, he totally could have lingering regret that you only hooked up…it does sound like you’re hoping by your use of “until he says”…
Good luck. :rose:

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No. Most of like to check on people from our past. Means nothing unless he says it does

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If a man wants you, you know. There’s no guessing, no questioning it, no games.

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I’m gonna vote “no”. Mostly because, as an adult, it’s hard to maintain yourself and then your relationships with the people around you. I’ll go a month or two without saying something to some of my extended friends who are long distance. When we do talk, we never skip a beat, but we all know that life is pretty consuming and respect that.

I think this guy likes you enough to go out of his way to check up on you, but if he really had feelings, he would definitely want to keep himself in the forefront of your mind by messaging you at least weekly. Don’t overthink and flat out ask him if you are questioning his motives. You’ll never know the truth until you do.

If things get weird and he stops texting you, at least you won’t be losing a person who is in your life everyday.

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ask him, not a bunch of strangers who don’t know him or what his feelings are.

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He probably text you when he is horny

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Mmm… why are YOU thinking about it this deeply? Maybe that’s the real question you should be asking yourself.

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Ok. This is all I’m going to say. Ask the men you know. Brothers? Friends you do not have that type of relationship with & don’t plan to. The reason I say this is, majority of people commenting on here are women. Nothing wrong with that, no insult meant. However, it’s from their pov or them thinking that’s what a man is thinking, or it has been their personal experience! But you do not know them at all. That’s not good or bad. So much goes into all that though! Ex: Some women like just booty calls, some women have a list, are overly emotional, date men like their dads, have too high or low expectations, I mean the list can go on and on!
So, yes, have the honest convo. Or ask men their honest opinions, or let it go.

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Totally over thinking it.

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I’m voting a huge NO

I think you’re the one with feelings not him.

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People get lonely he’s probably just checking in, no big deal

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Just be straight and ask. Tell him to be honest and see what he’s got to say. Tbh being with a closed offish person is hard AF. A lot of men can’t express their feelings well or at all. Most of the time I gotta pry to get my husband’s true feelings on a matter. Sigh. He’s gotten better with time though.

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I think you’re the one who has feelings and you’re reading into this wayyy to much :rofl:

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Honey, if you like him, just tell him.

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Just come out and ask. Can’t hurt.

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I have flings still check in on me sometimes :woman_shrugging: I’m in a happy, healthy, committed relationship. Some of my flings are too, some still single living their best life. A simple “hey, how’s it been, hope things are well” isn’t a clear sign of interest. It could just mean he values you as a person and likes to see how it’s goin on your lil world. Why not just ask him if he has feelings? Worst case scenario, he says no/yes and you have your answer but things are now awkward :woman_shrugging: Just explain to him why you have the idea and that you just want to ensure where you two stand with one another. Simple as that. If he doesn’t, he shouldn’t be bothered by you asking.

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Nah… this is you. He would have said something by now.

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He misses you … if there is no chance of a hook up and he is still chatting to you he is still thinks about what you had.

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Sounds like a good friend

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Well, do you also hold some kind of romantic feelings towards him? Just tell him how you feel or maybe you guys can just be friends

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He might wonder what could have been?

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Not interested he’s just seeing if you can be his price of meat again

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Horny and lonely… Could see him asking for nudes. :no_good_woman:t3:

Just ask? Like idk why we are having this discussion just ask him.!!!

I wouldn’t give it much thought since he’s so far away. Continue on with your life, and if you reconnect later the universe will make it happen.

naw girl, he messages you to keep you hooked. if he wanted to be with you, a man will let you know and do what ever in his power to keep you beside him, not let you move thousands of mile away where he cant be near you. move on and find a man who will do anything to keep you, treat you right, give you that title (girlfriend/fiancé/wife).

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Uhm if you aren’t interested and don’t care don’t respond and move on. That’s what hook ups are situational and purpose serving. I guess I wouldn’t care if some dude I was banging missed me- he should but you need to ask why you are caring about it? Are you going to marry this dude if he suddenly decides he cares? He’s more likely about oh I wish I still had this easy sex only situation. So you figure yourself out first and move on. Your obsessing makes it sound like you want him to have feelings for you- why?